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hey all.... yup i must say i basically agree with lipstick on this whole issue..oh but i do need a guy who makes me laugh like a crazy too yeah i concur, I totally cannot STAND "ladies men", "cassanovas", "playas" (especially self-proclaimed ones, theyre the absolute worst!!) and other antonyms for 'self-obsessed, egotistic, superficial, chauvinistic beepholes'... mm yah i'm a model, so pretty alright looking and i can assuredly say i get approached by superficial types (ages from like 14 to like 45!! quite a bit and i find them so sad its funny (so dont ever try to be a playa!! lol) ..but yes, i can understand the annoyance you guys must feel!! us crazy females contradict ourselves constantly when it comes to what we want from guys..like we'll say "oh i want a shy guy, but i want him to be assertive and confident"...."looks dont matter to me - im looking for a 'sweet guy' (but id rather eat my own head than *beep* some ugly fat guy who happens to be a nice person)" my best advice is to be yourself because every chick is different and look for different things..trying to be who you aint just makes you look silly and make people laugh, and u dont wanna b a clown now do ya lol im not sure wat i just said..hey anyway keep it real dudes

hey all.... yup i must say i basically agree with lipstick on this whole issue..oh but i do need a guy who makes me laugh like a crazy too yeah i concur, I totally cannot STAND "ladies men", "cassanovas", "playas" (especially self-proclaimed ones, theyre the absolute worst!!) and other antonyms for 'self-obsessed, egotistic, superficial, chauvinistic beepholes'... mm yah i'm a model, so pretty alright looking and i can assuredly say i get approached by superficial types (ages from like 14 to like 45!! quite a bit and i find them so sad its funny (so dont ever try to be a playa!! lol) ..but yes, i can understand the annoyance you guys must feel!! us crazy females contradict ourselves constantly when it comes to what we want from guys..like we'll say "oh i want a shy guy, but i want him to be assertive and confident"...."looks dont matter to me - im looking for a 'sweet guy' (but id rather eat my own head than *beep* some ugly fat guy who happens to be a nice person)" my best advice is to be yourself because every chick is different and look for different things..trying to be who you aint just makes you look silly and make people laugh, and u dont wanna b a clown now do ya lol im not sure wat i just said..hey anyway keep it real dudes

lol hey soz if that last post was a lil long and a bit nasty to the chik who used ya...just wanna say that if she does have emotional probs we should b a bit more lenient towards her..but still, its no excuse to go *beeping* with other people's emotions

Hey there, you poor thing ...hey well im female, not really a woman yet lol..but i do have an opinion, as usual! (hehe).....yes but seriously I'd say that being lead on and shot down obviously aint much fun at all and u have my sincere sympathies but i want u to kno that YOU are the victim in this situation, yet if u want, you can definitely have the last laugh..heh heh.. Although i think this has been said several times, I want to explain it in my own terms.. This chick has issues, period. She feels that she constantly needs adoration and constant attention from other men (not just her BOYFRIEND) to prove that she is a worthy person...she is deeply insecure and unhappy with herself, no matter how emotionally stable she may appear. Either that, or shes an emotionally barren, inconsiderate, 'promiscuous' little so-and-so (damn not being able to swear on these posts! maybe a combination of both of these characteristics..double whammy maybe she just has no idea what shes doing....hmm...yehhhhhhh lets feel sorry for her cuz shes screwed up.. As with most things, I believe silence (yet some stragetically placed grunts of indignation also help to express your animocity, yet definite indifference), and general pooh-poohing are the ultimate forms of revenge it also avoids the full-on vocal confrontation that could make working together a very very uncomfortable act indeed. Plus, seeming like you dont care makes her think that her using you for that whole amount of time was a waste of time, which ultimately it was so yes, whenever she talks to you, do the old '"I'm sorry, not listening!"; "Sorry i didnt hear what you said.. dont worry, it probably wasnt worth listening to anyway", "Do you need counselling?" or "Mmph" thing and she'll b desperate for your attention, like seriously *dying* for it..but you deserve waaay better than this *beep*... but dont worry, she'll eventually get tired from *beeping* herself all over you if she gets a negative or nil response from you and will quickly crawl off to find some other poor guy to victimize.... Dont worry my luv, you will get over her! And you will find some other fantastic, wonderful girl who will respect and love you, and will touch and flirt with you because she WANTS to, not because she needs to fill some emotional void!! everytin iz kool peace out bubs

