TTCHICK01

Understand that: *If things were meant to be they will be *You can't make someone love you or want to be with you. *You can't wait around for someone if they are not there no matter how much you love them or you want to be with them you have to let them be have there space, and move on and improve yourself. *Some people need time to figure out what they want In life and you may not be part of that. *Leave them alone let them come to you. After you have expressed to them how you feel about them and how you feel without them. The ball Is In there court let them come to you when they are ready to talk to you. I know how you feel I am going through a rough breakup with my boyfriend of a year. You really do need to try and understand these things It will help you a lot.

I am going through a break up right now I don't know If my "boyfriend" of a year really does want time alone as he has told me, or If he really just wants to date around until he finds someone else and just have me on hold, but I have thought of some things while I am going through this, Of course I am very upset and depressed over this, and It hurts really bad, but there are things we all should understand. Understand that: *If things were meant to be they will be. Its the worst quote In the world to want to believe, but If you think about It. It really does make sense. *You cannot wait around for someone If they are not there for you no matter how much you love them or you want to be with them, you have to let them make the call. Just work on improving yourself right now. *Some people need time and experience to figure out what they want In life and In reality you may or may not be a part of that. *Leave them alone Let them come to you. After you have expressed to them how you feel about them. The ball Is In there court let them come to you when they are ready. I am struggling with these everyday and as much as I don't want to believe them I am trying to understand It.[/b]