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  1. havent written any years...my best shot right now i guess... So can you really not feel How you tear through my veins? Everything you do Treads on my heart I’ve never felt my body Feel so hot before When I say goodbye I never asked for much I think about the ways you hurt me And it makes my heart beat faster And in this dark, empty house It’s the only thing I can hear I guess it’s very easy When you’re us To really think That this…is…it…
  2. So... the gf is coming into town this weekend to stay with me for a few days. We have yet to go all the way, but we've done everything else. We have talked about it together, and we are planning to go ahead and sleep together while she's here. The thing is, I'm a virgin, while she is not. I love this girl to death, I really do. She makes me happy and I am 100% comfortable with her. But, for some reason, I'm terrified. I don't know why...I guess it's just a big step in our society. My biggest concern is that my nervousness will translate into um, an inability to perform, so to speak, so... does anyone have any advice to help calm my nerves? Like I said, I'm crazy about this girl, and would want to lose it to no one but her, yet I still have this anxiety...
  3. So, me and the lady went out tonight, and we parked the car in the parking lot of my family's apartment complex. Of course, we start getting hot and heavy, and she starts rubbing me down there. We've gotten pretty heavy before, and although we are both ready to start moving forwards, this is the first time we have done anything sexual. So, anyways, while she's touching me, she kinda stops and asks me if there's anything I want her to do. I don't know what the **** happened, but that just killed it for me. I was so turned on, and within a few seconds, I just lost it all. She of course felt kinda bad that it happened, but I feel like ****, being a 20 year old guy and I couldn't even keep it up. I was a bit nervous too, seeing as we were in a parking lot, and because I haven't been with a girl in over a year, so I'm that contributed too. Maybe I came here just so I can vent, but if anyone can offer any kind of advice, please help me. Like I said, I guess I just thought about it too much and got nervous...ugggh
  4. So my mom and sis will be leaving town for the weekend, meaning I'll have the house to myself. There's a girl up here I've been getting pretty serious with, and she's been hinting to me that she wants me to go down on her while we have the house to ourselves. I've always wanted to try it, but thelast girl I was with thought it was gross and wouldn't even consider it. So, seeing as I want to do a good job, but have no experience, I thought I would come here for advice from both the guys and gals. How to even start, what to do when I get there, etc... I'm sure there's lots of this info online, but I wanted to get some first-hand opinions...thanks
  5. and what kind of routine would I use to get that? High reps and low weight? What about diet?
  6. So, Ive lifted weights and done cardio and all that junk for a few years, and yes, they do keep me in better shape than I would be if I didn't do them. The thing is, I've always been kinda relaxed in my routines; not really following a strict schedule, not having any specific goals. So, with the new year coming and all, I really want to get serious about getting in really great shape. Now, here's the problem. It seems like the first step would be setting a goal to reach. But every time I set my eyes on a goal, something else comes up, and I switch my goals over to that. For example, I wanted to really bulk up and gain a lot of mass, so I started thinking about what kind of changes I need to make to allow this change. But then I started thinking, maybe I want that real long, lean look that you see with sprinters, which means I would have to eat and train differently. I don't know, I guess I just need some kind of focus. Any ideas or advice?
  7. So, my best female friend has been suffering from pretty serious anxieties and depression lately. Her mother is very sick and depressed, and it puts a huge burden on her. Also, her job is pretty horrible, which makes her even more miserable. Plus, I told her there was this one DVD I wanted for Xmas, and of course, it's so rare, she drove all over town trying to find it, and still couldn't track one down. I feel so bad for her that she is having to deal with all this junk, and I feel even worse that I kinda added to it. It frustrates me that there's nothing that I can really do to help her out. I let her know that I'm there for her, and that I can help her out with anything if she needs it, but it still kills me that I really can't make her feel better. I don't know what else I can say or do for her to make her feel better, so any advice would be great.
