Angelus

I'm a lover so I like women of all races and they're all great in their ways. I'd put it more like rock paper scissiors, they have their strenghts and their weaknesses. The only way u'll know is to find out.

I agree with all of them Ginny, the key to great sex is communication. If he doesn't know what pleases you, how can you hold it against him if you don't tell him urself? I agree not all guys are the same and some are just more intuitive than others and some are just natually good at it but again if he's not hittin the spot, you gatta let him know.

Make sure he puts the condom on correctly. If the condom broke, that means that he did not squeeze the air out of the tip and when he ejaculated, the pressure caused the rupture. For a more safe apporach, go on the pill and make sure he continues to use condoms or have him pull out when he ejaculates.

Look sometimes women don't even know what they want which is why instead of dancing around petting up u should be more assertive. Just ask her out in a calm full posture voice. What I mean is this, don't ever ask a woman out with uncertainty in your voice and whatever you do, don't come off as a wuss. Show her hey, "I'm a man of confidence I know what I want and I go for it." "Hya doing, look friday night I booked two tickets to this show, and was looking for someone to compliment me, so 7pm after you would have gone and gotten dressed, I'll be at your house to pick you up." Now I know the rest of you are like "No way man that won't work!" the thing most guys don't understand is that attraction isn't a choice, nor is it logical. Women love control, they love having guys be wussies so they could step over them. Ask a woman if she likes overly nice guys and she'll tell you know, bc they're annoying. Since she's already made the first move, now it's time for you to make a better move. If you want to create attraction inside of a woman, you have to get used to the idea of never being tamed, caught, "gotten", or owned. This entire concept requires that you do things exactly opposite of what your emotions may tell you. You may be having a great conversation on the telephone and every fiber of your being wants to keep talking, but to increase the attraction you need to hang up and leave her on a high note, wanting more. This makes sense because women are more inclined to pursue something that's not certain to always be there than something that can be had whenever it's wanted. Give it a shot and call me in the morning.

Women love confidence in men, when you ask her out say it with stature, don't sound like a whimp, bc women hate wussies. Be refined, gentlemen like and just ask her. Don't ever ask a woman like this: "You don't wanna go out sometime do you?" More than likely she'll of a way out of it. Try this. "I have nothing to do on Friday night and a great movie just came out, let's go see it and after that let's grab something to eat and chill." Show that you think ahead, and always try to set plans; she'll respect u more for it.

I think that's just what you need to do. See if you force her hand by getting another girl close to you will force her to act upon that. What I've realized is this, you can't be too clingly to women you like bc they'll see you as frienship teddy bear material instead of lover material. Women are very competative give her competition don't hook up with any other girls but keep more girls around you and that will make her more inclined to take you up on your offer.

Just call him once in a while to see how he's doing. You can email him to but keep him at a distance.

The only thing you can do boo, is love and respect yourself for who you are bc that's enough. There are many guys out there that would find you very attractive. You think the supermodel look is universally accepted? Not it's not, that's a false, fallacious outlook on what women look like. Check out the new dove commercials, they show what real women are, it's time men we show our women that they are beautiful just the way they are, too many women lose their lives trying to be perfect. Look at Terry Schiavo--God rest her soul--she died trying to live up to a stupid ideal of being thin. Don't get caught up in that rat race, bc many have been hurt by it. 150 ain't bad at all, if man thinks ur heavier than him then too bad for him, you can't please everyone, but you can sure please yourself.

It's guys like him that screw things up for the rest of us, don't even sweat gurl, the right guy will come along and wisk you away. He will regret what he did to you so don't let this situation piss you off, ur a woman there are many guys out there looking for good women; make yourself available again.

Hell no gurl! You are perfect to me. In fact in the Bahamas gurl das pump! (really fine standard) I mean over here we don't do the weight watchers thing, our women gat big booty and das how we like em. You pump gal, don't ever feel you too overweight.

Avi....as for compromise with this relationship...I believe that time has come and gone. Now you need to evaluate your situation and decide what is best for Avi...where does Avi go from here? I can see that you really care about him and if he lets you go then it's his loss not yours.

I don't headaches but sometimes after a while ur jaw and tonuge may feel overworked. But hey I don't mind,

yeah flowers are good and roses are too pushy for the first time maybe later on you can send her roses--if you do make sure you send her like yellow roses then move onto pink and red as things get deeper. daffodils are great for a first bouquet, some candy can help as well. may the force be with you.

You are very much right. I'm a guy and I can tell you, testosterone is a pain during those years. If I fine gal walk past you whisper to ya boy; "yo, u'd hit dat?" LOL. Those were the days.

There is a technique that may be able to help you. Since you already do kegel this will make it a whole lot better. While on top, make sure he's deep inside of you and just rock back and forth DO NOT THRUST UP AND DOWN. By doing this, you stimulate the clit, the g-spot and the epicentre (the area just before the cervix) This will give you a mind shattering orgasm and it will feel as though your orgasm erutps like a volcano. PM me so that I can send you the link for the site where you can get more info on this as we cannot post links in the forum portals.