bruind
-
Posts
145 -
Joined
bruind's Achievements
-
i cannot introduce her to my family without letting them know what my sexual orientation is. they'd surely question it. i'll wait till m already sure what i want and ready to settle down.
-
i adore someone who smells really, really good! someone who never runs out of topics to discuss with me someone who kcan keep up with my mod swings dig smart men someone who knows how to cook well (enough of fancy restos or take outs)
-
im done with school, but not financially stable yet. just started with mah first job, earning's barely enough to pay my bills. yeah, i should probably just postpone telling it to her. as ive said, this may just be an episode, maybe i dnt really really need to "come out" for the moment
-
told her i think i love her. long silence after. didnt talk for a couple of days after that. called me one day, and asked me out. after dinner, she asked me if i wanna be her girlfriend. i said yes. we both cried.
-
i dont live with her, i live with my sisters, but shes the one paying the rent, so she could throw me out if she wishes to. im now thinkin that maybe i could postpone it, wait till the relationship gets a bit older. until im really, really sure that i want to be really with her for a long long time. besides, this preference may just be an episode in my life, and i might end up with a man in the future. so yeah maybe il just postpone telling her about it.
-
i surely hope she'll take it well. i know very well that there's nothin wrong with me. i just happen to fall in love with a man trapped in a woman's body. i still havent figured out when to break the thing to her. need to muster enough courage. she gets really * * * * *y at times. no way in this lifetime she can accept that her daughter's gay. she made that clear.
-
easier said than done
-
Ive always considered myself a hetero, until i met this wonderful person. These past 9 months were nothing but pure bliss. I found love in the arms of another Eve. we started out as friends, went out a couple of times. there was this unspoken attraction between us but neither had the courage to tell the other. i had the courage to let her know how i feel after 5 cans of beer. she was a bit surprised when i let my feelings known. but knowing that both of us have this commitment-phobia, we just had that revelation slip off. we continued going out together, no strings attached. a few weeks after that incident, she managed to let her feelings out as well, and the rest is history. agreed to try out if we'll click, plus the commitment stuff. nine months later, a dozen fights after, here we are fully committed to each other. but there's one dilemma left untoiled yet. my family (the traditional, conservative family) doesnt know about this. my sisters look up to me. they still think im that same girl they're with all their lives. liberal but straight. not in a million lifetimes would my family think that im bisexual (if im already one?). my mum would surely disown me if she finds out, thats if she hasnt had a heart attack yet.. she'd be hysterical. we've had rifts in the past, broken trusts, and stuff. but this will be the biggest blow. am happy with this person im with right now. never been happier. far better than the men i dated before. so how would i tell them who i really am? i couldnt just sit her down and say, "mum, i think im gay and having a relationship with a lesbian." theres no way she could take it. im pretty sure she/they wont be able to fathom this fact. and might end up disowning me. so how do i go with it?
-
partner's goal was to give the other a hundred percent of herself. since she's having a hard time opening up and expressing her emotions... the partner's reply was "i dont want u to give me 100%. keep somethin for yourself." for if things dont work between them, it'd be easier for them to bounce back and move on. the other might have taken it negatively. her interpretation was like, she wont get all the support she was expecting from the partner since she wont give 100%.
-
can you guys give me all the reasons why one shouldnt give her/his 100% in a relationship when your partner gives you his/her all...
-
just got reminded of the petnames used before... hubby and wifey hehe
-
first of, its been like 6 months since my last visit here, and i noticed alot has changed in here.. i must say its easier movin around in here.. now here it goes. ive been hurt by someone and his cousin who happens to be my friend as well has always been there for me. she knows how much her cousin has hurt me. she was my shoulder-to-cry-on. but the thing is, she's a lesbian. and she confessed just a few days ago, while we were having a drinking session, that she likes me. i got drunk. something happened between us. now im confused with whats goin on. though we never really talked on whats gonna happen after that night. i could feel that i like her now too. i miss her. but my mind says i shouldnt entertain it. should i let the feeling (liking her now) grow or just maintain my friendship with her? though im quite liberal, i havent prepared myself yet with situations like this..
-
getting the disease is out of the story, so there's no need to preach on that. just the avoiding pregnancy thing.
-
it happened june12, around 2am. can i still take the pill?does it still cover the 72-hour period? and can u give me uhmm.. like a specific brand?
-
i've been in a kind rebellious mode this past few months... in the span of two months, i lost my virginity, and he's not even my boyfriend. just met him a few weeks before that. i admit regretting it to the wrong guy. though i felt like im still intact... he's so small... then there's guy number two. thought we had somethin going on. i did it again, twice. hurts still... after that, we had a falling off.. here comes guy number 3. my exact opposite. he doesnt exist in my too uncomplicated life, and i dont exist either in his complicated one. i agreed to spend the night with him. no strings attached. he hasnt had sex for more than a year, while i wanted to explore things. so we hit it off... however, what worries me right now is that he came inside me. i took 3 500mg of aspirin dissolved in a glass of sprite, cause my friends say its quite effective in flushing out the sperms... i dont really know if its really effective. anyway, can anyone tell me some other measures i should take to prevent something unexpected? as early as now. its been like 3 days after it happened...