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RitaTrue last won the day on July 7 2012

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  1. Thanks. I'm going to document his attempts at contact. I hope I won't need to involve the police, but this will help just in case.
  2. I was with my now-ex for about a year. This month, I found out he cheated and got the third-party pregnant. He denies everything and plays victim. I dumped him ~2.5 weeks ago. Been No Contact since. After that, he's tried to reach me ~40 times. I block each attempt. With calls, he'll try again from a different number and sometimes from a different email. I'll be changing my number soon. He hasn't done anything physically; he's just an annoyance. This afternoon, I received an anonymous package of chocolate, which I threw away. I spoke with some friends, and some say this sounds like "hoovering" but I'm not sure. I dont understand how someone can be okay lying to you like that, but then act like they want the relationship back. For what--so they can lie again?! Please make it make sense.
  3. You were smiling in my face, then cheating on me. Trying to have both worlds. You swear up and down you're innocent. You're not. You keep begging for chance to talk. Eat sht.
  4. You're sorry for how we ended. But you want to lead me on, knowing my feelings for you because it gives you an ego boost. I'm glad I avoided your text. I reblocked you. Got to focus on myself.
  5. After 8-9 weeks of No Contact, you text me saying "hey Bubbles, download this app so I can send you a video message.". I haven't answered. On one hand I'm excited to hear from you. Still, I feel like this might be a fishing attempt: you might've had a girl on the back burner just before we broke up cause you ARE a serial dater. It didn't work out, and now you're back. Not sure what to do.
  6. So I heard you're a bit mad at me. Mad that I didn't chase or beg you to stay after you said you were unsure about us and our compatability, and that the distance wasn't working for you anymore. You're right. I didn't fight for you. I won't. You basically said you didn't want me anymore. Why would I want that? So your pride is hurt. Fine. You mad? Stay mad.
  7. Your ex is a piece of sheet!! And I hope you block him on everything!!
  8. My mom called to say hi and asked how you were. I told her we broke up. She and my step dad then give unsolicited advice on what they think about it, why they think it happened and what I ought to do. I bit my tongue because I was already in a bad mood and don't wanna say something mean to my parents. I think they find it entertaining. It's odd. As far as you, I feel a new anger. You hid things from me for a while and then dumped it all on me last minute and left. Screw you .
  9. I realize now why you may have left, and I do feel bad for it. But, honestly, I've lost some respect for you. We've known each other for so long. But you didn't respect me enough to tell me your feelings. Instead you pent them up, and progressively just started counting things against me without bringing them to my attention. I guess you just assumed I could read your mind. We talked about marriage, kids and our future. And damn near over night, you're confused and unsure. I don't even know who you are anymore really. Whether we'll talk again in the future I don't even know. I'm not even sure if it's my business to hope for that. I won't. I want someone who knows they want me. Without doubt. Without question. And you're not that one. I know you're hurting like I am. You told me. But hurt is not the same as desire. I deserve someone who desires me. I know I will find that person in due time. In the mean time, I need to stop stuffing my face with fatty cakes and all types of delicious evil, to make myself feel better about this.
  10. Right now, we're on break. I initiated it. Because my bf/ex bf is showing poor impulse control and financial immaturity. I'm still trying to sort out what I want to do. But I might come back here in the future.
  11. I'm so confused about you. Last month you were going on about starting lives together. Engagements and such. Then you told me you went to a strip club, got lapdances, something we both agreed was out of bounds for US. But I guess not for YOU. Obviously. Your finances are horrible. And you show zero motivation on doing what's necessary to pay them off as soon as possible. You feel that you HAVE to have your netflix, your extra wifi, your app subscriptions, your dine-ins and fast food? Shoot you're military! They give you food for free! But you still spend money. I love you so much, but at 23, you're not where I want you to be in maturity or impulse control. Are you worth me waiting on? I dont know. Is it fair for me to wait on you though? You asked what can you do to regain my trust? I dont know you tell me. We're long distance right now: what CAN you do! All you can give me is words now. But I no longer trust you. You're as close to a soul mate as I can imagine. But you're not ready to be an adult. And I can't force you.
  12. Dayum. This. Poem. Is. So beautiful. You have a way with words
  13. After months and months of agony,.... I. am. finally. free! Thank you everyone who gave me support and advice. I am so done with this man. And am over it all!! Thank you so much for your words, I can't stress that enough!! I am finally free!!
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