Dezeard

I hang out with friends during the weekend, and the week. We're all stuck together though, so what we do is starting to get stale, and it's almost like there's no solution.

Hey everyone, I'm a 16 year old guy who lives in a pretty boring city, where I goto school, come home, do homework and play videogames. I know now, this is not the "fun-filled" life I want to lead by I am having problems finding other things to do. I want to quit gaming because it is a huge time waster, and you could be doing something productive in the meantime. I want to get a job, that will come, but since it's getting close to christmas, all the places around me have done hiring, so I expect to head out after the christmas season. But when it comes to hobbies, I'm in the dark and have no idea what I can do. The only recreational things around me are things like bowling, paintball, and swimming. Those all kinda lose their fun, and there's no room to expand in skill (except paintball, but it's damn expensive). My home hobby is working out for about an hour 3 times a week, but I need something to wake up for....What should I do.

But then again, it won't come to me seeing as I have no skills, am useless, and probably one of the most unnatractive guys no matter how hard I try. Life is good.

Im not saying im not going to have relationships, I just don't care anymore, if it's going to happen, it's coming to me.

You think its disgusting huh? Oh well that's great. I don't give a damn that my ex is with another guy, it's the fact that she won't screw off about it. Why don't you just put "You suck" on a piece of toast and rub it in my face? Every women I try to get to know turns me down, so screw it. Why would I waste such energy on people who don't know what the hell they're doing.

Well today, I found out my ex has found a new boyfriend already. It's good to know she'll always love me....bullcrap. I am also noticing everyone pairing up, which is actually kind of funny in a slit-my-wrists sort of way. Now I'm not looking for relationship. And day in day out I find myself growing to hate women even more. What the hell is going on. Im going cold hearted arn't I.. Heh..heh.

Ever since I broke it off with my girlfriend, I have notice how hard it is to find someone else. No girls my age around me know what they're doing, and it seems when I become single - everyone else becomes taken. I'm losing purpose in my life. I don't really do anything, I don't have a job, no girls like me at school, and this I know. (They like me as a friend) What am I supposed to do..Walk alone?

How do you make them feel like the most important thing in the world? I mean, you don't want to be so obvious right? What are some examples?

I opened this thread as more as a conversation thread. I wan't to start dating again, and I am set in the highschool (grade 11) environment. The question is, how would you go about attracting a girl to you that you don't know. I basically want to become more approachable in any way possible. So let's disguss, anyone have anything they know works. I know being polite is half the battle, but what's the other half?

Lately my life is taking some awkward turns. I just broke up with my girlfriend of a year and a bit, and I'm starting to dislike my out-of-school friends. I started with 3 out of school friends. One got into stuff that dosn't interest me, and we grew apart. So he's gone. One of them now has such a negative attitude towards everything and I can't stand it anymore. The other is extreamly immature, and I can't take that anymore. So I'm not going to be around these two for very long, I know. Has anyone else gone through something like this? I'm not too worried, as I am fine keeping to myself at home, and I plan to be working soon. I have alot of friends in school so I'm good there. And I am currently aiming for a new girlfriend. Anyone have any suggestions?

I didn't mislead her on purpose. I was deeply in love with her for the longest portion of our relationship. It just wore off as we began to become routine, and I guess I wasn't fully aware of my feelings.

I just recently broke up with my gf a few hours ago (we dated 14 months). This is not the first time we broke up and got together, so I kind of messed her emotions. I kept going back because of guilt for how she was feeling, this was subconsious, I didn't know. After awhile I fell out of love with her, and it made me think, maybe if I didn't meet her online, and she went to my school, I never would have been interested. Anyway, I heard her mom say that I can't keep doing this to her, so I did it and I am in NC rule. However I know alot of people are pissed off at me now. The relationship felt more like a weight on my shoulders. Was what I did right?

I don't have ADHD..I can concentrate easily if I find interest and want to. It's just that I never am interested in something for too long. thereforeee I don't feel I have accomplished much..I feel like half a person.

I am a non completer and I can't seem to turn my attitude around, because later in life this could be very harmful for my life. Whether its joining a group, keeping a goal, or keeping a save on a damn video game, along the line I end up quitting because I feel I get unorganized or lose interest. Does any one know how I can fix this?

Would bike riding be considered cardio? I go biking almost every second day to everyday for at least 2 hours with my friends.