ItsyBitsyMel

All you can do is wait and see what she says!

I think youre bisexual. Because, yes, you would not want to be with any other women but her, but thats because you like HER. I mean, who knows, years down the line you might meet another girl that makes you feel just as good about yourself and start developing feelings for her too. You cant play games and try to guess what shes feeling, because youre only gonna get more confused. One thing id like to warn you about tho, my best friend and I are really close too. We hold hands, sit on eachother, we even kiss on the mouth hello, but it is just that: a close friendship. Before saying anything to her, you should really try and figure out exactly how YOU feel and exactly what YOU want. Maybe try telling her you think you're bi, that you have feelings for this girl you know, and see how she takes it? If she DOES like you in that way, it would be a perfect opportunity for her to say so.

Hey! I actually recently came out to my family and friends, but there are a few friends I just can't tell.. I mean, i know people say 'if theyre really your friends, theyll accept you' but, the truth is, it all depends on how they were brought up. It's hard.. i know, but you have to do whats best for you. And, its not like your past was all and act, it was an experience, that lead you to discovering who you really are. Im still trying to figure out if im Bi or Gay, but trust me, once you meet someone that makes you feel amazing, you're gonna wanna tell the whole world, and if u have to wait till that happens, it's ok. Take your time. But make sure you arent lying to yourself

Ive been with my boyfriend for a week now. Its been a wonderful week, i really adore him. Thing is, i just met him since i just moved, and back where i lived before, there was a guy i was- still am- really into. So i keep thinking, if i like someone else, it cant work with this new guy, but whenever im with my boyfriend im in paradise. Anyway, i went back to my old home tonight and met up with my old neighbour (which i dated a while back but hes like my best friend now). He also has a new gf for a week now, and is kind of in the same boat as me. We ended up going dancing, and taking E. Anyway, the night finished with us having sex and trying to sleep for 3 hrs after.. but the guilt was too strong. We both feel horrible and im just wondering.. should i tell my bf? I dont want to because i know it will only hurt him... i dont even know what i want by posting this, i guess i just cant sleep and had to tell someone.. if anyone has any coments, plz dont be shy

arent you a little young to be meeting guys on the internet...? you have to be verrrrryyy careful!!

i backed out of the bar thing because i had been really sick and i didnt wanna go out and drink..

Hey, it's been such a long time since i've been on here.. anyway, im not sure what i want from this but there's this guy i met a few weeks ago thru a good friend. I have no classes with him, so if i see him at school it's cause were on a cigarette break at the same time. Honestly, i dont know this guy very well and i know i should take my time, but i can't stop thinking about him. I tend to be a very direct person and ive been calling/text messaging him a lot. I went to his show last week (he's in a band) and i lend him my bracelet for luck. They won first place and he said it was because of my bracelet, said he HAD to borrow it next show. Anyway, right after his show we went for a bite to eat and he was with everyone from his high school (i knew no one except for the band members and my friend who tagged along). I felt a little awkward but i didnt say anything, i just wanted to hang out with him.. Anyway he called me when i was at the bus stop and said he was so sorry, it was uncomfortable for him cause his ex was there. What i dont understand is why is he apologizing to me?? I got all confused. Anyway.. he lives about 30 mins away from me driving and i invited him to a bar near my house on a thursday. He said he would come (i had to convince him cause he has a test the next morning but he said he would come). Then i call him saying i cant but we should do something this weekend. He says hes busy alll weekend. So i get all paranoid again thinking he made it up. Anyway, on thursday night our common friend calls me and says shes having ppl over. So i invite this guy (the musician) but he sounded all weird on the phone like he was super annoyed with me. I know i should just stop calling him, cuz i call him/text message him everyday.. but i figured if he was gonna come to a bar, he could always come to his friends house. Anyway im paranoid and confused and i just want someone to help me calm down lol. sorry for the long drama, and thanks!

Ok, first, do not make her chose between her friends and you, that'll just piss her off! You don't like her friends and she doesn't liek yours. You can still be together if you really like eachother, just dont do anything all together. Personally, i find the whole weekend her firends week you think a little childish i mean.. why not just see eachother when you want to and see her friends when she wants? You should just go with the flow, maybe talk to her and tell her having a boyfriend is like another friend and she should make just as much time for you as for her other friends

Hey! Ok, no worries about the first time! Mine was pretty spontaneous but i know, trust me, do not go on top for your first time!! If its not his first time, he'll know what to do and its better, even if you think youre useless, to just lie there. Youre not gonna enjoy it anyway right away so theres no point in trying different positions. If you feel like youre comfortable enough to move after a while (maybe itll hurt at first so only move after it doesnt) then follow his rythm , his body. Dont be nervous, you care about him, he cares about you. No matter what happens hes gonna understand Take care, if you need anymore tips, write me a message good luck and have fun! Mel xox PS Go Slow!

Not sure actually.. a bit of both, just be yourself

Hmm well the way you said it, it sounds like she simply wanted to experiment sexually.. so be careful not to get your heart broken by expecting more

Once again, I'm completely infatuated, and again, it's with a friend. I met him.. i think a few months ago and we got along right away. I can be myself around him but i do have problems opening up about my past and some problems i had. Its like i want to open up to him but there's still a part of me that's scared he'll think less of me.. although deep down i know he won't because he's very understanding.. i dont know, i cant explain it. Anyway, he has a gf, but that's not the problem because he's not interested in her anymore and their relationship is slowly dying. The problem is, he's my friend, and i think he sees me as only that. He tells me about this girl he likes because of her style and her perky personality. I have a very different style and i'm not as open as her.. I feel like crap when im around both of them, like im trying to get her to like me so he will and it makes me very uncomfortable but i don't wanna leave because I love being with him. He also said he was interested in 2 girls, which makes me curious as to who the other girl is.. but i dont want to ask. He's sweet and such a gentleman which is hard to find these days. I'm also very attracted to him. Problem: I can't tell him, for fear of rejection. Sounds like a simple problem "tell him you might regret not telling him" but its not that easy because i absolutely adore him and how our frienship got so strong after so little time. I don't want that to mess it up and, like it or not, if he's not interested, it will be different. Is there an easy to way to solve this? Thanks for reading this far

Hey! Well, I used to cut myself, which is pretty similar to what you're doing. You're doing because you don't know how to express your emotions, your anger. You don't wanna take it out on others, so you take it out on yourself. I always knew there was something wrong about it, but it just felt right. Cause when I wouldn't do it, I'd feel even worse, like all bottled up. Basically, theres no way to escape that feeling.. but youre on the right track by working out, getting rid of your energy and your stress!

No.. I don't see any signs... I know I don't show any either, but I think I would know if he was interested..

Hello to all. Well, my story is most probably a very common one. I like my friend, as more than a friend. I've always been physically attracted to him, but for the past few months now, I've been eager to see him and always hoping he will appear at the next corner. I was confused at first, thinking I mistakened it for attraction, but now i'm certain it's more than that. I'm certainly not in love with him, altough I have never fallen in love and I'm not sure what it feels like.. Ive been told when you feel it you'll know. My dilema is, what do I do? Most people whom I've spoken to tell me to tell him. The thing is, I don't see any remote sign of interest coming from him. I don't show mine either, but that's simply because I feel he would never look at me as more than a friend. This 'crush' is slowly becoming more, and it's scaring me because I love him (as a friend) and I don't want things to be awkward between us.. he's always been there for me, and today he knew something was wrong and he said to call him and we would talk. I just can't.. I'm so scared.. Not sure what I'm asking for since It's either I tell him or I don't, but I guess I'd like some opinions.. Thanks a lot