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  1. Hi Shy Guy, I would suggest that you take it a little show. Make things grow like a little flower. How? My suggestion is that you start to drop a few hints by making a few compliments. Then I would just ask her to sit down with you and have a heartfelt conversation with you. If you have known her for about a year, I think it's pretty safe to express some feelings towards her and ask her how she feels. I hope that this helped you and I wish you good luck ~ SwingFox ~
  2. Hi Sabena, Thank you for coming to eNotalone.com for seeking advice again. I am pleased to read that you're getting along so well with your man. I understand that you feel a little bit jealous over what your mutual friend is doing with your man. My suggestion is to brush it off your back. I don't think it would be wise to say something to your friend and the truth is your man can't help it that she is doing this to him. I would like the idea of my girlfriend whispering "help!" in my ear as signal of insecurity. What I would do is reassure her and make her feel special, so that she knows where the bear really sits... *grins*. But... that's just silly I hope that this helped you on your way and wish you lots of luck, happiness and a bright future ~ SwingFox ~
  3. Hi Striider, First of all welcome to eNotalone.com and thank you for coming to us for seeking advice. I am sorry to hear that you're not getting along with your g/f. I understand that she usually plan all the things and that most of the time you don't seem to be very comfortable in her plans. Communication is the key to the solution of this problem. I agree with dfcannon that it might be a good idea to think of what you really expect out of a relationship with her and what your needs are. Communicate your needs and explain her how the current situation makes you feel. I suggest that you vary sweet words with words of your concern. Listen to her and see where you could compromize. I hope that this helped you and I wish you good luck ~ SwingFox ~
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  7. Hi Sspointers, Welcome to eNotalone.com and thank you for coming to us for seeking advice. I understand that you are somewhat worried over a dream. I don't think that there is anything you can do. I am not even sure if you should take this dream serious. However, opinions on this issue vary from person to person. My suggestion would be that you just sit back and brush it off. I hope that this helped you on your way. ~ SwingFox ~
  8. Hello kantore, I fee that a face to face conversation is always more open and honest. You can see the expression and reaction of each other and ask questions if you don't feel comfortable over what you see. I would prefer a face to face conversation rather than talking over the phone when it comes to solving problems and issues ~ SwingFox ~
  9. Hi smilely, First of all welcome to eNotalone.com and thank you for coming to us for seeking advice. I am pleased to read that you get along so well with your co-worker. I understand that you're not sure about wether he likes you and that you have a question wether it is appropriate what you're doing. To answer your second question first: it might be a good idea to think of the consequences ahead, in case this guy doesn't work out. Especially when you have been somewhat longer with him, it might create an awkward situation at work when you guys decide to break up. I am assuming that you are working on the same level and that he is not your boss or your worker. I find those relationship inappropriate. The answer to your first question is: find out as soon as you feel comfortable with the situation. Go out with him on that date and see if there's chemistry. I hope that this answered your question and I wish you good luck ~ SwingFox ~
  10. Hello Max, First of all welcome to eNotalone.com and thank you for coming to us for seeking advice. I am sorry to hear that you were into a huge fight with your boyfriend. I understand that you're trying to cope with a few things and that as a result you are not in the mood for making love right now. Your boyfriend got all upset over that and now two people are feeling hurt. It looks like that your boyfriend is missing the intimacy you once shared together. Although you tried to be intimate with him last night, you couldn't follow through. I understand that you have a lot on your mind, but I can also understand how that makes him feel. Could it be possible that he feels rejected? Neglected? Pushed away? Try to put yourself in his place. I know that women in general feel very rejected and even unattractive when they are being pushed away like that. That having said, it still doesn't solve your mutual problem. You are feeling hurt because of what he said and he still feels hurt over what you said and did (or rather did not) do. I am not sure if I have a solid suggestion for you, because I think the best way to solve this is that you start to work out your problems. You could do that either with or without him, but it does look like that he is adding more stress onto you, because of his needs and expectations. Communication is the key to this problem. I suggest that you communicate to him how you feel and that you have so many problems to work out. If you love him, then tell him so. Tell him that you need him, but that (obviously) solving your issues have first priority. See where he could meet you and where to compromize. An easier way is to let him go, so that you could face your problems untied. The final decision is up to you ... I hope this helps you to make a sound decision. Good luck. ~ SwingFox ~
  11. Hi street dreamer, Thank you for coming back to us for seeking more advice. I am pleased to read that you're getting along with this girl so well. I understand, though, that she is confusing you a little bit. You already said that you like this girl. I would step upfront to her and ask her out for a date and see how she responds. Personally, I don't like the mindgames. For me it's a 'turn off' and a 'walk away'. I believe that two people having feelings for each other or liking each other should give equal effort to make it work. My suggestion is that you challenge her and ask her out. That way she will have to say 'yes' or 'no' to you and then you'll know. I hope that this works for you and I wish you good luck ~ SwingFox ~
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