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  1. LuvAShyGuy
    Obviously something is going on to make her be this way and she isn't telling you what. Maybe it is a friend telling her to treat you this way, or sometimes people treat people this way to leave no doubt that they are unwelcome in their lives. I sure hope that you can move on and find the right girl who really deserves your admiration and devotion. I know it is hard to think that she could be a totally different person than the one you loved but it can happen. All you can do is leave her alone and maybe she will realize that she had a good thing. Just be a friend and have an open ear and warm heart. Keep your chin up.... you will get through this and be happy once again. Take care of yourself first!
  2. LuvAShyGuy
    The only person who can tell you if it the right time or the right thing to divorce is you! I tried for 3 year to make my marriage work and feared losing so much if we divorced.... then I fell in love with a married man. I did not cross the line like you have and would never do so since I surely wouldn't want that to happen to me no matter how miserable our marriage was. If you cross the line you shouldn't be married, Period!!! I decided to divorce him because we fought all the time and I loved someone else more than I loved him and that was no fair to him. If you stay with her due to her financial status and her problems that isn't doing her a favor. You will just be living in misery and that will be your problem. You should make your decision for yourself and what will make you that happiest and be the better person and end it with this married woman. I am sure if she was your wife you wouldn't look at her so lovingly if this was happening to you! Good luck!
  3. LuvAShyGuy
    If you have faith that you are going to get a second chance and that he just needs the time to work things out then you should think about drying your tears and work on loving yourself and enjoying the things you have in your life. I recently got divorced and thought that I would never find anyone that would love me ever again. I am now having fun trying to date again, although at times it is frustrating and I don't know if the men I seem to be attracted to are interested since I like those really shy guys. I am a stronger person for picking myself up and working to better myself. If you focus on yourself and where you want to be, besides with him, you will see that in the end you will either be back together in no time or you will be just fine without him and Mr. Right will find you and sweep you off your feet. Best of luck!!!
  4. LuvAShyGuy
    It is hard for me to believe any girl could be this way and it be the truth. It sounds like she blames you for her heartache and that she has some issues with see you leaving to school as abandoning her. If you truly want to be a friend then you can send her a card and wish her well and invite her to email you if she ever feels like she needs anyone to talk to. But, I have my doubts that you would be happy being just friends and that you are not jealous that she is seeing other guys. That is what we tend to tell ourselves and others so that we can have the hopes and the option of staying in our ex's lives and maybe get back together. Wishing you good luck and hope that you see better times soon!
  5. LuvAShyGuy
    I would love to know how to read his body language!!! Some of the things he does when we are around each other makes me wonder! Also makes me wonder if in fact he does like me, why hasn't he asked me out yet? We have known each other for over 2 years and we have been hanging around each other for 7 months or more. I just don't know what to do.
  6. LuvAShyGuy
    Although your sentiments are nice, and it would be great to be able to just let him know and let him deal with the info, I am afraid of him rejecting me if he is not ready. Now I know what men go through when they really like someone. As far as your hockey loving girl you are looking for, I am not her. I have never been to or watched hockey. I do think Wayne Gretzky is good looking. Thanks for the input!
  7. LuvAShyGuy
    I can't ask my brother for help. He has already stated that what ever happens between me and his friend is up to us, yet I am not allowed to pursue him. He doesn't want to make him uncomfortable and lose a friend over it. I get to do things with him and I want so badly to touch him, hold his hand or something. He is sooo hard to read and I don't know how to read if a guy is interested or not. UGH!
  8. LuvAShyGuy
    Can anybody shed some light on this for me? I am attracted to my brothers friend. He is very shy to top it off. I love spending time with him and he seems to be getting more comfortable with me. He has started to pick on me and on occasion started up some sort of conversation. Is he just being nice because I am his friends sister or is he starting to like me? What kind of things should I be looking for to tell if this shy guy likes me?
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