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Massari

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  1. This is not so much of poetry but more like a nice quote to remember Life is like the game of Whist A loosing hand could still win It all depends who is your partner in this game.
  2. I was at this bar last night.. everyone so happy... and somehow I couldn't stop thinking about ex. These words just came to me so here it goes.. any suggestions to make it better or feedbacks are more then welcome. Thank you for reading it. ( I still love here so deeply it has been 8 months almost but I can't forget her. Empty bottles of beer and candle light I remember how I had you in my life Winter is here and I am all alone I can feel the cold through my bone. People come walk dance I don’t see you at any glance I remember the world in your eyes Now I all I remember is my night cries. I am smoking the last cigarette of the day. Hoping to see you some day.
  3. I know what you mean man.. MSN checks.. I did all that too.. nothing good comes out of it except that you are back at square one as you said yourself. I know man its hard.. but think about the breakup with you previous GF. I look back and wish I didn't care that much and wasted that much time grieving, because look I had another gf 4 months after her, prettier and sexier.. I don’t think this is the end of it for me either.. just a little bit more time will help me and u move on and find the next one and hopefully don’t make the mistakes we made with the previous one and do better in this relationship.
  4. 7 days I listen to that song too.. it has been 3 weeks since we broke up. and a successfull week of NC for me. I still don't understand why I replied to her when she asked me how I was on yahoo messanger.. ( I was hospitalized for a day 2 weeks after we broke up cause some anxiety attack I got) I shouldn't have even responded because for a few days after I analysing the crap out of "why she asked me out of the blue how I was" btw I answered very cold. Interestingly her friend who is a mutual friend of us also called me the day after asking me how i am and we haven't hang out in a while, I answered him and all but didn't ask anything about my ex like I always used to, maybe its better like that. I feel a little better these days. trying to go out and hang out as much as I can with my friend. deleted her from my facebook and all so I can't check what is going on with her and its all good. However her sister who is also a good friend of mine.. messaged me how I am on facebook afew days ago...we talked abit about jobs and all ... and then I said "listen if you sister mentioned anything about me deleting her, tell her its nothing personal it was just hard for me to move on while seeing her online and all and I still care about her so much if she does decide to come back to me. " now I am not sure if that counts as NC or not but I didn't talk to her or messaged her. I dun even know what I want to tell her anymore and I am deciding on ignoring her IF she messages me. BUT when I was out today with my friends I found myself starring at my cell hoping to see a missed call from her.. ? why? is this normal?
  5. brother its just that I knowww exactly how you feel!! these phone calls have been made to mee too. about a month ago.. and I was the dumper here but still it was very difficult for me to not to think about her.. and what I had to to eventualy was to change my number. now I'm stress free
  6. fact: drunk... it happenes.. after breakups.. girls do these thnings they get drunk to forget you and when they do get drunk it actually reminds them more of you.. result: she called you at 1:30 am.. to mess up with your mind.. you didn't pickup.. the best thing you did.. 99.9% recovered from the damage she wanted to have on you.. that 0.01% is your why question, which is still difficult to forget.. but non the less you did the best thing. GOOD JOB mate.
  7. he would try to be touchy... thats a clear signe usually and actually thats how I do it. taking the smallest chance to be beside her make eye contact.
  8. My friend do what diggity dogg says. he is always right and he knows what he is talking about.
  9. let me ask you this,, so the past 4 months you have hang out with this woman and you initiated it with wanna hangout or go to place "X".. am I right? So How did you ask her out this time that you know its a date. I mean the ones you went before seems like a date to me.. since the main point of a date is to get to know eachother better and she agrees to hangout with you for this much. I think you are already in.. pretty serious. so no worries. just act the same but try to get that kiss at the end, it will help you figure out where you guys are and most importantly where she is.
  10. I am sorry she played the jealousy card this time, (I know this is tough because I went through the same thing but the difference was that I was the one who ended things with her) and knowing she was the one who broke things off this can clearly be a way for her to justify her actions and the decision about breaking up with you. She wanted a response from you and you acted just right by changing the subject every time she said something about a drunk guy touching her and all. be strong .. I can learn from you mate.!
  11. Iceman... I have no doubt that you will be an amazing father.. you have a good head on your shouder.
  12. Congradulations to you and your wife man.. I wish you a life of happiness worth your wife and your soon to be borne child.
  13. I am really sorry about what you are going through. I know its tough. I am sure if I don’t ask you this here someone else will. Are you looking for some kind of reaction from him? If that’s the case, I suggest that you don’t send it to him because if he doesn’t respond you will be left feeling not so good. I Say write it but don’t sent it just to get it out of your system.
  14. so why don't you wanna make a move? you see when you say you are not sure if you like him like a bf or anything serious that would make things a little complicated and maybe he felt that uncertainty as well. Because not all guys just look for action and get a kiss. Some (including you guy I believe) would want to know if that kiss would be a foundation for something more , i.e. a relationship.
  15. Kissing is not easy for some guys who are shy including me. unless I am not 100% sure that the other person is willing to kiss me back or will not hold bacl I WILL NOT kiss her. I am pretty sure your guy is like that too. and there is nothing wrong if the girl make a little move or give hints, it will make it alot easier for the shy guy to make a move. hope this helps
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