I have been dating this guy for a year and a half now, and a few months ago we split up because our communication was terrible. We come from different backgrounds. Well, we still spoke on the phone and learned how to communicate a little better. So we decided to give it another try. However, during the time we were not together I visited a lot of friends I hadn't seen in some time. I was completely honest with him about anything I did during the time we were not together, I have nothing to hide. I didn't do anything wrong. He seems to think differently and now questions every thing I do and say. He doesn't believe anything I tell him, whether I went to the Mall or to visit my mother. He has no reason not to believe me, I have never lied to him in the past.
I just figured it was insecurity and I would just assure him, so I made a hugh mistake and starting proving to him where I was, like showing him receipts, my telephone bills, etc., That made it worse because he only questioned more and more.
Well anyway, today he left his cell phone at my house and I looked through it and noticed he makes all his calls during working hours or when he is not with me, and believe me, that's not too often.
I have encourged him to things he did before we met like playing pool, but he always responds "There is no one or anything else in my life I care about, just you."
Long and behold, when he arrived today I told him I went through his cell phone and there is no need for him to hide speaking with friends. Well, he totally caught me off guard. He was so angry I went through his cell phone and denied making any calls and if he did make the calls he doesn't remember. His voice was getting a little too loud for me so I suggested that he leave.
Is it me? He has gone through my cell phone many times and even checks my caller I.D. box to see who called.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I have never been in this type of situtation before.