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  1. We ended up getting married and I signed the damn prenup like he wanted. He wouldn't marry without it and I thought what the hell. Yes, not giving OS is another sign of selfishness, of course. It's a refusal to give, to be generous. It has always been a sore point. I wonder if there are others here who live without it-and how they cope.
  2. I'm in a similar but reverse situation. My husband does not give me OS, no matter how clean I am, no matter how much energy he has. It is VERY frustrating. I often have fantasies of getting it elsewhere, but I prefer not to cheat (he made me sign a prenup that if I cheat I walk with nothing in our marriage). I am an attractive woman, and many men would like to do it with me, or to me I am at my wits end. I already tried everything. Talking, complimenting the two times he ever did it, saying how much I love it, etc. Nothing. He is too selfish. I love to give it to him and would hate not to just for revenge, since our sex life would be even more boring. Just venting, I have tried everything. I don't want to leave him because of that.
  3. Does anyone know a site with the clear sapphires? Sapphires are not cheap you know, but not so overpriced like diamonds.
  4. Someguy, I am totally with you on this. I know better. As an atheist and someone who sees through lies (including the Medical Insurance lies) I have always known how diamonds were overrated. I have a beautiful moissanite engagement ring, 2.5 carats. It is identical to a diamond and has fooled 100% of the jewelers I took it to. I would not throw away money on diamonds. My favorite sites: link removed link removed link removed link removed
  5. Kick him to the curb!! WHy make life easy for these guys??
  6. "When you get jealous of the other girls just remind yourself that your bf is with you and not them!" That is true, but if you were not there, they surely would talk to that girl...and if she hit on him, he surely would sleep with her..sorry, it's the truth. They look because they ARE attracted. DAko, business travel is also dangerous territory, especially with other males. SOme men just can't say no from peer pressure (they are afraid of seeming weak or p** whipped). And on travel they are anonymous. No one will tell.
  7. Piegirl, I am shocked he wants you to live with him but not your children. That is very selfish. Why are men so selfish nowadays? This whole story sounds really bad. HIm telling he won't marry you, etc. SInce it's only 8 months, I would continue just dating him but keeping my options open. That means going out with other guys as well. Keep this light. PUT YOUR CHILDREN FIRST. I am talking from experience.
  8. I totally disagree with Electra. You are not being selfish. He has compartimentalized you in his life. You don't really have a companion. And what are you doing still dating after 6 years? Martha, this guy is just not into you. You need to leave this relationship and find someone more interested in being with you. Got to and see some similar stories.
  9. Novaseeker, give me a break! He is being honest in telling her what he thinks now, but then he should not continue dating her if she wants more commitment, which is the natural course of every relationship! He should then go find someone who is happy having a carefree lifestyle, without sharing their lives!
  10. Piegirl, you really need a more specific website. Go to and click on message board. You will see many people with the same problem as yours. My advice is: do not live together with him. You will be stuck. Do not move in without marriage or a wedding date. Fund out why at that website. Good luck.
  11. Great answer Vanilla! You are starting your life with self respect. Beec has to find a woman who doesn't mind these things. Or one who works in the sex industry herself.
  12. It nauseating Beec. I am not sure how your "involved relationship" allowed this. And I can't understand how you do not get your kicks from other healthier activities, like sports and arts. You don't see it, but I am sure if you GF liked to have men's penises "shaken" on her face (and in some clubs the women actually put the Ps in their mouths) you would be a bit bothered. if you enjoy the company of very dumb and uneducated women, fine, also fine if you are single and horny, but if you are in a relationship, it's outrageous. It all depends on how yourpartner sees it. If your GF doesn't mind that another woman rubs her p*** in your c***, than all the power to her. But most do.
  13. Even if you don't go to the private areas, it is not a place you want your lover/BF/husband to be. At all. It amazes me how the younger women think it's ok and "cool" to let your BF go to places like these. They are the modern whorehouses! Any woman with self respect (and I know 19 year olds with self respect) would be extremely distressed over this.
  14. This had to be an answer from a 19 year old..."it's not like he asked for it"...oh my....was he tied and forced to have a naked woman rub against him? Please. Jaycee has all the right to be pissed. In my book this is cheating, oh yes. And how denigrating for her now to compete with the hooker and do the same?
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