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  1. slw1
    Last year i was in a long distance relationship with a woman who lived a 5 hour drive away. We visited each other a few times , but the last time I visited her in november she avoided me and was cold to me the whole weekend, so that was the end of that. I went home and a month later she emails me like nothing happened. I have been talking to her but being very distant. she keeps getting more and more affectionate now and basically acting like my girlfriend again. iI ma a bit confused , but I have been drawn back in and cant stop thinking about her. I want her to come and visit me, I guess to sort of prove herself to me again, but I dont want to ask because she sorta dumped me. What do you guys think? What can I do? Thanks
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    Girlfriend's fantasies

    slw1 replied to slw1's topic in Jealousy

    She is 31
  3. slw1
    Yeah, I am the same way. I still think about an ex gf every day from two years ago. I don't know if these feelings will ever go away. I used to lay in bed with my new girlfriend and look at her and wish it was my ex gf lying there.
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    I have been dating this woman for about 5 months now, we are intimate with each other but its not really that serious of a relationship. She is a cycling fan and recently returned from a vacation in Italy where she met some of her professional cycling heroes. i was at her place the other day and she was showing me all the photos and autograph posters of this ne cyclist she met. She wouldn't stop talking about him and was kissing the poster of him in front of me. This bothered me a bit , but I didn't say anything. What does this say about the way she feels about me? It made me feel insignificant in her life.
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    I haven`t known my girlfriend that long, but she is usually more taltkitive and wants to have sex. lately she is very quiet and wont even touch me. she acts like nothings wrong and so do I. I was wondering ;maybe she having her period. What kind of signs would let me know. Thanks
  6. slw1
    Yes , she lives on her own.
  7. slw1
    I met this girl at a bike race last weekend, we are from differnet cities. I rode with her and and talked to her for about half an hour. I was telling her that I will be racing in her city later on this year. She said I could stay at her place when I was there. When the race was over and we leaving she gave me her email and phone number, but then left when I tried to tell her It was nice to meeting her.Anyay , we have emiled each other a couple of times as friends. She has said again I can stay at her place when I race in her city. Now, this may be dumb but you think if she was just being friendly would she tell me I could stay at her place? Or is she interested in me?
  8. slw1
    ................................you are right , forget about this sh#t.
  9. slw1
    I started dating this girl 2 years ago, she broke up with me a few times but kept coming back. Then even as friends she would keep running away, I always let her be. A year ago she told me she did not want to taklk to me anymore because I still liked her.Well after 4 months we started talking again and she told me she was glad the silence was over and it was nice to talk to me. That lasted about a month and again she did tha same thing,said she didnt want to talk to me. I have always treated her as only a friend , never asked her out on dates , but I still do have feelings for her. Anyway its been 6 mionths of ignoring each other. We see each other once a week at the swimming pool but never talk to one another. This is so stupid, I want to end this and try and be friends. Should I say hi to her in the pool or just keep up with the no contact? Thanks
  10. slw1
    Lol, thanks . I meant anonimity because we would see each other around about twice a week ,but pretend not to see each other. Now five months later we still do this.
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    My exgf broke up with me a couple of times but wanted to be friends. the friendship ended one day because I still had feelings for her, So she told me she didnt want to talk to me anymore. Four months later we met by chance and spent the whole day together . At the end of the day she said "It was nice to talk to you and I am glad the anonimity is over". We were friends for a few weeks ,then she did it again. She said she didnt want to talk to me because I still had feelings for her ,even though I only treated her as a friend. That was 5 months ago and we havent talked since.
  12. slw1
    Wait a week and see if you still feel like sending that letter. I always regret sending something a few days later.
  13. slw1
    We got back together as friends again. We only see each other on weekend bike club tripsor in the swimming pool. I try to talk to her on the bike ride and she is very aloof. It makes her uncomfortable if I wait for her or help (a little push) to keep up with ride. She is not uneasy if anybody else does it except me. I guess she feels pressured. She also thinks that I come to the pool just to see her ,but the fact is I have neen going there for a year off and on. Anyway she doesnt want to talk to me anymore because she is uncomfortable around me .
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    If a woman tells you it was nice to talk to you and she is glad the silence is over after hanging out the whole day ,this after 4 months of NC where she told me she did not want to talk to me anymore because I could not move on.. Would you think it would be Ok to be friends again?
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    She never claimed to have anymore interest than as friend. I only acted as a friend, but she could tell I was still interested, but i would get frustrated when she would talk to everybody but me. i hid/waited at the side of the road to see if she was talikingto another guy while bike riding. I feel so stupid for doing this. This is the worst feeling in the world. I only wanted to be her friend but I cant move on. Now I have lost the most amazing person I have ever met.
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