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  1. Good, I was hoping that was the case. I never walk in with goofy slippers or anything like that, so I'm assuming they're not mocking me. Should I just smile back at them or what?
  2. What does it mean when a girl looks at or otherwise gets the attention of her girl friend(s) when I walk into their view? When I see a hot girl, I usually look at her and then tell my friend. Is that the same thing girls do?
  3. You're right--what will stop them from checking out other guys when we're together? In general, though, when a girl looks at a guy, is it a good thing? I know you might stare at a poorly-dressed man or someone causing a scene, but do girls typically look at good-looking guys?
  4. I've encountered girls who have flirted with me even though they have boyfriends. For example, one girl ragged on her better-looking friend when she joined our conversation. She also would look at me before she sat down and talk to me during class when I sat near her. I'd make a joke--she'd most certainly laugh. Her friends would leave the row of seats one way, but she'd follow me the other way even though it's farther from the door. These are obvious signs, but when I talk to her, she doesn't seem too enthusiastic--I found out she has a boyfriend. I've seen Indian girls who check me out and look down when I catch them. These girls, I find out, only go out with Indian guys. Why do girls who are literally out of my league do that? Is it a whole "forbidden fruit" type thing?
  5. Dating is really pointless unless you have a CAR! I'm assuming your parents will drive you on these dates, otherwise you'd walk or take the bus to all your dates and wouldn't have this problem. Wait until you at least turn 16--not only will the opposite sex be more nubile at that time, but you'll have a license and probably a car--or at least access to one. Besides, dating is really boring at your age--you can't drink, you can't go to clubs, and you're not physically developed enough to have ENJOYABLE sex--the penis isn't fully developed. I'm 18 and in college. I didn't date until I was 17, and I'm rather normal socially. I occasionally have fears, but am semi-outgoing. Don't make a big deal--few people dated when I was your age.
  6. Guys will always be horny. Think of it this way--instead of having sex with another woman, he's looking at porn so he can get himself off and stay loyal to you. Guys don't mind when their girlfriends use vibrators for the same reason. Sometimes, the urge is there when your partner isn't, so think of it as a considerate gesture--albeit a disgusting one. And yes, I'm one of the 100% of guys who looks at porn.
  7. Aight, word--I know what you mean. If my homies are with me, I ask them to check if that girl was making a nasty face--luckily, I haven't gotten an "ewww" face except the time I was drunk and all red in the face. Good looking out, and good luck to you. I go back to school soon, so maybe something will turn out for me as well.
  8. I know what you mean. When girls stare at me, I like to pretend I don't see them even though I do--play it cool. Not everyone who looks at me is attractive in my eyes, so I do that to avoid leading on. Sometimes my homies and I look and point at girls who don't appear to be looking at us. So, if guys take notice of you, it's interest. What you could do is make and break eye contact quickly to let them know you're not interested. Guys don't do that to ugly girls--ugly girls are invisible to us. Those guys, in their obvious ways, are letting you know they like how you look. Do girls stare at guys they think are ugly?
  9. You seem to be the classic case of all looks, no game. I'm 18 and sort of like you--I'm good-looking, get many girl's eyes, but I have a game that I rarely use because of hesitation. You don't seem to have the hesitation, so you just have to work on your game. When I see a girl I like, I just walk up to her with a smile and say "hi, I'm _____" Then, I try to get to know her. I later talk about the last thing we both took part in--whether it was a class, or a concert, or whatever. The entire time, I'm watching her body language--if she's smiling, making any eye contact, has her arms crossed or not, etc. Then, I pretend I have to go and then ask her for the phone number: "Ooh, look, I gotta go (checks watch) Can I call you sometime?" That puts a sense of urgency into the mix and makes you seem like an important or busy man. Then, when you get the number, wait a day or two--depending on how many other women you're laying rap to--and then call her. Get to know her more, and set-up a date: "Hey, I'd really like to get to know you more in person. How about we get some coffee this weekend?" That's a typical pick-up for me. I just have to bite my lip and do that more...haha...
  10. Hey, Latavia. You answered my post a while ago. I might as well give you some input as well. Regarding the guy who talked to you while his friends were whispering--we guys do that a lot. We tell a guy "talk to that girl" (hence the coaxing) and whisper about every little thing he does while laying down his game. Don't worry about that--we're all immature and would rather have some dude make a fool of himself than us. Btw, it's really easy to tell if a guy likes you--dilated pupils, smiling, moving his eyes up and down your body, mouth if open, etc. After some contemplation, I think you and I have similar problems--we're intimidating people with uninviting auras. You not only seem to be attractive, but different--and different people get stared at a lot. I'm a lighter skinned Filipino with broad shoulders, good posture, nice clothes, and wavy black hair--attractive, but different. Some girls who are pretty but have such serious looks on their faces never get approached. So, soften up the image a bit and all should be well.
  11. Girls basically want a nice guy with a tough streak--a gangster and a gentleman. Girls want a guy who is nice to people, has manners, handles conflicts suavely instead of fighting everybody, etc. They also want a guy who is assertive, is strong enough to say "no," doesn't let every insult get to him, and does something like leave plane tickets on your dresser. I notice that the girls who liked me the most were the ones who saw that I was both daring yet considerate, explicit yet refined, etc. I took the hint...
  12. If a girl sends signals, she definitely is interested in you--but how far she is willing to take it is based on whether or not she's looking for a relationship. Sometimes, girls just think you're cute, but have a boyfriend to go home to--hell, some of them WANT to be single. I agree that you should find out what's going on between you, but I would be more subtle than outright asking her how she feels about you. Ask her out to coffee--a nice public place--and get to know her. That is the best way to find out how she feels about you--through her responses and her behavior around you.
  13. I knew a girl who was incredibly rich, so she intimidated me that way. She kept calling me "sexy" and whatnot. Turns out she liked me. Don't be intimidated by hot women. Women look at personality more than looks, believe it or not. As long as you take care of your body and appearance and have no inhuman defects (anything in the Guinness Book of Records, for example) then your personality will make or break you. Be happy (or at least look happy), dress nicely, be clean, and walk with good posture. However, don't call her again. You're absolutely right in not calling her. Girls need space, especially hot ones--they are pursued all the time. It's a big mental game, so just concentrate on something/someone else while she recovers.
  14. When a girl looks at you and then looks away, she is attracted to you but is shy. Go for it playa.
  15. Yo, that happens to me too. I'm broad shouldered, big-biceped, well-dressed, well-groomed, perfect-toothed, and mixed Filipino/Spanish. I obviously get looks from girls here in NYC. Girls don't look at ugly--if you're ugly, then they try NOT to make eye contact so you don't notice them. If girls look at you, it's most likely out of positive interest--unless you're red from drunkenness (hey, I'm in college).
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