daiseybaby5823

it sounds as though there is an intamcy lack in your relationship and it sound as though by saying she thinks infedelityis forgiviable is a setup for the future.you need to seriously sit down and talk to her.You need to let her in on what you are thinking and feeling.The number one cause of infedelity is a lack of communication,be honest and ask her to do the same see a councelor if need be.Dont put a brand on her because of her mother---my mother is a cheater on my father and they have been married 24years and i myself love my husband and would never.I donot believe it is in her genes to cheat.just find out what she needs and wants and her thoughts on your marriage,

first of all you need to sit down and have a heart to heart with him.I know you got some trust ussues it is plain to see but you need to open yourself up to him let him know about your past and all the lies,cheating and beating let him be aware that you are overly cautious about this because you have been burned in the past.If he loves you and respects you he will understand.You need to be open and do not compare him to past relationships that is not fair exspecially since he has not given you any reason to wonder.you need to have a talk get it all out in the open and if he is not the one,sweety move on.Try being by yourself for awhile learn to stand by yourself more than for just a few months.Figure out who you are and what you want.The insecurity lies with you.To love someone you have to first love yourself inside and out.Being comfortable in yourself mentally-- then true love can be.