NCMaster

Hi Rescueme, Im not sure how long you guys dated and what the dynamic of your relationship was. There is always hope, if you lose all hope of reconciliation. Catch 22, but if hoping for reconciliation is prohibiting you from living life to the fullest, you probably will not get back with him. The more my ex-ex wanted to reconcile, the less I wanted to reconcile! Forget about him for the time being, he is probably not interested at this point. He might never be again, or he might be. But I would just not put any energy into thoughts of him whatsoever. Spend time loving yourself and making yourself happy To my experience, when I needed/wanted a relationship the least, they just showed up. weird. The more I wanted a relationship, the more desperate my actions were, and the less successful I was. I can also say that the more I wanted a relationship, the more I was only in it for the relationship and not the other person. So be in it for yourself, and watch your world change.