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Thank you for your kind words., sad people with good feelings are always the ones to end up getting burned. I doubt he feels remorse, and he is like i wrote a disturb person with bad intentions, no need to ever look back .

The only reason i texted him all i wrote to him was for my own validation , i did not expect a apology from him at all and neither will i ever want to speak to him ever !! But its written and done, it may sink in his head for a while, but thats my exit last words to him.

Hello, i blocked, deleted his number, block all social media, so no i do not want anything to do with him anymore, enough abuse ! It hurts to be chated and lied too, but i have to move on for my on sanity.

Hi Wiseman, Yes same man... like i said it was like a drug to me, i was fooled in believing him everytime, this is actually the first time i have ever sent him a message like this and actually deleted him everywhere.

So i dated someone since 2019, we started off as friends then eventually ended up together. This so called relationship then turned TOXIC, we would get back together, break up and the cycle over and over again. Every time i pushed back he would reel me in with LOVE BOMBING , i every time fell for his LIES ! I really was addicted to this TOXIC behavior, and every time we would make up it was like i was in Heaven, thinking he was going to change. Last week he called me at 7am asking to please let him come over and once he arrived here he was DRUNK ! he told me he wanted to marry me , etc, ( more lies) I let him stay here until he sobered off then he left. Not once did he even call me to thank me !! Yesterday a mutual friend to me he had called her that same morning at 6am , so he was fishing for women to hang out with, but me thinking he really needed me i feel for his GAME ! I found out yesterday about him contacting our mutual friend, i lost it completley and wrote this to him on WhatsApp, I needed him to know that iam done , his response was two words, "YOUR RIGHT " i after deleted all social media, phone # etc. Iam disgusted with all of this, also disgusted on how many time he mistreated me , used me, lied to me ... canceled plans with me 🥵 What kind of person does this ?? so wow last week you came to my house at 7am , but before you wrote to TERESA at 6am ? why you play games ? Not nice , i never deserved you to be this way with me !! I did consider you a nice person, someone i really loved, but of course you don't care about me or my feelings For this reason iam removing myself from you and social media and never want anything to do with you !! You are a awful person who dosent know how to keep good people with good intentions and you are a disturb person with bad feelings and no good intentions, good luck with your life !! One day you will regret losing me ! in the meantime keep your search for happiness , You never treated me GOOD ANYWAY, never cared about me ! Thank You for hurting me

Iam also wondering ... is he intoxicated 24/7 ? Or is this your excuse for his behavior?

My questions is to you , why are you putting up with him?? think about your children... this man clearly is toxic, and a DRUNK., he has no regards for you or your kids. Its time to really analyze the situation and focus on the well being of you and your kids.

Hi Batya33 true what you say, but i dumped him after he cancelled our trip.. who knows maybe he decided to pursue her and add her to social media, all i can tell you i was the official GF, our pictures are still on his social media, i blocked him completley , so i could start healing.

I was his girlfriend , this women is new in his life... i know that 100%.

Hi, yes we live few blocks away.. same culture. First time in years he has done this, he never had that i know any interest in other women... She is new and he is spending tons of time with her, something he was not doing with me.

Actually shes new , he recently added her to facebook, so i think they met few weeks ago. Hes love bombing her like he did to me.

Thank You... Yes thats why i decided to start therapy to understand the reasons i would even want to believe him and all his lies.. i guess he is a PIG i now iam starting to undertsand that... still being deceived and lied is painful enough.

Thank you dear, for your kind words.. iam working on myself and healing, self love but its hard as iam going thru all the emotions.

Hello My ENA supporters, iam struggling in pain and just started therapy for the first time. I've been dating someone since 2019, we started off as best friends 6 months later he confessed he was in love with me. Covid started and we barely saw eacthother much during 2020., We reconnected once we both got our vaccines and even traveled for our birthdays this past June to Jamaica. Things were great when we came from our trip , but something was off , we spent less time together, we would maybe see eathother 1 a week., once he even cancelled a date 5 minutes before he was going to pick me up, that made me so mad, his excuse was he COULD NOT MAKE IT , was via text , i asked why ? he didn't answer so i just left it like that. We didn't talk for 1 month and just recently 3 weeks ago he contacts me and says he wants to talk, so i agree . he tells me he loves me , wants to be with be forever, and even goes to say his family is confused why we are not together anymore. So he then suggests us to go on another trip, so he books the hotel and i book the flights, he seemed so excited about us going away, we planned to get our COVID TEST together , then few days later he sends me a text, He cannot go due to family needs him in Miami that weekend. I was in such shock i did not respond to his text. Three weeks have gone by and i see he added a new women on his Facebook, i went into her profile and she is posting love videos of both of them, saying she has found her love of her life ! I was so confused and hurt i blocked him on facebook, iam really hurting quite a but now, he really played me bad.

So if he hurt you badly once , and is coming back strong once again have you considered he may be doing it for his EGO? trust your instinct, don't trust someone who hurt bad in the past, i sure would not. Sounds Toxic to me, and the cycle will repeat itself.