Hey there, you poor thing ...hey well im female, not really a woman yet lol..but i do have an opinion, as usual! (hehe).....yes but seriously I'd say that being lead on and shot down obviously aint much fun at all and u have my sincere sympathies but i want u to kno that YOU are the victim in this situation, yet if u want, you can definitely have the last laugh..heh heh.. Although i think this has been said several times, I want to explain it in my own terms.. This chick has issues, period. She feels that she constantly needs adoration and constant attention from other men (not just her BOYFRIEND) to prove that she is a worthy person...she is deeply insecure and unhappy with herself, no matter how emotionally stable she may appear. Either that, or shes an emotionally barren, inconsiderate, 'promiscuous' little so-and-so (damn not being able to swear on these posts! maybe a combination of both of these characteristics..double whammy maybe she just has no idea what shes doing....hmm...yehhhhhhh lets feel sorry for her cuz shes screwed up.. As with most things, I believe silence (yet some stragetically placed grunts of indignation also help to express your animocity, yet definite indifference), and general pooh-poohing are the ultimate forms of revenge it also avoids the full-on vocal confrontation that could make working together a very very uncomfortable act indeed. Plus, seeming like you dont care makes her think that her using you for that whole amount of time was a waste of time, which ultimately it was so yes, whenever she talks to you, do the old '"I'm sorry, not listening!"; "Sorry i didnt hear what you said.. dont worry, it probably wasnt worth listening to anyway", "Do you need counselling?" or "Mmph" thing and she'll b desperate for your attention, like seriously *dying* for it..but you deserve waaay better than this *beep*... but dont worry, she'll eventually get tired from *beeping* herself all over you if she gets a negative or nil response from you and will quickly crawl off to find some other poor guy to victimize.... Dont worry my luv, you will get over her! And you will find some other fantastic, wonderful girl who will respect and love you, and will touch and flirt with you because she WANTS to, not because she needs to fill some emotional void!! everytin iz kool peace out bubs

hey babes im pretty new to this site, and im only 16, but just wanna tell you that it seems we're in good company; of caring and compassionate people who seem to genuinely care about others! so uve come to the right place hun! even tho im kinda young i spose, i can assuredly say that ive had my fair share of rough times in my life, and i understand and empathize with the way you feel about being lonely, and most of my friends and myself feel exactly the same way every so often, yet some more than others. it is completely normal. but i believe (and i dont wanna lecture u or anything, just stating my point what separates the people who turn out more happy and successful later in life are the people who get themselves out of the rut theyre in, and embrace all of life's gifts and blessings that we always seem to take for granted. you've taken the first step just by expressing your raw self on the internet!! thats a big thing! and i hope this first step improves your self-esteem its hard to tell from about 4 sentences, but you seem like a good guy!), and in turn, your confidence will shine through to other people, and you really will be amazed at how this will cause people to gravitate towards you..its astonishing...so just try and be happy, confident (no matter what!) ,positive, and decent...and if you find that you're still lonely after that...well you must be living in some real crazy place with some pretty miserable people bubs, and i suggest u move lol! good luck!! p.s- i have one thing to say though.... i just wanna stress the issue that i have with equating the virginity with loneliness...i think that too many people who happen to be virgins believe that losing their virginity will make them connect with another person...i know this is true very often, yet its definitely not always the case at all, especially for younger people..quite often the loss of virginity is deeply regretted, and has the complete opposite effect...from my experience, i lost my virginity when i was 14 to an 18 year old...and after that ive never felt so lonely in all my life...sooo in conclusion, PLEASE dont rush into losing your virginity..sometimes the emotional baggage is just not worth that 5 minutes of fumbling, nerves and naive lust, and all the other horrible things that come out of sex wow...that comment went on or waay too long..IM SOO BAD AT RANTING..LOL..sorry guys, and *congratulations* to whoever read thru it all, especially you, loveyou!! i hope this had some impact on you luv, peace out!