ravergirlzzz

Hi everyone! I've came to know about this site since my break up two weeks ago and till now i've tried to survive to these pains...but now I can no more wake up,eat,drink or sleep without thinking about him...Since three days i've been dreaming about him,and when i think about him it is as if my little heart is breaking into pieces!!! i can no more live like that in pains...Last week I didn't want to go out and instead i bothered myself about him! What should I do please???Help me

Hi again! Maybe there's something going wrong about your sister's relationship with that guy! I think that your sister is afraid to break up really with that guy and I think you should why! Talk to your sister about the children! Ask her why she gives birth to these two innocents! Ask her if she care about the future of her children! Most of the children suffering from these family cases usually go in the wrong way! Hope I was able to help you, Take care

Hi Fritz, I think that you and your parents should have a sort of meeting with your sister so that you, all can talk about this problem, coz I think that these children might be suffering in a way and the fact that your sister's boyfriend is not their father he will not care about the fact that these children are suffering. You being an adult you also should try to bring your sister somewhere and talk to her about the facts of his bf coz I think that she is going in the wrong way! Think that you lack family contacts! Hope I was able to help you ravergirlzzz

hey Mikey! Wake up... U should not feel like that! Y are you punishing yourself for such thing!??? It's not your fault! Maybe it was better that she tells you that she does not love you if it is so! Would you like her pretending that she loves you when it is not so! Mikey I'm also in the same situation like you... my Bf and I just broke up one week ago but i'm still alive eating,sleeping etc.... take your story with ur ex gf as an experience of life! This will strenghten you,like me... Go out with friends...go to movies...go dancing! make plans.... BUT DON"T KILL URSELF MY DEAR

Hi! how are you? hope that you are doing fine!Actually your story is really long...sorry i'm not used to read long stuff but this time i said to myself that i've got to help like others did to me! my situation seems to be the same as you and ur gf...Actually my bf did piss off on me last week and i was really depressed...i could give that peanut all love and affection that he wanted but unfortunately he break his promise...i'll tell you quickly my story...i won't be boring you! we've been 2 years together and last year everything changed! I was doing my last year at college and he told me that he was busy and didn't had a single time for me...we lived about 15 mins by car from each other and actually we saw each other once a month...CAN YOU IMAGINE THAT!!! he then told me that when i'll be in holidays in nov and dec,he'll be mine! I waited for that impatiently and finally comes nov and dec and he found a story telling me that he was really busy with work coz of Xmas etc...this year i'll be going to Australia for my further studies and we made a promise last yr that we shall not fly away from the country before i go to australia...he swear...and guess wht happened two weeks ago ...he told me that he had to go to work in South Africa and he'll be back in two more weeks...i told him that when he'll be back we'll have only 2 weeks to spend together and he told me that would be ENOUGH!!!(we won't see each other for a year) when you are deeply truly in love this really hurts!!!So the day he went,'i get connected on the net and found that site...this site really helped me...the best thing is to relate your story and get helped by friends! you should not regret the fact you've been with your GF!!! think that you've done a good experience.... even you've been knowing the person for quite long....he/she might not be the right person for you...coz the latter may eventually changed like my stupid EX! try also to read the tips on this site...read wht happened to others when they broke up!!! Now try to find other friends.... go out...go to movies...for a swim... since my BF went away...I feel like breathing fresh air coz we were always breaking up mostly everyday.... the only thing that i really wish is that not to see him again....for god sake.... think that your ex gf was not the only girl in that big world... and please Jason stop counting days since she hadn't phone you...you'll get more depressed! think about your future.... you've got a work...GreaT!!! try to organise your life... when you wake up...you go to work...meet your colleagues...then after work...make plans with them or with other friends!!! So Jason wht are you waiting for!!! stop waiting for a call... hope that i was enough convincing and not annoying! Ravergirlzzz

don't know if i've done the right thing.... despite i've break up ...i still think about him.... the big problem is that i'm trying to make an effort to forget him but unfortunately despite the long distance he is still calling me at home and i know when he'll be back in 10 days,he will try his best to meet me or talk to me..... what should I do? or tell him?

we've been together for nearly 2 yrs and unfortunately since 10 months he is no more the same person...i've break-up beacause of conflicts and now i really want to forget him...i'm as if addicted to him... today he just went away to South Africa for 10 days and i can't live a minute without thinking about him....HELP plz