Evil_Bunny
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Ask yourself which of the two can you see yourself with in 6 months or a year down the line. Your BF, your XBF, or neither? If it is not your BF then you are being unfair to him and yourself. It is clear to me that you didn't give your self enough time when you and your X broke up before getting with you new BF. But that is irrelevant now. I can't see it working with your BF. You will continue to think 'what if' and you never want to get into that situation.
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What is it they women see in men? Whether or not they can provide for their children. And this is the same in the entire animal kingdom. It is instinct. You have a lot against you. The stress of finding a place to live, moving, getting married and having a baby! Hell man, you would both need to get on some anti stress pills or something. Stress is a killer and there is no easy way out of it. I can't tell you how to get her back, but if you were able to find a way to make your situation more appealing then she might come back. I wish I could be more helpful, stress can make us do the most stupidest of things and in tends to come down to love or lack of it
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this is about a confusing guy..guys opinion please or girls
Evil_Bunny replied to Emotional's topic in Getting Back Together
Yes guy do this. They like the control. There is no bigger ego boost for a man to think he can have any woman he wants. Not all men are this ego hungry, after a while they are easy to spot. -
You didn't say how old any of you were, and that can really matter. He might be at a age where he wants to have a family. I am 25 now and I am thinking about kids in a few years, a 3 year old boy is very easy to make bonds with. And so this new woman could be his easy way in. But it's hard to say without knowing that much
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What is going on??????????????
Evil_Bunny replied to Sam the ferret man's topic in Relationship Advice
I have had that. We had a good friendship for a long while, and I was seeing someone else at the time. And one day we kissed! Boom and Wow. Talk about blowing your mind type kissing. Anyway after that she backed off, and for a few months we didn't talk. There are some women out there who you have to be very carefull with. Saying the wrong thing at the wrong time can really blow things. I never did get with her but we became really good friends who can talk about everything, and that is really all I want now. I loved her, I know I did, but it was not ment to be. What you have to do is treat her like a good friend, it might be best if you have a heart to heart with her and tell her how you feel, but not to strong! Try to find out what it is she wants, she may not talk to you after for a bit after, but you will know the score and u will become friends again. -
It a bit hard to know what the right thing to do is. Best thing is to make her do the work. She knows your interested, just don't fall into the 'just like every one else' slot. Be mr cool, chat to her when she wants to and when she does, make her feel good about her self, tell her nothing about you or how you feel unless she asks, give her a boost and she will come back for more.
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Are you being paranoid?? Yes you are! Ok you may have reason to be, but it will not last another month if you keep going at this rate. Give her space, let het come to you. She going to see you in a whole new light and she is not going to like it. Even if she is seeing someone else just be in control and without the spying on her!
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OK, first thing I think your ex is right about the bf you are with now, he is not the right guy for you. But you didn't leave long enough time after your ex. I was told a few years ago that it takes about half the time you were with them to get over them. Not the same for everone, buy with my last two girlfriends it was ture. One of which was a 2 year relationship. Another thing, is that your ex sounds like he has got his head screwed on. Cleaned up his act after you left, really made the effort and all. People can change, (your ex being one maybe) and you can't make people love someone they don't have the right feelings for. (This in my view is your newest bf). This is just my view to what you are saying your self. You know what you want to do. It's just not very easy to do.
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yeah, go fot it. One thing I will add to that is that some women will not let go of one boyfriend till they have found another. Nothing wrong with that, it's just the way some women are.
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If this one is a flirt then you have to play it cool. Get her to come out with you and your mates, as a friends thing. If she chats more to your mates then don't go there. But if she just wants to talk to you then rock and roll. Sounds like a game I know, but it's the only way to play it.
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I have been there, ok I'm not 31, but I have done the looking on the web for the answer. But I don't think you are asking the right question. What you really want to know is it ok with everyone, and thats easy to answer. No! But you know that anyway. It's the parents you need to get the ok with. No body else matters! Seeking around is not going to help things. Work out what you want. If you do want to be with this girl then you need to talk to her dad. (He is not your mate anymore.) It needs to come from you first. Otherwise how will that make you look
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I am going to say no to that. Why do you need to know. Do you want to change who you are, I hope not. Be your self all the time. Don't try to be something else to please others. Some thing to think about, but do you really think he will tell you the whole truth when he calls you? ? ? Don't trust a man if he wants something, and if he is calling you (the ex) then he wants something.
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Should I tell him I Love him first?
Evil_Bunny replied to deviousj420's topic in Trust and Relationships
Wait for him to say it first. You are still in the new relationship stage so say "I love you" to soon can make things worse. Don't think so in your case. But if you wait a bit longer, it will be worth it! -
Your the only one person who knows right answer, I can't tell you what to do. The best thing I think you can do is go off for a weekend on your own or with a girlfriend of yours. But no men. You have to work out who you want to be with. Even if you lose them both it will be better than staying with the wrong person.
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He has got a hold on you, what with that "really expensive bracelet", and until you get that back he has control. Get it back asap and forget about him.