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you made a decision. you have to stick to it. try to keep in mind why you moved and why you didn´t move in with him in the first place. if this is his reation to not getting what he wanted, it is like blackmail. i know you feel like everything is falling around you... but... if this guy is really worth it, he will know that he is being childish. first... not talking to you, breaking up by internet... come on! you deserve better than that and after all the time you have been together, he should know it. so, don´t try to talk to him right now, don´t apologize for something that isn´t wrong... send him a letter or message asking him to be nicer, to answer some questions you have and help you understand all this a bit beter. hope this helps

ok! the cheating is bad and yes you could concentrate on that but I guess that what really gets to me is the fact that she isn´t able to back you up with things you do. so if you leave in order to do something for youself.. she can´t take it. she feels threatened. and of course... you are still far away and that is why she would rather be with someone that is by her side. do you really want to be with someone that is so dependant on you? someone that will take the easy way out if you do something that she considers unfair? and if you finally decide to go and follow this career opportunity instead of backing you up, sleeps with another and most importantly leaves the relationship?