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  1. Hi jeepman. Thank you for your help and advice in the NC forum. Things are going well. We still aren't back together officially but were exclusive and we take time to talk to each other and there's a lot of respect for one another. We are moving very slowly but it's on the right path. I hope all goes well for you.
  2. Hello everyone I myself have my own success story On one thread on here I took the NC challenge to help myself move on. My ex and I were broken up for 2 months. Just recently we've been hanging out again and were going on our first date this coming Sunday. Were not back together but it's a process that's going really well. I just wanted to put my own story on here because I remember how sad I was at the beginning of our break up and now it's like were starting new. Don't give up hope. If they really love you they'll find their way back.
  3. I've got some content news. Were going on a date this Sunday. Hes openly told me how much he misses me and loves me. He said he needs me. I'm taking this slow and see where we go from here but this might be my path to reconciliation. I'll keep u guys updated if ya want me to but thank you so much everyone for your kind words and wisedom.
  4. Day 17 Last night at work you offered to drive me home and asked if I wanted to work on your car with you also. I was excited. I felt maybe it's you trying to reconnect. Then later you came up to me and told me you wouldn't be able to take me home because something had come up. I felt as if you were playing with my emotions. I know your not that kind of person but I don't trust you still. I still feel as if your playing games. It's been this long and you still have so much influence on my emotions.
  5. Yeah Id watch my favorite shows to forget about him and hang out with my family but it doesn't completely drown him out. quite irritating actually.
  6. It's actually day 15 for me Today I have very mixed emotions. Things aren't great. I'm missing him a lot today. I had a dream about him and everytime I close my eyes to nap I dream of him. He's haunting my mind! Wishing the emtional roller coaster would stop!
  7. Day 12, I think I've kinda lost track I came to visit the cat yesterday and left a frappicino in the fridge. It was for him. I got a text from him last night saying how bad of a day he had but when he saw the drink it made him smile. He thanked me for it. I didn't respond. Im losing it again. I just want him back. I know I love him and I know he loves me. I'm not doing so well these days. The emotional roller coaster is too much.
  8. Thank you bebop and jeepman for your encouraging words. He's assured me multiple times already that he's not getting another girlfriend or looking for another relationship. I don't know his reasoning in telling me this other then just stringing me along. Sure it makes me a bit happy but it doesn't rule over me. NC works, for my own sanity it works. It's hard!! Very hard cause temptation is always there!! Especially when I see him at work. To any one whose starting this challenge, I started hoping I could get a response from my ex but I got my head clear and that's what matters most to me. I can see myself happy later on with or without him.
  9. I've done some thinking and realized I've changed a bit. I'm able to control my emotions better. He has changed too. He doesn't flirt with other girls at work. Especially in front of me. I've noticed that of him. He's been very flirtatious with me but no one else. I'm not trying to give myself false hope Im just stating to myself a noticible change with the both of us. I believe NC has allowed me to see things a bit more clearly. Maybe hell come back and maybe he won't but I'm able to be ok for now. Still there's an emotional roller coaster. Wish I could stop that completely.
  10. Day 12 I miss him today. I called in sick at work today so I had to speak to him cause he's the manager. Everything was fine, nothing special. I'm feeling hopeless again. I thought I'd move past this feeling but it's back. The desire to be with him is still there. The time I've had allowed me to evaluate my own feelings about him. I love him. That I know for sure now. I wasn't sure before while were together. I was comfortable but I've had time to think and I love him and its not the comfort of having him around. I miss him. I don't like that. I don't want to miss him anymore. I wonder if he'll think about me. emotional roller coaster!!!
  11. Day 11 I agree with everyone here about him and his ego. I'm not going to give in. I'm not feeling so attached to him like I use to. I find these days are more often then urge days. I'd have to say that I don't get urges to call him anymore. I still miss him that's the part I hate the most is missing him. I saw him at work today he was still very flirtatious I don't know how to react to it. He left early and went looking for me to say bye, twice. I wish he'd just make up his mind he's annoying me.
  12. Yea he tries to stay professional at work. Last night he kept texting me. I'm just going to keep my guard up and not hope for anything. I hope you do well the emotional roller coaster doesnt stop
  13. Day 10 He's been initiating a lot of contact. Calling and texting. I don't know what to do. He hasn't mentioned getting back together at all when he tries to talk to me at work and that's what I want. I don't know where this is heading and I don't know what I should do anymore. If I keep avoiding him will that just cause him to not consider it? I've mentioned where I stand in all this so he should know regardless. I dont understand dumpers really. I'm not as sad as I use to be and definitely not in need of him. He's just constantly messing with my head. Today I feel frustrated and confused!
  14. Day 9 At work right now. He's been constantly trying to talk to me about what he did last night and asked how my forth was. I kept things short because I wanted to be civil at work. He started flirting and then pointed out that I haven't been calling or answering his calls. I told him I've been busy and he'd start saying things like "busy humping your new boyfriend" and continued talking about how I'm busy dating other guys. He tried to play it off as a joke and I didn't really respond. He'd then talk about how he's not going to date anyone anymore and that he doesn't want any other girlfriend. He said he was going to just focus on himself. He's too confusing. I just wish he'd stop messing with my head. Feeling a bit irrated.
  15. Thanks jeepman for your insight. I agree with what you said. I can't allow myself to break down everytime henplays games with me. I was out today and left my phone in my car. When I got back I had a missed call and a text from him. I didn't respond to his text. He was just asking me if I was still in town. Before he couldn't even answer my calls and now he's contacting me more. He's initiating contact and it's making me stronger to see a big change in how he is. We went from him not calling or wanting to talk to me. I'd call and he'd not answer until I begged but now he'll call on his own. Text on his own. I'm not answering this time. I'm going to stay no contact until I move on and get over him. Everyone whose given me their wisdom and advice and thank you from the bottom of my heart. You've helped me stay strong!!!
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