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well she phoned we talked, she said that we were invited to so and so birthday on saturday and that we should float down the river that day too. I told her id go to the birthday but that im going down the river this wednesday. she sounded upset but we're not together so i can't make plans around her right? so i said talk to you later and she said ill give you a call tomorrow unless you dont want me to, i said that it was ok. did i mention this girl broke up with me. to make things more interesting my ex ex talked to me yesterday and wants to do something today

im not trying to get anyone worked up, i know im lucky, and i should take advantage of this situation

ok thats good, thats what my first instinct was. ill stick with that

Thanks for your advice guys, i guess ill stay home tonight and wait for her call.

So yesterday i was at the beach with a friend in the lake and the ex comes up behind me and says hi we talked for a bit then i just walked away. i later left the beach in my buddies car and came back in my car cause i felt bad about not saying bye. so as i was walking to the beach from my car i ran in to her and she said lets go back to the beach. went back had fun in the water for a few hours then we talked on the grass and she kept touching me and then kissed me. she asked if i wanted to watch a movie tonight and i said i might be going out of town, and that i would call her if plans changed. she says she really misses me i said the same we hugged and kissed some more and left. she phoned me twice after i got home and then i phoned her later to tell her i was coming over. we watched tv and then part of the movie we rented. the was so much sexual tension in the room, she would climb on top of me and try and kiss me i let her a few times and then moved her off of me. this was really hard. she kept doing this throughout the movie. in the end we ditched the movie and things got real hot and heavy, i mean HOT. i slept over and in the morning i said bye she gave me a kiss and said ill call you after work. we both decided last night that we don't know if we really love each other, and that we should just start fresh as if we just started seeing each other and see if we can fall in love again. im just worried that she might think its just easier to be with me than find someone else, so i dont want to make her think im going to be her little doormat whenever she needs some action or company. so my question is should i go out tonight so im not home for when she phones? and if i do go out should i phone her when i get home casue she knows i have caller id and can see whos phoned. im a little mixed up right now about where to go from here

well today i was at the beach with a friend and the ex comes up behind me and says hi we talked for a bit then i just walked away. i later left the beach in my buddies car and came back in my car cause i felt bad about not saying by. so as i was walking to the beach from my car i ran in to her and she said lets go back to the beach. went back had fun in the water for a few hours then we talked on the grass and she kept touching me and then kissed me. she asked if i wanted to watch a movie tonight and i said i might be going out of town, and that i woudl call her if plans changed. she says she really misses me i said the same we hugged and kissed some more and left. what should i do

im in the same situation im really not sure if its a good idea to send flowers, even though i neglected/took for granted my ex as well. i may make you look desperate and that you havent done anything in the whole 3 weeks except think about her and that the flowers are one of your last desperate attempts. its really hard to figure out what should be done if anything.

i already did that on monday with her, we went out for drinks and talked, at her request. We left it at that "if we get back together things will have to be different" and she said i know you love me and you know i love you, we just need a little time. so its now been 5 days, i phoned her this morning but she wasnt home.

so i havent talked to her for 4 days, i wanna phone her and ask her to go to the beach but maybe i should wait longer, i think shes phoned here once and blocked the number. not sure what else to do, im at the stage where i want to get back together now or just deal with it and move on, i dont want to be waiting for her for long

ok so yesterday i was at the gym and i saw her there so i decided i might as well talk to her instead of ignoring her. so we talked she said shes been lonely and all shes done is work, i said ive been busy and met alot of people blah blah blah. i then asked her what she was doing tonight and she said nothing probably watching tv at home so i said if you want we can do somehting, she said ok like what, so we went out for margarita mondays at earls, we talked she asked for a hug i hesitated but then gave her one, she said she wanted to kiss me. we talked more about things and what each of us want. we went back to the car and we kissed a few times and she wanted more but i said we should wait. i drove her home and we pretty much said theres no point in getting back together unless we are sure of things. weve only been apart a week, so we are gonna try the single thing for a bit longer and see where things go from there. as it stands right now, i feel pretty good, id like to get back with her but if things dont work out i know i will be able to move on.

she broke up with me and that made me realise some things. i never said i was seeing other girls, i just said i met some girls. i never said i missed her i said i dont know because i didnt want to lay my feelings on the line like i did when we broke up. for the past week i have really been searching inside myself to figure out what i really want and i realise now that i wasnt treating her right, but im ready to take that step to be with her

Well the exgf phoned me 4 days after the break up and came over we talked i made her laugh touched her a few times on the arm and waist. told her i have met girls etc. she said why does this feel weird and that she misses me, we talked more then i said i had to go and she said ill leave it to you to phone next, its been almost 3 days since then and im wondering what to do. maybe she is waiting for me to phone to see if i still care about her cause that was the reason we broke up, i was pushing her away and always went out with my friends and never brought her. some girls tell me to send her flowers tomorrow others say phone her, im confused. Thanks

i dont think you should call her you just sent her an email, you need to get out and find another girl or just find some girls as friends that you can hang out with. im having trouble with this right now too, my exgf phoned me and came over after 4 days of calling ti quits and at the end said well ill leave it for you to phone me next and ive been having a hard time not phoning her, but ive gone for 3 days without doing it, its been hard but its what needs to be done. so i think thats what you have to do. just try and meet as many girls as you can it helps the greeving process.

How do i do this though? She said she is ready, so should i just have some candles lit and music playing in my room one time and then just bring her in there??? Or should i ask her when a good night would be, i just want her to be comfortable.

Hi, my girlfriend is a virgin and i want to make her first time special, what should i do? I know i should get some lube, what else candles, music????