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  1. Bah, oh well.... guess i will see what tomrrow brings.
  2. So, finally got to ask a girl out who I've been eyeing for a bit... Walked her back to her dorm from a meeting, talked the way then before she went her way I asked her to dinner. I'lll admit it, I was stupid and did the general date question not a specific day question. Anyhoo, she said somthing I wish I could remember. If memory serves it was somthing like that would be nice but.... but memory dosn't seem to serve well in these situations. After I asked her she told me about her schedule, essentially she has prior commitments most nights, said she dose some church stuff in a town over. Honestly makes me more attracted to her. After that we talked for 5 or 10 min about various things, so at least it didn't make her uncomfortable... So... I do not know what my next step is. I'd like some advice as to what to do/say, or if I'm barking up the wrong tree. Peace
  3. Ya i know, I can get it next week latest, was just hoping to have her go to a concert with my that weekend.
  4. So there is this girl I would like to ask out for next weekend (2/3), however we only meet during a club meeting once per week. I was planning on asking her this week, but she had to leave early and I had to stay on busniess, so i didn't get time. Typically her weekends are busy, so I want to try to get my foot in the door early, so waiting until next wednesday seems like pushing my luck. The problem is the only way I have to get in contact with her is via e-mail. I could get her number the friend of a friend way also, but that seems a little creepy... Any advice please? Should i go for the number or drop her a message?
  5. I was surprised I didn't get a call, actaully a bit disapointed. But life goes on. When we talked she said something about going to the keys after the 1st so i guess she is indesposed at the moment. When we talked she told me that one of her friends was trying to get her to go out with him. Can't say I ws thrilled by this. But why would she tell me that? I can't immagine she thought I would want to hear that. She has tried to make me jeleous previously by telling me about some guy who was hitting on her, but this was years ago.
  6. Dating somone with a disabiliy takes a special kinda of personality. I'm lucky, mine isn't a big deal in romantic relationships, but this is a big deal. My opinion is that it is wrong for you to expect him to take medication (make a drastic change to himself) if he dosn't want to. But as he should understand how is disability effects others, it is wrong for him to hold this against you. If it bothers you and you can't have the relationship you are looking for, I think you need to move on. -Peace
  7. Is it useful? My Ex gave me a key-chain pocketknife and its very useful. Our initials were engraved in it, though i didn't find it setimental becasue of that... It was good becasue she knew i needed it and could use it. I still carry it with me though our initials are on it. As for the printer and lcd portable tv, sounds good to me, toys are always good especially if he is a techy. Overall, the more dangerous the toy the better (Saws, etc. etc.)
  8. Intresting... Anyway.... She didn't mention 'us' or 'we', she did tell me about her friend who was trying to 'get her to got out with him' it annoyed me quite a bit, and she has done this before to make me jelous. I yelled at her then (figure of speech) and it didn't make me feel any different this time. I didn't say anything about it however. I'd be expecting her to call me for Christmas if she is planning on calling again, if not sometime at the start of school again...
  9. Complete Storyline: Short Storyline: My girlfriend and I broke up about 4 months ago, she needed time to herself to discover who she is etc. etc. etc. What could I do? I certinally didn't want to try to hold on to somone who is in that situation... so we split up. Four months, I lost quite a bit of sleep, cried a bit, and barly talked to her. We only talked a few times and it was strictly busniess, she frequently ended her e-mails with "so how have you been" but I always neglected to answer that question.... So yesterday at the mall Christmas shopping I got a call, figured it was my brother calling for a ride since he alredy called three times in the past 15min... but it was my ex. Since i alredy picked up I decided to answer it. We talked a bit, I was on my way out of the mall so I talked to her on the way to the car and talked to her for a bit before I pulled out of the parking lot. When we broke up, I decided that I wouldn't attempt to chase her again, that it was up to her to come back if our relationship is what she wanted, and I would just move on. I did start moving on and everytime I heard about her from a mutual friend etc. it would set me back in my getting over her stages. I always thought about what I would do if she called or I ran into her somwhere, frequently when I was upset or having a hard time... however what actually happened was quite different. It made me smile and happy... Like I havn't been for awhile. Anyway, I cut our conversation in the car short since I had to pick my brother up. I just said good-bye and told her we should talk again somtime. Deffinatly tried to not commit myself to calling her. So the only real question I have is, what do I do? Of course to answer that you need to know what i want. When I figure it out I'll tell you. I did love her very much, and I still care for her, but there is alot of history. Any advice would be great. Sorry if this was incoherant, its 3AM. -Peace
  10. Wow this post is ancient! Sorry I didn't see it in time, i just relized somone posted here becasue I was looking up another of my old posts. Sorry I don't have any advice... except that it would not have been worth it at that point in my life to continue a long distance relationship. I ended up leaving the academy for other reasons and joined her in college. Currently we are not dating tho. Were together for 2.5years.
  11. I hear a bit about the 'rebound' peroid. bit i really don't understand. When I was first noticing this girl i felt she was really nice and somone I would not want to get into a relationship with shuold it turn into only a hi, bye, relationship. Anyone care to elaborate?
  12. Today was day 21 after my ex of almost 2.5 years broke it off. Two weeks of feeling sorry for myself and I'm working on move on... Been flirting alot with my RA, she seems really nice and I ran into her at Church and CSU (Catholic student union). I would have liked to get to know her better as a friend and possibly more at a later time. But found out today she has a BF, so guess I should be hoping for a friendship. I still miss my ex, but if she came back to me I can't say I would take her, such confusing thoughts and feelings. How long is to short to wait before seeing others? Are there any of those unwritten rules?
  13. So, my GF left me two weeks ago tomrrow (I'm trying to stop counting the days promise) however as I can not get her out of my head. Anyway, the story is complicated however i noticed somthing odd today when checked out my topics on this fourms. My most recent issue: The issue before that: If you noticed the dates, almost a year apart to the day. Sooo whats it mean? I am in college so we both had been getting back from summer and starting school again at this time. We proably saw eachother more during the summer when we were home then when we were at school, however we spent time apart as well during that time, in the order of months with our families. It may mean nothing tho...
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