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J, your surgery is coming soon in January. Has your new girlfriend agreed to become your guardian and sign the consent of your operation? Will she there for you to hold your hands when you wake up? You asked me to be your guardian when we met last time in October. I am so sad that I can't be there for you. I feel so hurt to think about someone else caring you in sick. Your kitty, now mine, is doing fine. I have started feeding her canned foods a little every day. She likes chiken, and salmon pate. She meows when I prepare them. It's so cute when she hurriedly eats them. I feel so sad to think that the kitty and you will not ever meet again for life. We decided to cut you out of our life for our mental health. Are you relieved that I don't nag you any more about you not coming to trim her claws? BTW, why does your new girl still keep her dating profile active?

Good for you! Many dumpees who are NCing with their dumpers would love to hear how your initiating contact worked out.

Why is this thread in GBT forum? I know that I should move on, but it is not easy. It is 43 days since NC. It is hard... but the period helped me to accept that he left me.

I thought I was getting better after 3 months and a week after BU, but since I broke my NC second time, to tell you that I worked things through and even though our chat ended on a very friendly terms, my heart have begun to hurt all over again. You are no longer online on gmail chat as you used to be. Why? Are you relieved to know that I am doing seeminigly fine without you? Are you relieved that I would reappear by breaking NC again so not worried about my silence any more? The thing is, I broke NC to let you know I have done what I should have done. Now the ball is in your court and I will no longer contact you again until you reach out. This is NC 12th day, and I will continue to NC as long as it takes.