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i learned through my relationship with my ex...wow tahts hard to say....but i learned that i need to find trust i a man before anything...and i think that if he loved you ...he wait forever for you and not need to have sex...sure he'll want it but if he loves you ..he would be more happy when you waited until you were ready then if you did it when you werent ready..you will have more confidence...and just be better....i think i screwed up with my life and im playing for it and will pay for it for the rest of my life...if i could go back...i wouldnt have given my virginity up to his guy i really liked but didnt know and for the finish....HE DUMPED ME...i will never forgive myself...this probably will ruin my life....i will never be the same...i know im suppose to ask for your adivce but i wanted everyone to hear what i had to say and maybe help someone else from being so dumb....i ahve given up on my life but maybe you can still save yours....thanks *~ JeSs ~*

thnx guys for all your help but it turns out all he wanted was sex...i hadent given into him for about 3 weeks or more andhe had his best friend come and tell me he didnt want to go out with mr anymore. I havent seen him for over a month now ... so i dont even know if we are friends ...i just really wish i could know why....nobuddy will tell me...aanyway thnx again.... *~JeSs~*

My b/f definitely likes it and wants it alot more then i do...

Yes he does call me ....once in a while .....I try to call him and all he does is ignore my calls..or just not talk at all when he does answer...i have said no when he wanted to have sex and he tried to ..umm....get me to and afterwords when i was walking him home from where we had been sitting/laying and i asked if he was mad and he looked at me and stopped and said no..why would i be? kissed and hugged me and asked if we were going to hang out that day and to call him.... thanks sooo much guys...just tell me wat u think about him

I think you defiantly should text her...you guys could start to be good friedns...maybe she feels the same way you do about her relationships

PlEaSe HeLp Me!¡!¡!¡! ~ i screwed this guy and then we started going out. Right now we have been going out with him for 2 weeks and 5 days ..I only see him when i go to my friends house because she lives right next to him (i go to my friend house ALOT) But the only time he comes over is at night around 9:00pm -...the latest he's ever got there is 2:30am..after he has smoked pot with his friends (which he does every night before he comes over). His friend normaly walks him to her house and then leaves (he lives very close also)...he stays with me in my friends backyard for about an hour until her parents are asleep and then we sneak out and walk around or go to his house or his friends and we normaly screw...but im worried thats the only reason he's going out with me so i asked him and he said if it was, i wouldnt be going out with you and he told me he loved me. He never calls me and rarely answers when i call him...his friend told me it was because he doesnt like talking on the phone....he's a huge sweetheart when im with him and i really love him alot and my friends tell me that he loves me but im not too sure he love me? ~ *~* JeSs *~*