summerchild692003

honestly now that it's been 4 years since this thread has started...I dated him for almost 4 years and instead of going any further he just dumped me on his birthday!!! We went on a break as my way of getting over him, then I asked him if he wanted to be with me and he said he didn't want to be with anyone so I said that it was over and to have a nice life. Ya...he dumped me on aug 21,07. I'm with a new guy and Jan 25,08 will be 3 months and honestly my new guy treats me so much better than the other did... I was just blind.... but I'm happy now.... Alex(the ex) and I are friends... but nothing more, and I made it clear I wouldn't take him back ever. Eric(my current bf) is the best thing that has ever happened to me.... and to think I waited 4 years to date him!!!! Anyway.... just an update ttyl guys!! p.s why would i want to stay with a guy who doesn't love me? I mean seriously...plus he just left for the military so the break up was bound to happen. He was in love with the girl I use to be, not the woman I have become. I don't know... I did kiss him to see if I made the right decision....which I realized that I did make the right decision in letting him go, but I wanted the closure I guess... Now on to eric.... I've known him since highschool...only we NEVER dated until recently... I wanted him to ask me out but he was to shy and quiet so I thought he wasn't interested. Now.... 4 years later... I see him in McDonalds drive thru and I'm like holy * * * * he's HOT!!! and all the feelings that I bottled away for him finally opened up again... it was... interesting cause we started hanging out more at college, THEN...after I was officially single... I really started to go after him... I thought he was hot... and I still do....and to be honest... I never loved Alex like I do Eric...with Alex I had a hole in my heart, but with Eric I feel complete..like he's he one I've been waiting for. It's totally weird how that works out huh? It's funny Oct 25, 07 at 4:00pm Eric said yes to me asking him out... heheheheh I win!!!! and I'm fnally with the right guy!!!

Im eighteen years old, and my bf is sixteen years old, & i want 2 get married, but he is saying he isnt ready yet, & im like should i give up & not ask or hint 2ward it again? i dunno wut 2 do... jennie (aka )

thanx 2 u all! ur advice is helping alittle bit, but i still have problems, like my fear of him coming after me, if he finds out that the no contact rule is gone, but wut can i do? PHONE THE POLICE!! lol. i went 2 my bf's house last night & i got him 2 bike me home cuz i didnt want 2 go home alone! but i had fun watching Shrek!

well i was only 12 years old when he started telling me about my body, & that i have a hole in vagina. well being nieve & a child, i showed him. i absolutely had NO idea it wuz wrong. Well, i finally told my mom in either my grade 7 year, she confronted him, & it stopped, & i wuznt allowed 2 stay home alone with him @ all. So it wuz either my grade 8 or 9 year when he started pressuring me in2 sex, & at the time i wuz only 14 or 15 years old. it wuznt until this year that it all stopped & i moved out. He pressured me, bribed me, bought me stuff for sex, & he wuz married 2 my mom, who is being a complete bitch cuz i got her husband arrested, now i find out that they arent going 2 charge him! & the NO CONTACT rule is lifted so he has all the contact he wants & im scared he might come after me... thanx 4 listening jennie (aka )