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  1. hey wow you sound like a really big help for you sister, that's awesome! here is a site that i think can help you out a lot. i think it would have a lot of advice for you to help your sister even more. take care and hang in there! link removed also, be sure to try and keep everything away from her that she could use to cut. also, make sure she stays away from things, people, etc. that might trigger her to cut. i know this is a big responsibility, but she needs your help. but most importantly, don't be afraid to tell someone who can really help her. if you want to help you sister, do the right thing and let someone know. tell a parent, a counselor, a hospital, etc. make sure you suggest that she stay away from anything that could trigger her. tell her she could watch good movies, write, read, listen to music, TALK TO SOMEONE, exercise, go for a walk, etc. there are better ways to cope!!
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  3. this is a great topic, thanks for starting it for those of you who do cut or know someone who is cutting - if it's someone you know, try your best to be there as much as you can. they need someone to love and support and not judge. and again, don't be afraid to tell someone that can help. you could be saving a life. make sure they dont cut anywhere like wrists and scary places like that. let them know there are better ways of dealing with problems like talking, etc. key point - TELL SOMEONE THAT CAN HELP but please don't cut yourself that can be so dangerous. there are healthier ways of dealing with it i promise. i'm here and we all are here for you. you're not alone, remember that. try your best to stay strong and get through this, because i know you can. i've been there. make sure you stay away from everything that can cut you. get rid of it, throw it away. tell some people about this so that they can help you too. stay away from anything that could trigger you. watch good movies, write, read, listen to music, TALK TO SOMEONE, exercise, go for a walk, etc. never be afraid to ask for help, because there are people out there that can help. it's wonderful you want to talk to us, but there are other people out there too i promise. you're going to be ok. if you do end up cutting, remember, stay away from wrists and scary places like that. contact me or anyone here if you want!, you're not alone! PLEASE check out these sites, they really help link removed
  4. hey i think i know how you feel. you feel like things are never going to change or get any better. but there is something very important to remember - things WILL change and things WILL get better. i know it's frustrating going so long without a job, but it will happen one day. just think..if you end your life, you're ruining all chances of ANYTHING. life is hard, i understand. but please, don't give up. you've got a long life ahead of you, full of possibilities and opportunities. don't give all of that away becasue things are hard right now. don't let your family get to you. they're wrong. you're a great, hard working and motivated person. you don't have to be exposed to their behavior your entire life. that will change too. you won't always have to be around them. please, again, don't give up...it's not worth it. this is, i promise you, very temporary. death, on the other hand, is very very permanent. please keep going. and you do have someone to talk to you...you do have someone who cares and who will listen. we all care about you here and want to help in any way we can. we will listen no matter what. also, try this number 1-800-SUICIDE they will listen and provide you with the help that you need, 24/7 and it's confidential. please, just don't end your life. hang in there, and remember, we're here for you. take care
  5. please don't give up. there's always a reason to live. here's a reason: it's not worth it! you're so young, really. things CAN change, just continue to hang in there. i've been there, i know it's hard. this won't last forever. continue to live. one day you will be out in the world and you can live your own life and you will meet all kinds of people and see all kinds of places. don't give up. please. there is help out there. you sound like a very smart, wonderful person. talk to someone about how you're feeling. if you need to, contact an emergency help number here link removed don't listen to your family. you're a great person and you're going to make it. you're going to do what you want to do one day and you're going to have your own life. don't let what they say hurt you. they're wrong. you sound like an amzing person...please don't listen to them. don't give up, you're so young, you can get through this. the world will not remain an ugly place. we understand you here and so do many others! you will not feel this way forever, i promise. your family will not control you forever and you WILL find a job one day. this is temporary, remember that. before you really hurt yourself, please remember that you WILL NOT feel this way forever. i know things are hard right now, believe me, i've been there. but you will get through this. believe me, you're not alone. there are people out there that can help you. please talk to someone about how you're feeling. it's awesome that you're talking about it here, but you can talk to other people like your friends, family, a therapist, etc. there is help. don't give up, it's not worth it. hang in there, you're gonna be ok. life is hard sometimes, believe me i've had these same feelings. but believe me, suicide is NOT worth it. you're NOT going to feel like this forever. growing up is hard, but i promise very soon there will come a day when you feel much better. you're so young, don't give up now. it's really not worth it. for now try to do things that make YOU happy. watch good movies, listen to good music, hang out with friends, TALK TO SOMEONE ABOUT HOW YOU'RE FEELING, write, read, exercise, take a walk (it's supposed to help depression). you know, try to occupy your time with things that make you happy. we're all here for you here. we all care about you. you're a special person in our eyes . please just hang in there, you are going to feel better. and again, don't be afrad to talk to more people about the way you are feeling. they are there to help you. remember, you are loved! please don't give up, you've got so much life left to live. contact me or anyone here if you want!, oh yeah, what did you major in at college? if you search around online, you can probably find more information about job openings. keep looking around for job openings, check the newspapers, and be sure to search online. there are jobs out there for you, just don't give up! check out this site, i think it'll help a lot. link removed remember, you're not alone and we care about you here no matter what. we're here for you and we want to listen. you're not alone! PLEASE check out these sites, they really help link removed link removed link removed link removed link removed link removed link removed take care!!
