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Actually the arugments did start when I moved in together. They started mainly because of His ex not wanting to let go of him. Also him not having proper family growing up he become close to her Parents(He was actually boarding at the ex's parents house). So he moved out and found an apartment after a month we were dating and soon after that I moved in. I probably feel I missed out on the awhole excitment of the just dating part and moved straight to cozy couple.Even his friends say we act more like a couple who's been together for a year.

I been together with this guy for almost five months and we moved quite fast in the realtionship. I noticed we been having 2 or 3 heated arugments a month.I've already moved into his flat and so far we probably the most a day apart.I would like to go out more while his more content on staying home. I noticed some of the arguments were petty and basically him just having a hissy fit and running into thre bedroom. we are both in love and we get along great but sometimes I get in grouchy moods and he over reacts. Is it normal to argue that much and should be just have alittle more space?

My two previous relationships the guy pretty much asked me if we was now a couple after our second date.....werid aye? Relationships come sooner rather then latter I think as if you both have chemistry then it's natural link. If your dating for a couple months but not exclustive yet it means your forcing the spark which isn't there.

Update: we seen each other everyday for 14 days now and we can't get enuff of each other.We deciced we now are offically girlfriend and boyfriend and he invited me too Sydney to meet his friends and too meet his family. We still can't get enuff of each other and the sparks are still flying and his been sending me these sweet goodnight text messages on my phone So all in all things seem be going good and I doubt it's a rebound/

Update today the guy I been dating now for over a week now told me is scared to tell me so soon but he thinks he loves me. As I mentioned before we spend basically all week together and his very much smitten with me.The sex is great, have heaps in common and both find each other attractive.He has said he hopes we'll be togther for along time and already told his family about me and introduced me to some of his friend which I get along with.His a very affectionate, friendly soft spoken guy.Other then things have been moving very quickly it seems like everything is going quite well. I feel maybe things are alittle good to be true so I should slow things down a few paces so I won't get really hurt if something bad happens.

My ex broke up with me like a month a half ago and I'm over him. So I deciced to be single for awhile and just date a few guys casually. Then I started dating this guy for about a week and we seen each other like every day.Time just flys when we are together and the sparks are flying like mad.We have allot in common, chemistry is there and we seem right for each other. His just as much as lovesick too, talking non stop about how great Iam to his friends and family. He however came out a 3 year relationship which he had nothing in common with the girl and there wasn't really any chemistry to start with. He just tried to make himself love her and now he found me and actually has real feelings towards me he is thrilled. My problem is I came out quite hurt in my last relationship and deciced I would be single for quite awhile. Then this guy comes right out of nowhere and sweeps me off my feet. I'm just scared I'll be hurt again. Do you think I found another possible long term partner and if so what should I do to help aid your blossming relationship?

I called him up through the week and finally we met on Sunday and we talked over coffee and he said he is willing to try to make things work even if it means it takes a couple weeks or months. We didn't take things slowly and after the week break we was back and I was sleeping over his place and he told me he was pretty sure he loved me. Then came Monday and he told me the passion and love was dead.He though after spending a few days back togther he would feel something but he didn't.He saw how much I was trying to help him out and it just made him feel like it was a big lie and he couldn't do it anymore. I feel cheated he only gave me a week of spending togther and then just breaking my heart in too again.I asked why he said he loved me the other day and he said he was trying to convince himself he did. He told me we both was happy about how the relationship was going and he didn't want to drag it out any longer.He was crying again and said he deeply cares about me but not in the lover sense.It hurts him so much too know how much pain he caused me but he feels he changed. He feels that his grown up and sometimes he feel like a uncle looking after me then a lover.

I been dating my boyfriend for 18 months(His 23 and I'm 20) and I live at his place but the last two months or so I been more interested in talking too guys on the net and having virtual sex rather then wanting to spend time with him.He said his okay about it but I think his not and I've also been depressed and been showing little affection and not treating him very well.I also been saying hurtful things to him. The Beginning of this week a few days after he returned from a rave he started crying and said it's over. He said his not sure if he loves me anymore, He enjoys the time apart from me, sex isn't the same and he felt the love died slowly over the month.He also said he can't see us in the future and his changed.The strange thing is he done the same thing before 12 months ago exactly the same and said he didn't love me then before and the real truth was he needed his space. Though this time I think his serious and said he need a week alone(like last time this happened).I then tell him what I have been doing to him and why the reason he might be feeling this way .Something clicked and he finally agreed to start dating again but if his feeling no improvement in 2 to 5 weeks it's over .I been calling him this past week(I know I shouldn't have) and things seem to be getting a little better after every call and he said really cares about me, missing me and still find me sexually attractive and doesn't wanted to hurt me.The real problem he said is his doubting he loves me anymore because I just badly hurt him and made him felt unloved and that's why his feeling like that(That can be fixed) or it just died by itself?(That can't) His just very confused and I loved him and want him back and ashamed how I treated him and I moved out back to my parents at the moment. Do you think we have a chance if I cut off the net virtual sex and starting making him feel love again or do I have false hopes? Also are there any= tips I can try to spark up our love again?