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k so i've been dating this girl for 2 years now and it all started naturally and it has been GREAT. Breaking up was never an option from both of us whenever we got in a conflict. we just worked at it and made it better. lately we dont have the same conversation interests... not that one of us is more stupid, just that we are different in that SPECIFIC field of interest. other than that we love eachother and i dont see myself with anyone else as she doesnt see herself with another guy. now one and the most obvious solution is to break up... which we both DONT want, so thats why im appealing to this site. i need suggestions on how to solve this. we cant be fake. thnx

well lol sorry to brake it to you guys but the relationship is not over... in fact things were going very very good for both of us since

k so i've been dating this girl for a year now and we really love eachother. we never lie or lied to eachother and we always talked about problems when we had any. now she has been in edmonton ( i live in calgary ) for the past 5 months at U of A. things rather went down due to long distance but, seeing eachother every second/third week gave us the strenght to hold on to eachother. This being my/her first serious relationship, we decided that in the summer, when she plans on going to europe with her family, to have an OPEN relationship! That means, from what i know anyways, that we can try new stuff like dating (not neccessarily sex ), flirting and looking for someone else. with one condition only: the assumption that after all this possible adventure she will have there, after all the guys she can "try" or whatever, she would still come back to me.... saying that probably makes me look like im waiting for something thats possible of not coming @ all. and by that i mean that if she finds herself a guy there that she would love and forget about me, then yes *my loss. The thing is that when she leaves, we established that i am going to go out and "explore" this whole relationship stuff as well, thing that im not too keen on just for the simple fact that its more confortable to have a gf then to look for one(lol). being the situation, the decision WE took and the fact that im going to go with it, my question and also dillema is: will i ever love this girl again after maybe i find someone else? or should i wait until she comes back and take a decision from there... should i start looking the moment she's gone ? what do some of you suggest ? thank you in advance

thats exactly how i feel about this... after a long time to think about it, it came to me that im just 19! and im in college 2 so ill make it official to my gf soon

hey there... i am in the EXACT situation as you are... she left a month ago to another city for university, living in rez... she always tells me how much fun it is there and that she likes being independent... at first i was jealous, but then i realised its reality... maybe id feel the same if i was living in rez... ( btw i went to her rez and even though she says on the phone that its awsome, personally i hate it.. id rather live home 1000X more than there ), she moved so she made new friends, i have my old friends that are getting more and more mature, and ofcourse i made new friends @ my college... - as for a LDR.. trust me i would totally encourage you to carry it on... but if you want to be realistic, forget about her... if you 2 are meant to be together, you will be, maybe after college or later in life. dont waste your time being mad all the time your gf is not with you.. live your life ( and by this i dont mean be a whore ) try other girls, maybe you'll find a better one or maybe you'll just realise how good your gf is.. its really up to you, in these situations nothing matters except what you know and feel good luck in whatever your decision is !

i know its over and neither me or her are stupid... and we were deeply in love but due to long distance it all faded... you cant love someone whom you cant touch or see.. as for the "only 2 french kisses" it was proposed by me and i've kissed other girls and she has kissed other guys... it is amazing how life can stab you in the back just when you thought you had it all... neither of us did anything wrong in this relationship but life has its ways... love will come agian... as for me giving my full best to a woman, it will never happen again... ! thank you all for all your replies

she is allowed to date them but anything sexual related is banned.. 2 french kisses MAXIMUM per guy.... i know this sounds like legal cheating... but if it helps us be happy later then im gonna do the same things with other girls... even tho i know its wrong from the people's we "try" side

hi everyone im coming here for help into trying to figure out something very important in my life... i have been dating my gf for 6 months now and she just recently moved in another city for university... we are deeply in love judging by the way things went when she was here.... but now she says that she doesnt know what to feel and proposed an open relationship... after setting limits to that, we agreed to have one... this meaning her "trying out" random guys "to see what the difference between me and them is" (nothing sexual, mainly personality based)... which donesnt bother me... the thing that bothers me is that she is being a little too spoiled.... like i feel the same way i did before she left.. same level of love if not even more but she has to see how good i am in comparison to others in order to appreciate me.... that is my quesiton and the topic of this is this NORMAL ? like if we get married, will this go on into an "open marriage"? because i know 100% i wouldnt be able to do that ! she moved away about 2 months ago...

oh she wont be surprised but it will hit her when shes least expecting it... i just need to figure out a place and time... we dont have a special place so i want it to be good...

see the thing is i dont want it to be "classic" or " old school " for me those terms = lame... so please rule out the restaurant and the picnic and help me with some new ideas

yes but do i ask her to mary me even tho we're just getting engated ?

hi everyone im 20 and my gf is 19, we've been dating for about 8 months now and we really love eachother... everything between us came natural... both of us want to get married but because we're still too young for that, we decided to get engaged and stay like that for a while, see how things are going and go from there... now my question is What question should i ask her( for getting engaged) and how should i make her a surprise by asking her this... or better yet HOW TO APROACH IT ? some tips on where and how would be welcome as well

me and my gf are very sexually active and we both got tested, she's on pills so we do it without a condom... now it takes me about 5 min to orgasm and it takes her about 10... if i try to keep back and go slower then she'll take even longer... what should i do to make myself go longer with no orgasm so she can orgasm first ? thanks

drydupfob yes i heard that from someone else... but now i will definatly go get some in about 1.5 years i gained about 30 pounds of muscle so considering the fact that i was pretty skinny before i think its normal for the marks... but they look bad... hopefully that cream will work for me thanks 0X

hi everybody i have been workin out for a year and a half now and i can see pretty big results... but not all are good ones.... for example i have some nasty stretch marks near my arm pits, after going to the doctor he told me theres nothing he can do, if i want them to stop growing i must stop working out... does anybody know how to heal stretch mark wounds ? ( and stop working out is not an option for me ) thanks