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  1. HeyLJ, You are right! I gave him the option of telling the truth or we had nothing further to discuss. Turns out he likes to gamble some, which I didn't know. Thanks for the feedback.
  2. I have been dating this guy for a year and a half now, and a few months ago we split up because our communication was terrible. We come from different backgrounds. Well, we still spoke on the phone and learned how to communicate a little better. So we decided to give it another try. However, during the time we were not together I visited a lot of friends I hadn't seen in some time. I was completely honest with him about anything I did during the time we were not together, I have nothing to hide. I didn't do anything wrong. He seems to think differently and now questions every thing I do and say. He doesn't believe anything I tell him, whether I went to the Mall or to visit my mother. He has no reason not to believe me, I have never lied to him in the past. I just figured it was insecurity and I would just assure him, so I made a hugh mistake and starting proving to him where I was, like showing him receipts, my telephone bills, etc., That made it worse because he only questioned more and more. Well anyway, today he left his cell phone at my house and I looked through it and noticed he makes all his calls during working hours or when he is not with me, and believe me, that's not too often. I have encourged him to things he did before we met like playing pool, but he always responds "There is no one or anything else in my life I care about, just you." Long and behold, when he arrived today I told him I went through his cell phone and there is no need for him to hide speaking with friends. Well, he totally caught me off guard. He was so angry I went through his cell phone and denied making any calls and if he did make the calls he doesn't remember. His voice was getting a little too loud for me so I suggested that he leave. Is it me? He has gone through my cell phone many times and even checks my caller I.D. box to see who called. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I have never been in this type of situtation before.
  3. If your Ex didn't come back into your life would you have questioned your new relationship? Look deep within yourself and you will find the answer. Good luck.
  4. I'm not sure I understand what it is you feel. Guilt? Shame? what ever the emotion, the only way to resolve it is to be honest with yourself. You are the one that has to look in the mirror. Good luck to you.
  5. You story is amazing to say the least. I wish I had some magical words that would help you get her back. I realize you truly love her. However, you can't make someone love you back. I'm not saying "give up" just try not to stress yourself out so much. Lay low for a little bit and if possible without direct contact, let her think you are doing great. For some strange reason females tend to be drawn when it's a little bit of a challenge. Think back when you first met her, (the first impression.) There was something that attracted her to you to begin with or it wouldn't have progressed. I'm writing from expierence. I am in my mid 30's now and have done the same thing when I knew I had the "upper hand." Believe me I could kick myself ten times over now but, I was young then and didn't really know what I wanted. In time, I'm sure it will work out for what was meant to be. You have a great future and much to offer as an individual. Take credit for that. Don't cut yourself short. I hope I helped ease your pain. Regards, Bouquie[/code][/b]
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