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Dude at last someone made a good suggestion Thanks SwingFox I'll try what u say man just go ask out without thinking the answer a sec Thanks dude

I also know and can say what you suggest easily but the real problem is to DO it . That's what i can not do i just cant even go near her anymore its like my stomach is being crushed by someones hand! i feel too much pain It not that easy to go and talk with her Thanks for your advice but what im looking for here is HOW to do that As i said i wasn't like this before i know what caused it but now im just a shy ***in loser i dont believe it but now thats what i am Im looking for a cure a miracle that leave all memories past and go on this damn life but i do not now how ? so if anyone knows a way out im listenin and ty

yeah i dont believe in fate neither but after your post im really confused . I have the same problem i've had a crush on this girl for 3 years.And the bad thing is that it still continues .. Just like you last year we moved to the same apartment complex where she lives but we had another problem she is also one of my best friends. 3 years ago she told me that she likes me until then everything was fine because i was in love with her so before that day but i had never told anything about this to her but at that day she did it ! i was the happiest guy on the world we dated for about 3 weeks and than she suddenly said that im bored with this thing i want out! i was shocked because i wasnt expecting something like that but i know the reason i was such a damn shy bastard i couldnt behave like myself near her i dont know i was like a small boy all the time whatever after that of course we werent friends no more (this was the reason i couldnt ask her before) soo know i am living in this hell where she lives in the next apartment and i always see her with someone else. it is very disturbing but i cant forget her One advise i can give about girls is that they like confidence and self-esteem which i dont have so like me i dont know i you can forget about her! if you find another girl believe me all your problems will go away i know this from my friens i also try you better try too good luck man