little242
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yikes she should go to the Doctor. She could have any number of things happen including pregnancy.
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Yeah, kind of not used to it. I forget that we come from two opposite backgrounds as well. He, a very small town, me, a very big city. I'm finding a lot of differences and it's actually kind of interesting just new to me is all thanks for the posts I appreciate it.
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How about "I'm not good enough for you"? That one throws me even after explaining that I picked that person because I thought they were special, etc,etc.
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Mybf's cousin (girl) calls him pretty much daily and talks forever to him. I'm not jealous but I find it kind of odd, should I? I'm close to my cousins as well but they don't call as freqently. What do you all think.
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I hear you. I'm still working on this one as well. I just hope that you at least live in a town that has as many guys as girls. I guess take things slow, that way you get to feel comfortable with the guy. And if you get any "gut feelings" that something is not right don't be afraid to speak to the guy about it. I think you'll find that guys are kind of scared too even though I still find it hard to believe. Most importantly, you have so much going for you especially having brains, that is key. So don't be scared you have a lot to offer you'll be fine.
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I would say that your sense of humor and making others laugh is key to self-confidence, simply because whether it's a girl or a person who could use some cheering up, someone is always going to appreciate a person with a sense of humor. So, build on that aspect and see where it takes you. Sounds like you're headed in the right direction.
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It depends on how mature you feel the guy is. There are guys out there who are more mature than what their age states. Your 31 what business is it of your parents, my aunt thought it was a great thing that I was dating a guy that was 4 years younger than me and she's in her 60's. So whatever you feel is right is right. And,guys will be immature about certain things until they die anyways, I saw this in my grandfathers actions toward his girlfriend, it kind of surprised me actually but it showed me that men can still be babies. Anyways, you get my point sorry for the nonsense there.
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Yeah, that dude is one big looser . He is far too selfish to be with someone who is as giving as you are. Keep the NC thing going, and be ware that of course he's going to get in your face to upset you. Hold your ground and be strong. Obviously, he knows he messed up but too late for him. Guys like that never change they only make you feel worse about yourself so that they can feel better about themselves.
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Hey, hey, hey, let's not fault the person or whatever he/she/it may be above. If you are a good person realize that some sexy lady out there is going to see that, as long as you continue to do good, and she is going to love you more than this other person could even imagine. So, don't dispair if something is not right then there must be something you have over looked as the way to go girl, hobby, school, something. Open your eyes a little find something that makes you forget her and gives you some fullfillment. Perhaps your buddies would like to see the old you back, who knows. Take care and don't stop being good guy no matter what we need more of you trust me.
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It's killing me being so quiet and conservative.
little242 replied to Hero_99's topic in Emotions and Feelings
I know this sounds stupid but hey go with the flow. Instead of running away from sarcastic people stay calm realize that you are smart too make a snide comment back. Just loosen up a little. Don't be so hard on yourself, there's a lot to be admired for being a serious worker. Perhaps someone in your past made you feel guilty for having fun, maybe not but your grown up now on your own have some fun. Talk to a counselor or a good friend about ways to help you loosen up, trust their judgment and don't be critical of them or yourself. Lifes too short. Once you relax a little it'll take time but all will come to you in the end. Take care -
Wow, that is so not cool of him. Especially since he was talking to his friends girlfriend! There really is no respect for you. He's the last person who you should get married to and have kids with, that would be putting yourself and your potential family in such a bad situation. He sounds like a real jerk I would move on if I were you.
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Go with what makes you feel comfortable. However, be careful and be sure that you really like her she is young and thereforeeee may be prone to reacting in an imature way that could land you in jail. Make it a point to meet her parents (I don't know what the laws are for dating a minor in the UK) if that may be an issue. But hopefully things go well just be aware since things are so new, that's all.
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Sounds like she's the type that loves games and perhaps you should consider avoiding. She already knows that she can get away with kissing and then leaving who's to say that she won't hurt you even more?
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I'm not expert but this one seems to ring true: Men who intentionally keep you from doing things that make you happy and content with yourself.
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Your feelings are what they are. And for someone to deny that is bogus and controlling. You both should seek help from a professional before this all gets out of hand leaving you feeling completely helpless.