Sirus
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13yrs. old Been raped twice,by dif.peeps,ADVICE PLEASE!!!!!!
Sirus replied to justice 4 ever's topic in Abuse and Violence
You are a very brave person. From reading what you have said, i feel that you have come to terms with what you have been through and you sound strong, maybe ot physicaly but you hve an inner strength that is astounding. I dont even know you and i feel very rpoud of you for making it this far. Very Well Done. Ok now down to the help. I know where you are coming from although i have no first habd experience of rape. I have several female friends who do. and to be honest you seem to be dealing with it alot better than them, and their 17+. So i assume because you have been to councilling that your mom knows all about what you have been through. Getting over what you have been through is going to be hard and take a long time. and what you are going through is not uncommon. I spose the easiest way to get over this might be to get to know the person who reminds you of them, when you find out that this person is completely diffrent then thats a step to getting over this. Spose it is kind of like a phobia. You may just have to face it until it doesnt effect you anymore. I cant think of anything els at the moment but if i do then i will come back to you. Good Luck, Take Care David aka Sirus -
Good luck, just take your time, and let things flow. Let things go the way you both want it to.
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Really like what he's doing, how do I let him know and...
Sirus replied to LoisLane's topic in Sex and Romance
yer just make sounds like your enjoying it groans and mmmms -
yer allways use protection. allways better to be safe than sorry. yer and precum, is as everyone else has said.
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yer if he wants you to then he will show you how he likes it. dont be afraid to talk. good luck
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Dont worry im masturbating all the time, one day i did it five times, but then sometimes i wont do it for a week or more. Its just depends on the person, there is no such thing as too much. well unless you pull it off i spose, but lets just hope no one ever has to experience that.
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Is it better to have loved? than to never have loved at all?
Sirus replied to Johy's topic in Relationship Advice
yer i agree with maggie. loving someone will change who you are, and love is like playing darts in the dark, you are allmost never going to hit the bull, first time, so being let down is allways going to be an issue. To be in love is something very special, and very sensetive. i know the feeling of enreturned love, at least i think i do. it is just something that you have to deal with. I spose if you have loved and lost then it just makes you appreciate it so much more when your love is returned. -
It certainly is, as one of my friends reminds me if a women fakes, it her loss because if you think that you are doing it right then you are not going to change. oh when will they talk. Have fun and im glad i could help Sirus
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Take things slow and let it be natural, dont rush it and enjoy it Good luck
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To be honest before coming to this site i had never though so many you people would be intrested in sex. I know at 14 i wasn't all that intrested in it. I spose ultimatly it is all down to that person to decide if they are ready. but you have got to ask yourself are these people doing it for the right reasons.
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To be honest im not entirly happy with my image, but i can live with it. it is more the fact that Girls gernaly show no intrest in me and so i dont know who likes me and so i dont really feel like i can just go up to them and start talking, its more i would prefer to have then show some intrest.
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Thankyou
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Thankyou everybody for your replies they do help a bit Waiting is all very well but there have been loads of girls that i have liked and they have either turned me down, ignored me, embarrased me by leading me on then letting me make an arse of myself, or be snaped up by someone i thought was my best mate. what a truly great record of achievements to build up confidence. Not even adding the fact that i am not happy with any single part of myself, personality, or physicaly. I dont think that waiting is goint to help. even if their was a girl i liked i just dont have the confidence to talk to her.
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Thanks for your reply and people tell me i am good looking, i have tried to be confident but to be honest i think that i am just going to go offline and get completely drunk, just like i did last night.
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I am one of these people who for some reason can not get a girlfriend and can never even find a girl who is attracted to me. i have only had one 2 week relationship with a girl that i did not like. i would kill myself, but i could never put my family through that. i am not a member of any club and my intrests are in completely male dominated subjects. I have even registered myself in datting agencies but i dont have the money to keep that up. I either end up hateing myself or hatting everyone else. I have tied the whole just have fun with your mates thing, but all my mates and im not joking are in relationships and can pick people up just lke that. I try to act confident and happy but its to hard when i have no self confidence. I just dont know what else to do.