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  1. Mr Mister1
    Actually I'd think the bigger problem is the ocean between the two of you, unless one of you plans to move. Otherwise I guess if you're happy to just travel over there and meet him then go for it!
  2. Mr Mister1
    Do you ever have any sort of gatherings after church where people get to meet each other and talk? If so why not approach her then and just introduce yourself and take it from there? I know at the churches I've been too they have a morning tea set up once a month or so.
  3. Mr Mister1
    First of all, has he ever rubbed it in your face or told you how he's so much more successful than you? If not then he must like you the way you are so what's the matter? Secondly why do you need to feel inferior, just because someone's doing one sort of job and you're doing a different one doesn't make either of you better or worse, if you're doing what you enjoy or what you're good at then keep at it. If he's not bothered about it then why should yo ube? Finally, if you're not happy with where you are in life then look at ways to change it. Why not ask him for advice, and tips on how to achieve everything you want, that would be the productive way around the situation. But breaking up with him over this isn't the way, if he's treating you right and is as successful as you say then why give up on a good thing? Why should he be punished for working hard to achieve what he wants?
  4. Mr Mister1
    First question, why did you two break up in the first place? Okay, most of the time people who threaten to kill themselves wont actually go through it. It really sounds like she's just doing it to manipulate you. EDIT: I missed that last bit about the car, yikes! If you can prove it then I'd tell the police, and tell them about what she's been saying to you. It sounds like she needs locking up for her and your safety.
  5. Mr Mister1
    Let me know how you did it to!
  6. Mr Mister1
    Actually I understand you perfectly, I often think similar things.
  7. Mr Mister1
    I care lots about women's numbers, but only the ones in which they can be contacted with not ones that come up on the scales
  8. Mr Mister1
    Ah this is one of the more entertaining topics. What I find interesting is some people are getting all offended about the OP saying he likes "chubby girls" but then we're also seeing lots of girls in here saying how they'd only want a guy who's bigger than them, taller than them etc. Sounds like a double standard quite frankly.
  9. Mr Mister1
    There's only one way to really find out why she wants to talk to you. Also why are you so determined to not talk to her? I know the NC rule is preached here but by the sounds of it you've moved on from her, what harm could come from just hearing her out and seeing what she has to say?
  10. Mr Mister1
    He can be if he likes her. Attraction can do funny things to people.
  11. Mr Mister1
    Well when she next starts begging I'd stright out tell her the problem you're having with taking her back, that you have serious trust issues and that you could only take her back if she could show you that things will be different this time round. It would be interesting to see how she responds to that.
  12. Mr Mister1
    I know you were asking for a female perspective but I've always thought that if a female asked me out somewhere, provided I was single at the time, I'd never say no. But maybe I'm different?
  13. Mr Mister1
    Well you're only getting the number so that you can continue to communicate with her at a later date, it's not like you're asking her to marry you! So no it's all okay, afterall it's not like if you have a gf you are forbidden from havign other female friends.
  14. Mr Mister1
    Okay my take on her. It sounds like she's using you as a fall back option. When all else falls apart she can come to you, vent, get angry, and feel loved etc. People do that if they think the other person still wants them. I don't know what her issue is but sometimes the best way to help someone you care about is to not be there for them, or at least not let them walk all over you. So if you she does something you don't like say so and stand your ground. If she doesn't like it you can leave her to her own devices and she can see what it's like without you and (hopefully) come to terms with the way she's been behaving.
  15. Mr Mister1
    Well I don't have a wife or kids so I guess I'll be safe.
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