00Spartan00

Me and my girl were together for 3 months, I'm not saying you all have nothing, I'm just agreeing that seeing eachother more should help things if there is anything left to be helped. That sounded really good in my head, try to make sense of it.

Personally, If it was my girlfriend that hat the problem, I'd have taken the physical route to put him out of the picture along time ago. If things get so serious that he stalks and never stops calling and all that other crap you see in the movies, then get the cops involved. But until than, this is all on your sister. SHE is the one the dude likes, and SHE is the one who needs to explain, (bluntly), that he isn't a person she would ever get involved with. And that the more he keeps the obsession crap up, the less she wants to even wants to look at him. She isn't the only girl in the world and on top of that she is taken. Yes, SHE should break of the relationship with the worsipper before things get out of hand if they aren't already. But like i said, nothing said to this kid means crap unless it comes straight from the horses mouth A.K.A your sister *Not an insult, just a saying*

Okay, not sure if this will help you to feel better, but it will alow you to see things from another guys perspective. Same thing happened with me, me and my girlfriend were going out and i went through a phase that i wasn't felling for her the way i did at first. The love thing never enterned in the picture, but she had strong feelings for me, stronger than i had for her. This can spook a guy and put him off. So maybe he feels or felt just as strong for you as you do, mabey not. In any case, I broke up with my girlfriend because it wasn't there anymore... BUT, if there is something there still, seeing eachother really should help it. Talking on the phone all of the time, or not talking at all KILLS the relationship. So like i said, if there is something there, seeing eachother should open it back up. The best part of having a girlfriend is having her with you *in moderation of course* not just talking about nothing on the phone or whatever.

Well I feel that the #1 rule in a relationship is to respect and appreciate your b/f or g/f. This means NO hitting in any circumstances short of joking around. But this also means to stick up for your b/f or g/f always. My BEST friend's g/f and i get into it sometime, and he jumps down my throat. I go back at him than and we get into a huge fight. Point is, She is still his g/f and we are still best friends. This means he should be able to jump down these girls throats(in a NONsexual way ofcourse) and they shouldn't be offended by it *IF they really are his BEST friends* Now take this however you will, but as a guy i can tell you that guys ALWAYS try to leave their options open. If something goes wrong with a g/f, you never piss of the friends that are girls you have, cause they could hook you up with someone else. Either way, you only slapped him once and as long as you are sincere in your apology and you don't do it again, he should quite being such a A-hole. This is ofcourse if things really happened the way you say they did. Good Luck, 00Spartan00

You can always combat not having anything to say with just going out and doing something. Get him to go out to Wet N Wild or some place around you like that. You both will have fun and when you have fun with someone your relationship streangthens, which always somehow enables two people to be able to talk to eachother easier. Hell, I'm going to Wet N Wild this weakend with a girl I've not for a short time, and I just recently went with her and her family to another theme park. Theme parks will make you all have fun together. Theme Parks Theme Parks Theme Parks Theme Parks

Just got off the phone and I am going to go over there and fix things. They were farther gone then i thought. Thankyou for your advice, it made me get off my but and call her and talk to her about it. It did make a differance. Thanks, 00Spartan00

Okay, i know EXACTLY how you feel. If you feel like you have any chance at all, TAKE IT. By that i mean, if you think she likes youfrom what little bit you all have talked, than take it a step further. Say, "Hey, can I pull you aside for a sec and talk to you?" If she says yes, great. If she'd prefere to talk around her friends, even better because you get to practice talking in front of a group. Either way, you need to tell her you think she seems kool(or slide in a different wprd depending on you age) and ask if she wants to hang out some time like at the movies or whatever. Ask for a phone number so you guys can talk about it further(If you think you'll get that far, have a pen just in case). Remember, think about what you are saying, but dont think too long or you'll look like an idiot. Oh ya, almost forgot, DO SOMETHING! Don't let her slip by. A girl not interested is 1 out of a million. There's plenty more so don't sweat it. Good Luck, 00Spartan00

My girlfriend and i have been going out for about a month. We are both attracted to eachother. She's hot and she loves my body... So when we are together, when talking gets old, we can always act. Unfortunately, I'm 17, the next town over, and gass prices are hell to pay without a steady job. Basically, the phone is f-ing things up. She is the type who talks for HOURS. By doing this, she tells me her entire life story in a few phone calls. I kind of avoided the phone a bit lately... :scramble: BIG MISTAKE. Now she has expressed that, "You only seem to call to call me back. I don't like calling all the time if you are always busy or out." She also is going to this church lately, and the pasture's son REALLY likes her. She has said I'm better looking, but that seems to be wearing thin. My problem is, that she is now handing me the same avoiding treatment, plus she talkes about how guys are always flirting with her at this Teen Court thing she does. Things are looking dim and it's hard to talk to her, preferably ladies (but i'll take all the advise i can get)... what is my next step? [-o