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  1. im gonna sum it up for everybody. Ill use my Ex for an example. Key positive features about her; -Body amost built in a factory (probably half was) -Had a personality of a thousand girls combined, there was no dull moment with her. -instantly has an aura which made you laugh, comfortable, relaxed and feel positive, almost impossible to find now days. -more money than god -sucsessful, famous, popular and alot of the times loyal as can be. -the sex was unreal, beyond words. -the most beautiful/sexy girl anybody I know has seen to date. -had a ferrari at age 23 The bads; -Had fake breasts, and possibly butt. -Attracted too much attention -Morals were 0, slept with guys who were on a homeless level. -low self esteem/concept, Had a father, but he beat her. -was a stripper, and went into the adult business from ages 18-23 -Drinked a bit too much -had an abortion with my child. -when she wasnt loyal, she WASNT LOYAL, you didnt want to make her angry -Her best friend had sex with over 1000 guys in her lifetime. Now there are goods, and bads. Her goods seemed to WAY out weigh the bads, but the bads were there. The fact is, I couldnt be 100% happy with some of the bads. Her having fake breasts did affect our relationship, even though it wasnt a bad thing. It attracted negative attention. The point is, even though she was perfect, and way out of my league, there was that ONE bad thing that I couldnt live with. So the guy with a small penis, is going to have to find a girl who will accept that. And its not wrong to want to break up with somebody because they have a problem that they cant control. Im sure that guy will find another woman, but maybe the OP just is looking for something else. Its a feature she doesnt like, and you couldnt blame any woman for not liking that, its a huge brick wall in a relationship, just like not having legs, how are you supposed to go out to the club?
  2. Heres the deal, larger guys mostly think their size means, there is no skill involved. Because their big, they automatically think their pleasing the woman. Smaller guys have more work to do, and sometimes this results in more pleasure, because the smaller guy is switching it up, and aiming more to please. However if you have a large sized guy, that knows how to please a woman, Im almost 100% sure that is going to be better than a smaller guy. Its common sense.
  3. are you serious or joking? clearly you are joking. Its obviously an issue else she would not be creating a thread about it. This is like saying I will settle for 2nd best. I might be full of myself, but you have tunnel vision. Beating around the truth, feeding her some BS is almost as bad as saying "yea your boyfriend is addicted to porn, but thats a good thing, keep him, and you will be happy"
  4. get rid of him and dont look back, sad to say. plenty more out there.
  5. size matters, but only if you know how to use it. There are variables. I personally have learned to use my size to my advantage. If you can train your mind, and be physically fit, your always going to be better off. If you have a large one, but dont know how to use it, or how to please a girl, it really is only a temp thing. This is why you get better as time goes on. Guys wiht small ones have to make up for it some how, just like people who arent blessed with good looks, have to make up for it in personality. From feed back from many girls, I have found that I was the best, why? because I not only work out all the time, I have a large one, but I train myself to last longer. I have also been with women very experienced, so they always tell you the best tips. Most women like foreplay, before and durring. You wanna make each time different. This is all IMO/
  6. Think about this, some of my EX's usually come back to me after they have dated around, because Im not so small. Size does kind of matter in the long run. Maybe I was gifted, but if you think about it, would you really want to spend the rest of your life, with a guy who has a small penis? The girl I was about to marry, up and left me for some guy, but he just happened to have a small one. I was her dirty little secret. Personally I would say drop him, because that is embarresing
  7. should i persue this one? saying i dont want this breakup to fully go down, since we were planning on moving in together in the summer (bought a place with her in mind) I dunno if I give her time, she will fade away, or do I try and prove that i truly care about her. im just really hurting bad right now at work, im going crazy, she hasnt answered any of my texts. However she said I could drop off her V-day gift tonight maybe, Should i drop off flowers and lots of other stuff too?
  8. I guess she totally hates me, like whoa! I can tell by the way she talks, just straight up B****y. Again to clear up confusion, I am not sitting there and accusing her, I make it a point NOT to do that. I only asked her if she was talking to somebody ONE TIME because she went to a movie a V-day with somebody, and this is when it all went down hill. I just dont get it, she is making things up. I cheat, lie, bla bla bla all the time, and never believe her. Not true. If she tells me something, i take her word for it. I just dont know what to do. I really want to salvage this one, do i give her time?
