christopher

my gf just came over tonight and she had all new close on. she was already at my place when i got back from a buddies house. my parents have a bunch of friends over so there are alot of shoes by the front door. when she came down to me she asked me if i noticed anything and at first i ddidnt catch on to what she was talking about, i usually dont notice new close on people, but then i caught on and commented on her close. after i did that she got upset with me for not noticing her new shoes which were sitting with all the other shoes so i didnt know they were hers. when i asker her where she bought her close at she said that she didnt buy them. when i asked her who bought them she was hesitant and she told be her friend, who i will name "bob" for the purpose of this story, bought them for her so i asked her what bob's last name was and she jsut shrugged her shoulders. then we got to discussing the price of them she said that they cost $230. i said something along the lines of "that is alot of money for a person to spend on their friend" and she said that he spent his pay check on her. is it me or is this just a little bit suspisious? or am i just paranoid? should i be worried? if so what do you think?

ok well we talked about it right after i posted this and she said that she told him to ask me and that when he didnt she didnt think anything of it. then last night i had a young lady who we both know ask me if i would go to her winter formal with her and i told her to ask my gf first. when she did my gf was really rude to her.

hi, i dont nescesarily fit in here because i am a guy but i have somethings to say. i have been in shoes similar to his. when i first started dating heavily i always had a gf lined up for when my my gf at the time broke up with me i would not have to be alone because i could not stand the lonelness. well after a few short lived relationships i found someone who i got serious with and we dated for a while. then i got bored with her because i was used to going between people. so i broke up with her. then after about 4 months alone, by choice, i saw what i had lost an went back to her. since then i have had to ask for a couple of 1 week, or so, hiatuses because we saw so much of each other that i need some time apart from her. i always saw what i was missing and we stayed to getherbut i always regret it and wish i could change. if we have to spend time apart again though i am going to tell her that she needs to find someone with the mental capacity to treat her like she deserves to be treated. that is what u need to do. find someone who can treat u like u deserve to be treated. he aparently cannot do that and might never be able to.

i am going to start at the beginning and make this as short and sweet as possible. My gf and i first started dating on may 26th 2004. i broke up with her last year at the biginning of november and we started dating again in late january. during that time though her and my best friend got really close, almost like brother and sister. since then we have had to take a couple of 1 week hiatuses from eachother because we saw eachother to much. that is the back ground on this story. my best friends name for this story will be joe, and he goes to wahsington high school, whille me and my gf go to linclon high school. about 3 weeks ago she told me that my best friend told her that he was over her and then she claimed that she didnt know before that he liked her. then just friday night she asked me if it was alright to go to washingtons winter formal dance with joe. and i said whatever. i have been thinkin about it and i think that it was disrespectful of him to not ask me if i minded his takin her first. i dont want it to seem like i think that i own her. she is her own self and can make her own descisions. but he should have asked me if i would be offended or jealous fo his takin her. she also just told me that she told him to ask me but that he didnt. and in case this does sound like jealousy it is. i think that she is having more fun with him tonight than she ever has with me. should i be worried? is it wrong for me to expect to be asked if i minded?

Hey i was massaging my gf's vagina for a while and she started to breath heavily and i was just curious if that is her orgasm. she wont tell me cus it was herr first sexual experience and she is really shy about talking about it.

thanks we talked it over and are doin good

today she claims she loves me though...

hey everyone i have posted before but it has been a while, how is everyone? welll my girlfriend and i went out for like 5 months then i broke up with her and now we are going back out. i can honestly say that if i have ever loved anyone she is the one. we have been telling eachother that we love eachother for like 4 months now. the other night we got to talking about different things and she had a lot of questions for me. i did my best to answer them and made it clear that i answered what i could. she started to get frusterated like she said she would. i even expected her to but she had something on her mind that she needed to say. the reason she got frustrated is because she didnt understand my answer and so i asked her to explain what she was asking and then she got really frustrated. it was late and we both needed sleep so we ended our conversation and i said "Good night babe, i love you.". she made it clear she couldnt say she loved me sincerely and instead just said "night". when i asked her why she couldnt tell me she loved me she saiod she wouldnt have meant it. does this mean she doesnt love mr? i think she should always be able to tell me that she loves me no matter what. is this to much to ask?

i realize this was a post for girls but i would like to answer goddess' question. i would have to say yes, most guys do judge a female based on their chest. i started out that way, then i realized that i would rather have a gf that has a great personality then any thing. now when i choose a gf looks only mak up 1-10 percent of my desion. i will admit thought that i do every now and then catch myself checking out a girls chest. i would just like to apologize on behalf of guys everywhere, especially those who are good and dont do that, for the disrespect that may be caused by this.

thanks for the help. i will put it to use next time i need it

i think that she is trying to signal to me not to do that. if she wants me to make the move would she posibly say something or move my hand there? and also what about my first question?

hey i have got some questions for girls along those lines: my gf and i will start with simple kissing then i will start to kiss her neck and upper chest, we are both still completely clothed, an i will kiss her a little below the collar. This whole time i am usually on top of her. after a while of doing this she will start to breathe heavily and arch her back towards me and pull on my shirt. what does it mean when she does this? and also while doning the above i kind of make a move for her breast but then i decided not to because she made a kind of motion, usually i am pretty good about interpereting things like that, but this one i couldnt. What should i do about this?

thanks again everybody. i havent seen her since friday but i will put another post up sith the results

we used a condom but i dont know what it would fell like if it tore so that could have happened. she should have her perod this weekend if it is on a monthly bases. but her last period was last month so she couldnt have been pregnat then, this means she might have cheated on me but then wouldnt it still be too early for her to have morning sickness?

ok here is how things are: i lost my virginity to my gf on may 11 of this year. i know that she has slept with other guys before but this was the first with me. about a week later she said taht she has had morning sickness for a week. she thinks it is mine but i read taht morning sickness doesnt happen till about 4-6 weeks int to the prenancy(is this true or could it happen sooner?). also she had her periond on the 23 of march. is she really pregnat? is it mine?