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  1. If you are a suspicious person and hold off because of your nature, the main issue you need to deal with is trust in yourself. What I mean by this is the knowledge you have the power to direct the outcome of any interaction with another person. To open to other people is to share your experiences, so if Jack is talking about his child adventures, when he is finished share some of your own, its like bringing money to the poker table. You can always read the book "How to win friends and influence people" jam packed with killing material.
  2. Read MenAreFromMarsWomenAreFromVenus it will help you understand the dynamic of the male mind. If you want I can email the ebook version of it to you.
  3. Read this book called "He just not into you". There no right answer all depend what skill level the guy is at, what he has read that day ...... But as a gerneal if he is not calling you after a week your one of many on his list or off it as the case maybe. There are fish in the sea stop focusing on one.
  4. How much is too much the simple answer over due it till you get told off then you will know it to much. "confident, dominant, control-taking, assertive" What this mean is do not be a wussy around women be playful, funny and coc*y at the same time, take nothing at face value, make yourself the prize and not the other way around. Just hang around cool guys who are naturally good with women is the best advice anyone can give, the reset are just concepts you will only find truth in when they present themselves to you in reality.
  5. Ever seen a guy around a sport car ? He is causally walking looking at the ground, sees THE CAR, stops completely WOW WOW WOW .... then he stares at the shine for 5 mins straight as he hovers around it and then walks away. So take it as a big compliment, especially since most women have more gears than the sport car to shift for top speed.
  6. Read a concept packed book and discuss those concepts together. Magazines help as well
  7. If the Guy turns out to be somebody sweet I doubt your dad would care terribly, where you met. However if you told him about the meeting and he said NO and then later on you get involved, then he will get upset. If you want to gain your father respect BIG TIME let your man meet your father first and ask him to ask you out. That would impress him.
  8. The question is your safety really. If you tell your best friend and she comes with you on your first meeting you can skip telling your parents, because they will worry about your safety and will most likely advise you not to meet this guy, which is understandable. It really depends on your relationship with your parents, some Dads will be cool about it and send your Bro with you as backup as an example, others will ban your computer access for life . There are some choices in life you can only make and this is one of them. Good Luck.
  9. Hmmm Practice in front of the mirror doing fake expression on you face once you can do them on call, use when approperiate. Air Kiss - after you said something funny and or co*ky make a kissing sound and give a pretend kiss. Say something serious then bump her as* with yours playful like, you might get into a as* bumping match. Go to kid school ground for some more ideas.
  10. Met some new ppl so you can focus on your positive past not your current negative situation.
  11. Let me think Go for a sunset walk together then at some point grab her hand and moving close to her face bring the hand up as if to kiss it and say something like "Hmmm I can't decide weather to hold your hand as a friend for another 4 years or to kiss you as my girl friend for the rest..." Then without completing the sentence lean in a little bit more and tilt your head as if to kiss her on the lips, pull back and kiss her hand as if it was her lips for like 5 or 10 secs. Evaluate the reaction and follow the flow.
  12. Agree with the above, remember man you don't have to be perfect !! BUT DO NOT Admit you are a J^CKASS About the letter: you need two things, mystery and a challenge So: Hi Interesting last night, got me thinking...... Lets see if you can strike two, for two at two at See you there. Good Luck 8)
  13. It may sound old fashion, but writing letters or simply writing is an awesome way of thought transfer. When ever i need to forget something i write it down, it is like giving yourself permission to forget. Its equally helpful to do when you need to express your feelings. Glad to see things are fairly well on the high seas. "After great hardship comes great relief" - This is a fact of life so things are going to get only better..... Good Luck
  14. - Waste of money and will not solve the cause of the problem. Remember you don't have to be perfect, you have to just manage one day at a time. My advise is to go to your family and ask for a one or two day break so you can do something relaxing or form a single mums' support group, a simple add in the newspaper would get attention and to startup your group. I hope the freelance work keeps coming your way.. Take Care and be imperfect for a day, SuperMum is an ideal, not a practicality.
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