  9. im 22, shes 18, and no im not being immature, ive been in all sorts of long term relationships with ages from 18-30. however i guess i questioned it because she will not have sex with me, literally tells me "i just dont wanna have sex with you, i dunno....." we did once and she said it was awsome, but i dunno..this is probably why i became suspicious
  10. but im not though, i never accuse her. If something is indeed shady, i think about it, and then nicely ask her. I have NEVER accused her of having sex, or dating somebody else. I only asked her if she was talking to somebody else because she compares me all the time, and always ask's if we should break up....who always asks that? Plus there are plenty of other signals i have picked up on, but dont say anything.
  11. So my girl and i have been together about 2 months...ive tried to be the best boyfriend ever. Well maybe i guess i havent been good enough. She always keeps trying to question our relationship. Tonight i guess she had it, shes done? I got an email from somebody who said My girlfriend was talking to their boyfriend, and trying to hook up with him. SO i asked her. Well i guess that ended it, because i was "always" accusing her of cheating and talking to other guys, even though i havent. She got REALLY REALLY REALLY defensive. I guess I add too much stress on her, even though Im always trying to be happy and positive around her, and talk nothing about our relationship. I though things were perfect, and she said things were perfect too. I just asked her why she questions this so much, and if she had other options, that was the only reasoning i could think of. I have alot going on, Im getting a Nice big place in 8 days, i just got a HUGE bonus that i wanted to spend on her....WHY would she do this all teh sudden? She really drilled into me on the phone making me feel like dirt. Im such a burden in her life, a horrible boyfriend, and shes sick of being accused. i almost thought she was drunk or somthing. Yea im not perfect, but I REALLY try to be the sweetest guy in the world, and AM the most loyal. She wants a huge break, possibly a breakup, more than likely a breakup she said. And i didnt know what I did? I didnt do anything but ask her If that email was true. This girl seriously is a keeper, of all the girls i have ever dated, she has the most potential by FAR. what do I do? time is running out, i need a game plan.
  12. just be thankfull you guys have a relationship. Ive tried everything in the book, to get my girl to see me....i would purposely leave something at her house, so i could see her maybe more than once a week. She always says rude things like "ohh are you working with your hottie co-worker?" I guess no matter what i cant see her for even 5 minutes to give her the paycheck i pretty much dropped on her. Shes going to a 6 hour movie, with her out of town dad....adn the same thing on sunday. Trust me you might think you have it bad, but these dudes just need a wake up call, end it with them for a week, then see what happens. Me, i feel like im worse than single, when your girl says she will NEVER have sex with you, even on V-day....but then goes and says how she used to have sex too much with her ex, really makes you want to blast yourself.....im sure she is with some guy, which is the only thing i can add up.. usually when she is with her "dad", she answers the phone....or at least responds to my textss.....i hate this holliday
  13. well we worked things out, sorta.... Today is v-day, and for some reason she is busy? how is this? we planned something. Now she is going to a movie till late late. She is ignoring my calls. And she said her dad gets back in town sunday....hmmm she also joked around saying i could have sex with who ever i wanted, because she was doing that.....and I kept asking "are you serious?" * * *B? she finally said oh im just kidding......connection? shes only 18, i usually date 24+
  14. you could have it worse, my girl is at a movie with her "dad" till 12pm, the movie started at 6:30....hmmm. And her dad just happens to be out of town. I say confront him, but im sure there is other things wrong in the relationship
  15. honestly, from what it sounds like, her EX was perfect, but he moved or something. I guess tonight while i was in an epic struggle to keep her on the phone, using my sales pitch tactics and foreinsics, she said crying "i deserve somebody perfect, why couldn't you just be perfect" I told her nobody is perfect, and she said "yes, one guy is...bla bla bla my ex bla bla bla....i gotta go" click. So yea i dunno. So far i have had everybody convince her including my parents that I am not talking to my EX. and that my EX is just trying to break us up. She still doesnt accept it. Such a shame....... I tried to bust out NC on saturday, but it worked in her favor i guess, she met like 30 dudes......i dunno i have to pick up the strength and let another one go. However I did absolutely NOTHING wrong in this relationship, i dont understand. She would just believe my ex over me all the time. EVen when i had my phone statements right in front of her. And when i say nothing wrong, means, I seriously worshiped this woman, literally I agreed with anything she said, even if it WAS wrong. If she needed anything, i would drop what i was doing and be over there within 10 minutes. I would never question her, doubt her, seriously the "hollywood" type model boyfriend.... Most girls would KILL for a guy like that.
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