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  1. It's customary to put our mouths up against genitalia anyway, so why make a fuss out of your hands touching your own?
  2. alright, in case you guys need an update. I'm thinking about her less and less now that we don't talk anymore. Every few hours I'll get the urge to call her but I don't. She wanted her space so she'll have it. Deep down I keep thinking I'll just find out she hooked up with someone else and it'll just rip the wound open again, so I think NC is the best idea at the moment. Of course, she reads this forum so she knows my master. Ah well. As long as I get better, that's the important part. If I somehow regain emotional stability, who knows, we might be friends again.
  3. Basically, my ex-gf and I are lying on my bed. We were still erm... experimenting sexually? Anyhow, she was masturbating me and then I'm like, "Ah crap, I'm gonna come." and she goes "what?" instead of getting a kleenex or something and I just splurted in the air. The thing is, we were in the dark, and it landed allllll over. It was so hilariously funny heh.
  4. Slim to none. Did you guys fool around at all before that? Semen can get there in all sorts of weird and unexpected ways. I had one incident which my ex-gf and I jokingly called the Fountain of Joy, and if you did anything similar, maybe you should be worried.
  5. Wow, I wish I had that kind of conviction. I just kinda mope around.
  6. This is the best topic ever. I just read it from the beginning to the end.
  7. I love that. I know everything you said is true ogie764, and I've been dumped before so I do have the experience of how to deal with it (Although I was never very good at it). The problem for me right now lies in the fact that I've never even met someone who could come close to what my ex is. Any little thing I would want in a person, she had. And don't think I'm saying that because she is those things and I want her, I'd dreamed about a girl like that since I was 11 or so, and now she's gone because I screwed up, I didn't know what I had. To add to the problems, I realized how I was screwing up about a week before she dumped me. I was cleaning up my act when she decided she'd had enough. *PROFANITY DELETED BY MODERATOR* happens, unfortunately, it all happens to me.
  8. Alright, I've taken a habit of going out pretty much every weekend. I'm pretty drunk at the moment, about 45 minutes ago, I was in a nightclub packed with people, and I just can't bring myself to approach girls. I'm still much too in love with my ex-gf. This is really blowing my chances at getting a rebound because if I see a good looking girl, instead of making a move, I sit there and think of my girlfriend. Err. I meant ex-gf there. It's getting really hard to type without typos. It's funny how you guys read one sentence and yet I rewrote it 3 times to make sure there were no typos. As always, I'm not even sure there's a point to this email.
  9. I like masturbating, I'm sure everyone does. There's also nothing sexier than knowing a girl is doing it thinking about you either.
  10. Wow, it seems a lot of us are going through this and none of us are coping too well. This doesn't look too promising.
  11. My ex-girlfriend dumped me nearly 4 months ago, we'd been going out for nearly 2 years. Anyhow, we tried being friends after she dumped me, but since she had no feelings for me and I still did, it made things really hard. Now, I know there's no chance of getting her back, and I've tried everything to make that happen. In my mind, I'm 100% sure she doesn't want me anymore, but I just can't seem to let go emotionally. If I'm not busy for one second, I'll start thinking about her. The emotions arising from that will range from anger, to jealousy, to sadness, and sometimes happiness from certain memories with her. I'm just wondering how I can mentally know there's no hope, and still have my heart holding on for dear life. I mean, the girl is practically terrified of seeing me, and she'll barely talk to me anymore on the phone or the net, so it's obvious she doesn't want anything to do with me, yet the rejection just doesn't seem to phase the love I still have for her. Obviously this is hurting a lot, I don't believe I've ever had to go through so much grief, and I doubt someone could give me a magic recipe to get over her either, so once again I guess I'm just venting. It'd be at least one step towards understanding how to quit torturing myself like this if someone could explain why I'm doing it I guess, must be why I'm bothering to post. Anyhow, if you guys need more details, I'll be checking up on this thread. No idea what else I should be saying.
  12. Well, I guess it all depends on how forgiving you are. She completely shut you out, didn't explain anything, and avoids you. In your position, I would stop trying to contact her, and if she ever wants to make the first step, then I would be receptive. I'd rule out ever making that first step though. Seems to me like she's ashamed of you guys, and I wouldn't want to hang out with someone who's ashamed of me. Hope that helps.
  13. Seems to me, being rather unaccepting of these poly relationships, that you should just focus on being happy with your current boyfriend. Hell, the girl is 16 years younger than you, and in a completely different stage in her life, I don't think sleeping with you guys is the best thing for her, then again, neither is Ted or her family. I'm really dumbfounded tho, there's no good way out of this in my opinion.
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