Jump to content

bestfootforward

Members
  • Posts

    24
  • Joined

About bestfootforward

  • Birthday 12/31/1980

bestfootforward's Achievements

Apprentice

Apprentice (3/14)

  • First Post
  • Collaborator
  • Conversation Starter

Recent Badges

1

Reputation

  1. they're the ones that REALLY burn you. and on topic - if this girl is old enough to go to clubs then it sounds like she's just having fun.
  2. her head will swell up like a balloon, but i can't remember what happens after that... can someone help?
  3. Are there 28 letters in the womens' alphabet? you women ARE smart!
  4. the bad thing about being a virgin is the paranoia that you are missing out on something. that's it.
  5. all very true. and what a goddamn shame it is that it only lasts 12-18 months. I hate evolution.
  6. the funny thing is that a needy girl can dump you when you least expect it. Funny like a car crash.
  7. yeah maybe. I don't think either of us knew enough to see the warning signs at our age.
  8. actually folks it turn out that she stopped fancying me as a lover, but still loves me so much that if she could flick a switch and get sexual attraction back for me she would come back. I kinda know what she means, though. If we got back together, there wouldn't be that sparkle you get from when you first start going out with someone. We lived together as equals for a very long time (for people our age) and had sex less and less often as the time went by (from 5 times a day to 5 times a month by the end of the 2 years), and that was something caused by both of us I think having explored that avenue so much that the mystery and excitement wasn't there. We were (and are/could be best friends in the whole world if it wasn't for the fact that being together will stop us moving on and would make new relationships harder) I totally believe her and don't hate her at all because theres no way to control what or who you fancy. And I think I'm pretty sure this means there's no way back, which is what I was after, and also I didn't hear anything that makes me suicidal. I suppose that was success...
  9. my ex has been very nice about speaking to me and stuff since she left me, answering all my phone calls and helping me understand that this thing wasn't my fault or down to any character flaws or anything... the only thing is asking all this stuff and her being nice and all has set me back to where i was a month ago (when it happened), thinking theres still something between us (i mean she's got a new bf ffs). Are lives are extremely intertwined (we lived together for 2 years and ALL our friends are shared friends) and there's no one to blame for the breakup (she lost heart in the relationship, which she realised because she fancied someone else for the 1st time in 2 years) so I'm gonna have to learn to deal with her existing as I can't avoid social events forever and I can't tell her not to come to them forever. So I've come up with this plan - I'm going to meet her tonight (she cancelled it last night to go to a party) and get her to tell me all the things she loves about her new life and new man until I believe she doesn't ever want me back, down to horrible details if needs be. This is going to mess me up but mybe its the only way. What does everyone else think? I'm a bit scared about doing it. In fact I'm terrified.
  10. I would agree with that entirely. There's nothing as irritating as inconsistency in law. I'm just saying that rather than say ing why isn't porn illegal you should be saying why is prostitution illegal.
  11. You are making the assumption that because something is criminal, it is always a bad thing. In Iran they have just executed a woman for having 'a sharp tongue'. She broke the law but the law is not always just. I'm saying that this is a silly issue to be concerned with. Obviously there's a daft paradox at the centre of this, but this is caused by the incorrect illegality of prostitution, not the correct legality of the manufacture of porn. Or somethign
  12. Probably but then I think all victimless crime should be legal. Its a stupid concept.
  13. I wouldn't want to do it because I would hope that there is one person who i cared about more and I would want to spend all my time with that person.
  14. I'm in a similar situation, except when i speak to her she talks about how her new life is 'numb' and she thinks about me in her spare time rather than her new man. She says that she hopes this is just coz its so soon after such a long and intense relationship, I say I hope you haven't messed up true love. Basically I'm so full of hope that its ruining my ability to get on with my own life. Tonight I'm planning to meet up with her and get her to tell me all sorts of unpleasant stuff about her new relationship and sex life and stuff so that I can hammer it through my head that it's over. I'll let you know how it goes... I'd rather get better than get her back, but I'd rather get her back than never get better.
  15. 1. 2 years (living together) 2. 1 month 3. She got paranoid that she was in too stable a situation for someone of 20 and that we both, despite loving each other, need to get out and have wild youths while we still have the chance. 4. 22 (me) 20 (her)
×
×
  • Create New...