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  1. having your heart broken,its a hell of an emotional spell isnt it. yes and the most frustrating part about it is actually getting all those complicated questions answered!! but YOU CAN!!! i did it without even contacting her. as time goes on answers come to you anyway but the answers lye in your dreams, your subconsciousness, believe you me it's all there and all you have to do is analyse these dreams. i bet most of you are dreaming allsorts of strange and wonderful dreams about your exes lately. likewise me and also find myself dreaming about my other exes too a lot lately!! make a note of your dreams then go to the website im giving you below and get your answers!!! you'll feel a whole lot better. some dreams you can self analyse without any help, some dreams will tell you what your ex is thinking of the situation by showing you her reaction in your dream. Another exercise you can do is to ask a question to your self and try to work it out logically whether you get an answer or not, THEN ask your subconsciousness then leave it and get on with whatever you're doing, your subconsciousness will then unfold the mystery and tell you in the form of a dream when you go to sleep that nite. take care, carl
  2. Hi, if it's any consolation read my posts especially the first one on the Breaking Up forum entitled 'why did she do this to me??' i'm in the same situation of how a woman can change overnight and not love you any more. it's unreal and so frustrating and difficult to comprehend!!???? Lightingbird couldn't have given a better explanation, that reply made me realise and things make sense now. also women tend to have their futures regarding love planned out a lot more than us men do. i'm 29 and i see a future now and i'm just getting on with my life as i've had the most heartbreaking and confusing hurtful period in my life. Time is the greatest healer, if she misses you and make her be missed she'll be back. read my posts! take care, carl.
  3. Hi, i won't go on about my situation as you'll see it posted in this forum and the breaking up forum. its been 2 weeks now since my ex girlfriend slept with another lad 2 days before we broke up. he talked her into being with her etc....i have never confronted this lad, i'm not a violent person but after the 2 week emotional cycle i am now going through anger at the fact that i have done nothing or said nothing to this new lad. after all it was her choice, she chose him but if it wasnt for him i would still have her, although this would have happenned with someone else in the future if thats what she's like. i keep telling myself he's welcome to her as i feel hatred for her now for the first time but i suppose there is a fine line between love and hate. Am i right not to go round and kill this new lad or threaten or try talk her round in being with me. i know i should leave it but am i doing the right thing here, just ignoring it and not fighting for the woman of my dreams? i'd be most grateful for some advice, thanx
  4. thanx flyingpolarbear im gonna send her some flowers and i'm gonna do it today.i don't know what further mess its gonna cause esp with the new boyfriend but it's tough, i love her and im gonna show that one more time today and make it the last form of contact as i have to move on cos this is dragging me down. thanx again carl
  5. Hi ive posted a few posts on here and the breaking up forum so i won't go on about the situation. it's just that i'm hoping has anyone any advice on how i can actually try to get my ex girlfriend back again when i can't contact her? firstly she's always with the new lad, then ive deleted her mobile no, her dad won't let me around the house, i don't know where she goes and she doesnt have a home phone!! Help! im into my 2nd week of the emotional cycle and am now accepting the situation and letting time heal me but i know she is my soulmate and i know we'll be together again one day. i'm hoping she will turn up unexpectadly. the thing that really frustrates me is that i got the job i always wanted a few days ago and part of our struggle together was finances, and here i am all sorted and she doesnt even know it and we could now have the life we wanted with no debts. but i can't get hold of her can anybody help? thanx carl
  6. hi Trav thanks for your reply, you are going through a very similar situation to myself. ive read your posts with great sympathy cos i know how you feel. i havent ate for 3 days, i feel sick, i cry, i can't sleep and thoughts are just racing through mind mind from regret to what if id done that and i shouldve said that etc etc etc. it won't go away, the knot in my stomach is too much to bear. the hurt is undescribable. i expect you're going the the same emotional spell too. ive just sent a final goodbye from the heart letter (hoping she'll contact me) but ive heard nothing. i want her back but theres only so much you can do without creating hassle and causing her to hate you. like your ex, there'll always be a place in your heart for her, likewise with me. Y'see ive been through this before a few years back and believe you me Trav, the pain eases then eventually goes away, you think it never will, but i assure you it will. my emotional stage today is depression, i see no point to life anymore, im in deep pain and im very lonely and the happy memories are upsetting me badly. like your ex said, mine did too, she said she can't take me back cos she don't deserve me, unfortunately the other reply you got is right, they are saying that to ease the pain of the break up to get you away. my other ex of a few years back did that too. i really hope you get back with her and although its hard, really hard, you gotta go with that other reply you got cos its true: pretend you're getting on with your life and are happy. women dont like men who whimper and become gibbering wrecks, they will only come back to you when they see you are doing ok without her (although you're really not!). believe you me mate i have great sympathy for you as im going through the same, the heartache is tremendous and like you said when a song comes on to remind of your times it kills, it really kills. let time do its job, look at your emotions each day, was today as bad as 3 days ago? anger, upset, jealousy, hate, confusion....it's a process and can go in any direction with the hurt one. i wonder if my ex is thinking about me now and if shes read my letter? the frustration and wonder nags at me. give it time mate, anything could happen! Carl email removed
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