  6. awesome, i'm glad to haer it. keep it up, you can do it! be careful please, and let us know how you're doing.
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  9. ill be back later this evening to talk to you more, but remember, hang in there. i know its not a good situation, but your bf needs you right now. it'll be ok, just don't give up. remember the different things we've talked about
  10. well i can totally understand why you would not want to get rid of your computer or sell your car or go to a soup kitchen or some other government service, but really, it's your life at stake here. i mean, it would only be temporary, just to get you back on your feet. if you're running out of options like you say, i would definitely try some of these things before death. i really want you to get through this, because i know you can. again, i cannot imagine exactly what you're going through and i think you are so strong. just please know that we're here for you no matter what and we want to help see you through this no matter what. check this out and don't give up please, there is help out there link removed
  11. have you tried prioritizing your budget? for instance, if where you are living is too much money, try to move somewhere cheaper. if the car you drive takes too much gas, sell it and get something very cheap on gas. i mean, even the computer you're using right now. if you sold it, i'm sure you would get some money that would last you a while. i know you're working hard right now to do all you can, and i know that, i'm not trying say you aren't. i'm just saying there are options. do ANYTHING before you kill yourself. and with food, there are programs out there that will help you. look it up on google or something, or in the yellow pages. contact social services o SOMETHING. you will NOT starve. there are soup kitchens, meal programs, etc. for people with low income. believe me, if you could just please hang on, there are ways of getting around this a little. and eventually, i know you will get through this. and no, im not pushing religion on you or anything, but i promise a church wouldn't tell you you are going to hell. i'm here for you, hang in there please.
  12. i really admire your strength and i want you to know that i am here for you. i want to help and i really am so sorry about the things that you are going through. i know these are just words, but i hope that you believe that i truly do care. but if dying doesn't scare you at least a little, why does the thought of not having enough money for food, etc. scare you? if you truly just didn't have the will to live, you wouldn't care about that. the point is, if you kill yourself, you're just going assuming way too much and taking everything away. the future seems dark. and yes, nothing positive yet has come around to give you any reason to keep going. i understand that when you're in situations like this it's like, what's the point? but there is the point. although your future seems dark, at least it is a future. anything can happen and i know that one day eventually things are going to turn around for you. but if you kill yourself, you have NO future. you are in a grave rotting somewhere. if you're alive, there are always chances, opportunities, etc. one day, and i know it seems hard to believe, things are going to turn around for you, just please stick around to see that day. don't give up, it's not worth it. i talk so adamantly about this because i was once where you are, so close to just giving up. i had a different situation that i am not going to go into right now, but believe me, i was about to just end it. i don't want you to do what i almost did. someone like you does not need to waste their life on suicide, you're too good of a person. i know that your future will brighten, even though you cannot see it. it may be a while, but please, hang in there. death seems tempting, but please continue to be the strong person you are and fight it. you're going to get through this.
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