What do you guys think about a relationship that became dependant the first time around? AFter 3 weeks of NC I am beginning to realise how much me and ex relied on each other and how unhealthy we were. I still really like the person he is, and i think he likes the person i am, we just got so in each other's faces that we became destructive. I obviously would never want that kind of relationship with him again, but I do have hope for some sort of reconciliation.