virtualjedi

Congrats on trying to take the next steps in buying property, however with the two of you still unmarried, it would be wise to possibly rent a little more until things possibly clear up between the differences in where you two wish to buy a property. It is a big expense and a big deal when buying a home for the first time, and it can take time, even years to find the right property. I would focus on the relationship more and keep looking at properties until maybe both of you can agree on something you both like.

3 years ago I dated a girl who decided to end are relationship over the phone, I look back now and im glad she did. When we were dating for the year and 1/2 she said how she would never go back to her ex(s); and when we broke up she never would consider talking to me ever again or getting back together. So shes been seeing her ex and starting a relationship with him, hes 5 hours away and the guy honest to god is really just scum; I mean she used to say how he abused her and used her. And first hand account of knowing meeting him. Etc etc.. Her friends say shes miserable in her life right now... And now shes been focusing all her energies into a relationship w/ her ex!! Im rather glad that fate took me away from this person and lessons I have learned from this, it pains me to know this was a person I cared for so much. Things are differnt now, and she always will have a little piece of my heart and I guess when I found out this information it tore me apart just a little and wish I could tell her "HEY YOUR MAKING A MISTAKE, MOVE ON". I have moved on though successfully and she is still living the same life, doing the same things and going back into her past. It took a while but ive come out ahead in the long run w/ my job in the government, my travel and experiences. Self satisfaction is bittersweet.

True I take your advice on getting out of the house.. I love to excercise but its sooooo COLD... that it makes it torture then fun. Being with friends are gone during the holidays as well as my cousins with the other side of there family. Ha im just screwed at this moment. But thank you for the advice.

They said the 27th and beyond, my recruiter said less then a month from your appointment date can they start pull jobs, im guessing after 2006 due to pay increase reasons so im filed as a 2006 cadet and not 2005/2006. I am trying to stay out of his way darkblue as much as I can, I sit silently away in my closed room, this is bad news I dont understand why this upsurge in anger is coming from. If I was pissing him off id say yea I was doing this or doing that; but this is blindly picking fights with me for no reason. Or the simplist infraction is like a death sentence. Alike yesterday was a inncident my towel was not perfectly flush with the others, that cost me about 10 minutes of him yelling how lazy I am!! AHHH that is the opposite of what I am. Ive sold everything off cept my laptop and my clothing so im just waiting to go with one duffell bag to my cousins for storage and then boot. Can you believe anyone so excited about bootcamp being better then being with his own father. Hes also exclaimed he rather not watch his * * * * * son graduate from bootcamp since its not the toughest branch for real men. Ughhh... Ok! Im glad your not going! When will he learn. I dont know... But he will learn the hard way in the end when he finds himself alone without family or friends...

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Laser Eye Surgery, do yourself a favor, dont fall for the $499.00 specials. You cant put a price on your eyes. I witnessed today someone who had a inexperienced doctor work on her eyes. Sad.

Christmas morning im sitting silent in the living room and father comes out and yells at me to get my **** head out of the way to turn on the TV. Wow not even Merry Christmas let alone I havent seen him in a day. He starts fights now for no reason and says when the Air Force gonna take you. Two days ago he was yelling at his own Dad for not caring for him when he was a teen. I found this odd in his behavior. I think my fathers going thru some regression during the holiday here! Somethings wrong, and I dont want to be around this! Im glad to be leaving, im almost wishing the lord to move thru this holiday quickly as the military shuts down during this time and comes back after Dec 27th but doesnt full swing until Jan 3rd. To my point in personal growth What I have learned now is to be my own decision maker and path taker in this life, its my turn to call my own shots and develop a successful future and to not follow in my fathers footsteps for his journey failed due to the fact of just giving up. I am never have been a quiter and am yet to ever start, today on Xmas he help re-enforced this idea x10 fold P.S. Im just praying to god that call will come through with my job selection and get me into boot camp ASAP

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Yeaaa thanks for the advice about not marrying her, I know I wont and was just saying thats only way I could be with her but im not that crazy! I was saying has anyone had to break it off and how was the outcome.

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hahaha dont worry so much you want some good advice.. treat her as your special friend and SMILE>>> just be happy women like it when you smile it shows confidence ALOT!! people physcially respond better to peopel who smile.

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