Araxoth

I think a meal and a walk, as you suggested, would be a damn good idea... You seem to have it all figured out already

The girl I'm going out with was a friend to me for months, before I asked her out via email. That was 3 months ago, and all is still going smoothly. You can't generalise with situations like this.

GO FOR IT! My current partner was a friend for quite some time before we got together. Worked out great for me.

Just one. If you're going to write her a note, have the decency to hand it to her personally. Just give it to her, and tell her to read it later, or something. Don't have people running around with your notes... It makes it appear that you're scared.

A fantastically inspiring post. Well said, maverick. This thread should be kept where it's easily noticed. Good job mate.

You haven't said how old you are...

that's a bit unclear... you think who likes who?

Try to find out stuff that she's interested in, then go and start a conversation with her... If you have the same interests, then something like, "Hi. I hear you like [something]. I'm into that too" and then you'll start to talk, hopefully... If she has different interests, then something similar to, "Hi. I understand you're into [something]. Don't know much about that, but I was curious..." You get the idea

1) There is no 'right' or 'wrong' way.... Just whatever feels best for you. 2) Not sure about that. Sometimes there is a few minutes afterwards when the "left-overs" start coming out, but this doesn't happen if you're very aroused in the first place. 3) Nope. 4) And nope again. . Just don't let it interfere with more important things...

...Following the principle that pessimists are never disappointed...

go to link removed and download the latest version of messenger, then try again.

Oops. I did a double-post. But i couldn't delete this one, so i changed it to this.

Ok.... MSN messenger... To see if she has added you to her contact list, sign in, click "tools" at the top, and then "options". On the options menu, click the "privacy" tab at the top. You should see some writing that says, "See who has added you to their contact list", and a "view" button next to it. Click the "view" button. And asking here out... It doesn't have to be in person. I asked my current girlfriend out by email. >---]_Araxoth_[---

depends what messenger service you're using...

Here's a subject that a lot of people aren't willing to talk about , but they're pretty narrow-minded, so here I go... If you read on pretty much any website focussing on masturbation, you'll probably be surprised to see that it is something that most people, both male -and- female, do regularly. There's nothing wrong with it - it's a natural way to relieve the sexual tension you can feel during certain times in life, or simply as a way of enjoying yourself! Don't worry about it 8) , and I can guarantee that at least 60% of the girls in your class masturbate too!