First of all, I am not a professional, but I have listened to LoveLines with Adam Corolla and Dr Drew for years. I know exactly what they would say. You're 14. It is more likely that you don't have an orgasm at this age than that you do. As bad as this sounds, you probably shouldn't worry about it. In fact, some women in their 20s can have a hard time with it. If you want to, try running the bathtub water on "yourself" and see if the high-powered friction can make you have one. I realize this isn't something you can do all the time but see if you can have it at all like this. Other than that, I'd say wait and it will happen with experience, time, or both. One last thing. You'll know it when you have it. Good luck! Hope I've helped.