sweetie_33

no.. its not a good idea.. you guys shouldnt stay friends.. i was on with a guy for almost 3 years.. we wanted to stay friends after the break up.. and ya ok it worked for awhile, but then a lot of problems started showing up.. so we got into a huge fight and stopped talking.. i dont talk to him anymore.. we stopped more then a month back.. u'll live with it and move on believe me.. i loved him soo much and was ready to give up anythin to be with him again.. but we werent meant to be, so i just moved on and took him out of my life forever...!

ya it is hard... having someone as a close friend and then all of a sudden u start wanting more then that...i guess i'll just go with the flow..thanks anyways!!!;-)

do u guys think that if we ever got together it would work out between us??

ya.. just do what makes u feel better.. u dnt have to go to ur gfs house this weekend if u dnt feel like it.. and hey, we're all here to listen to u and support u!

i really dont knw wat to say to actually make u feel better... its sad and im sry u should know, that life does go on... and im sure ur mum wants u to be happy and she's watching u from above.. just remember the good times u and her had together, live with those memories and let go of the bad ones and the ones that hurts u and her at the same time.. i know that anything i'll say wont be good enough...but i just hope u feel better and im here if u need someone to talk too..im sry again... takecare...

hey everyone.. i dont know if something like that ever happened to any of u before, but i find it really weird!! i've known this guy for almost 3 yrs now.. and we're best friend.. he was always there for me when i needed a shoulder to lean on, when i needed to talk to someone or needed a hug! last yr he told me that he wanted us to be more then friends! but i took the whole thing as a joke becoz i didnt wanna lose him as a friend and i was inlove with someone else.. he was the reason i got over my ex-boyfriend, and we do a lot of things together, we actually go shopping together!!! (YA WE'RE THAT CLOSE!!).. people always think that we are together.. but i never looked at him as a bf.. but lately, i dont knw what happened to me, it feels weird.. everytime im around him it feels really different, as if i wanna be with him forever... and everytime i see him talkin to a girl, i dnt knw y, but i kinda feel jealous... im starting to think of him a lot, he's always on my mind.. we went to the movies together the other day.. i was abt to fall asleep in his arms, it felt really good having him that close !.. and whenever i stare at him, i just feel like kissing him... i dnt knw if this is love... or what.... i really dont know what to do... i know that he feels something towards me too, but i dont knw what is it.. its like, we both wanna be together but we dont wanna lose our friendship..!!! last night he sent me a msg on my cell that ended with, my heart belongs to u..! i sent a msg back and said, "well, im keeping it with me forever then" and then he sent one back and said, "its all urs" i didnt reply coz i didnt really knw wat to say..! i really dnt knw whats gonna happen between us now that we both dnt look at eachother as just friends..! what should i do?!?!

im here because i thought that i might find someone that would understand me in this world.. my friends couldnt even the close ones... i thought i would find a solution here, thats why i decided to ask for help and tell u how i feel and whats goin on with me and him...

wat im sure of is that he's not using me.. he made everythin clear from the beginning and i accepted that nd rold him i'll help... we dnt wanna stay away from eachother and we both want things to work out.. i dnt have a problem with what he says, becoz he's hurt and i wanna help...plz try to understand what im goin through.. ya maybe i do get hurt from what he says sometimes, but as long as i know its making him feel better, i wont have a prob with it.. and he knows im there for him whenever he needs to talk to someone, because i told him that.. i told him to do all those things to tell me abt her and to trust me with it...all we want is him moving on...

i dnt know... he wants me to make him feel special and loved and if i ask him how he says, "thats what love is, u have to figure it out by urself, if i told u what is it u'll only be doin on becoz i told u too not becoz u knew what makes me happy and did it by urself".. i know its weird, but thats what he says...

i cant just let go of everything we had.. he's an amazing person he makes me happy, treats me soo good, cares abt me a lot, and is really honest with me.. he just wants me to help him get over his first love, he needs me around him and he made this clear to me from the beginning.. but i just dnt know what to do, thats wht im asking for, i need to know how should i help him get over her becoz he wants too, he wants to get over her soo bad..but im not helping!.. he wants to love me and be with me he tells me that whenever we talk abt it... im not doin the right thing becoz i dnt know how, i never felt that way before, he's my first love and i dnt know how to handle it.. i had lots of bfs before just becoz i was looking for fun not love.. but with him, i knew what love is and im ready to do whatever it takes to make him believe that my love is true and help him get over his first love and btw... him and his first love never got together, they were just friends he didnt want her to know.. i even know the girl and i talk to her, she never knew abt his feelings.. anyyways i'll get back to the subject..i just need ur help with my situation.. i talked to so many ppl but no one understood how i feel.. i hope u guys do and plz try to put urself in my position what will u do and keep in mind i can never let go..

thats impossible i cant leave him it'll never happen.. i love him and i want things to work out..!

hey.. this might take awhile.. but i tried talking to everyone abt it and no one can help so i just thought i'll give it a shoot here... well, my story started around 4 yrs back.. when i had a crush on a guy.. and then we started talking and it turned into liking him and a while later i fell for him and couldnt imagine my life without him.. it was weird at the beginning coz we werent used to eachother other and he didnt like me back then...so after 7month we broke up.. and we had so many problems back then... but after that we got back together.... i knew that he didnt love me as much as i do.. and i knew that he couldnt forget his first love as they r really close friends now.. i didnt have a problem with that ebcoz he was completely honest with me and i trusted him a lot.. i knew abt everything and i dnt blame him for anything and i'll never do.. he told me he got back to me becoz he knows how much i love him and he told me that he wanted to love me and get over his first love.. he told me that he wanted me to make him think abt me 24/7 .. and he promised himself that he'll try his best to make me the happiest girl on earth.,, and im having him in mylife makes me the happiest girl on earth... the problem that im facing now is that im not doin the right thing.. im not showing him that i love him, he says that i only say it and i dnt show it.. i dnt know what else i can do.. i ask abt him, say i love him call him every 30min.. he likes that but he says that this is not enough.. those r things that all relationship should have.. he wants more and i dnt know what.. if i ask he says i have to figure it out by myself he tells me sometimes what he used to do to the girl that he loved.. and i try doin the same.. but again its not enough.... i wanna know what can i do to make him believe that i do love him and how am i suppose to prove it...its driving me crazy.. i wanna do anythin to make him love me becoz thats wat he wants he wants to love me but im not helping.. i tell him that i try my best...but it never works.. what am i supposed to do... i love him more then anythin in my whole world... but im not good in showing or proving it.. its driving me crazy.. i know that love isnt just a word... i need ur help.. i have to make things woork out and im sure that he likes me a lot now and he wants me to help in making him love me. he wants that.. what can we do abt it.. plz ppl ur my only hope. and thx for any replies...=)

lol.. i know im asking a lot but, when he's in a bad mood he doesnt talk at all abt good times.. he would just let me talk ..:S i know im confusing...:S

ya i just feel it.... so u think i should just forget about the whole thing and not talk about it.. i didnt call him today becoz i was scared.. i just cant take it anymore, i wanna call him but i dnt know what to say or start with what.. or is it bad idea calling him at this time, i mean should i wait until he calms down?

what if i know that he's lying to me and i want him to tell me everything without me having to always ask him...?