  8. For the last few months or so, I've had this strange kind of paranoia or stress that I can't define, and it seems like it's getting worse and worse. I just feel like there are so many things pulling me in in so many directions, and I feel lost and alone. All this semester I've gone through some pretty crazy stuff. I found out last week that my grandfather has basal cell cancer. Also, my truck has broken down, which means I'm about to get fired from my job. Also, my sister and her friend that I'm seeing have been visiting me, and they just left this morning, and I feel even more alone than before. Plus, I am part of a team project at school, and all my team members do is make me feel bad about myself because their abilities are better than my own. My whole life, I've been the guy that people come and cry to, and whenever they are depressed, I always tell them that it will always get better. I don't know if that's true though, because whatever it is that's up with me just seems to be getting worse. No matter how many friends I have around me, I still feel so alone. I've noticed that I'm becoming more and more nervous and anti-social, and it's hard for me to eat or sleep. I would like to think that once school lets up, I'll finally be able to ease my mind, but it just feels like no matter what I do, something else will come up and burden me even more. Please, if anyone has any kind of advice or reassurance, please share it...
  9. This one's for the guys... I've always kept my face clean-shaven, but I've decided to let it start growing out a bit. Is there any way to maintain that scruffy sandpaper look that you get after a couple days? I don't mind buying a trimmer so I can keep that look all the time...
  10. So, within the last month, 2 of my close female friends have both told me that they have feelings for me, and they wanted to nudge our relationship into being more than just friends. I thought they had gotten together and were just screwing with me at first, but then I realized that there's no way they could even know each other. I love them both to death, but I see them only as very good friends. I don't know exactly what to say to them, as I don't want to hurt them, and I don't want to compromise our friendship. Any advice?
  11. So I'm staying with my family for the summer, and I've been hanging out with my younger sister's friends who are only a year or two younger than myself. The thing is, I started liking one of her friends early on in the summer. She drunkenly told me one night that she liked me, which obviously, I thought was great. However, I've always been horrible with girls when it comes to anything past being friends. I'm going home in a week, and although I've had several oppotunities to kiss her, I can't get the ****ing courage to just do it. I feel so stupid and mad at myself afterwards because this girl is absolutely gorgeous, and I know that I just passed up a perfect chance. I at least want to show her how I feel before I leave, but I don't know how to kick my own butt into gear. Anyone have any ideas?
  12. So my sister has this friend. She's a great girl, super funny and smart, and we get along really well and hang out from time to time. The thing is, 95% of the time, she acts solely like a friend towards me. The other 5% takes place when she's been drinking, when she proceeds to basically just jump my bones. Now, I'm not complaining by any means. But I have to admit that I like her a lot, and it sucks that she's only physical when she's intoxicated. The last time she was at our house and she had been drinking, she told me that she liked me, but she seems like she wants to keep thngs the way they are right now. Maybe I'm just venting or whatever, but any kind of words of wisdom or advice would help greatly. P.S. Yes, this girl is legal to drink, and yes, she does know what will happen with is when she drinks, and yes, she is fully aware of what she has done the morning after. I don't want anyone to think that I am taking advantage of her.
  13. Hey Stinkweed-I used to play for my schools in middle and high school and I played club soccer back in the day as well. I also play in a intramural league back at college, but not the actual school team or anything. I've always been up for kicking it around a bit with friends, but last night was the first full length game I've played in probably 2 or 3 years. Have you been following the WC at all? Thanks for the advice everyone; I figured I just needed to gain my strength back...
  14. So I played a big soccer game with some friends last night. I was a big soccer player in middle and high school, but I havent played much at all since then. The thing is, this morning when I woke up, the inside top part of my feet were super sore and a tad swollen. Also, I could hardly move my ankles. I stretched and warmed up and all, so I don't know what the deal is. It felt like the ball may have been over inflated, so it may be because the impact on my feet was harder. I'm starting to wonder if I had built up some kind of toughness on my feet back then, and I've just lost it over the years. Any medical/playing advice?
  15. ok, it posted itself early for some reason, but anyways... she told me that we have to put my dog to sleep too. I did manage to snag a job up here, but it's customer service, which is literally at the exact opposite end of where I want to be in the work spectrum. I just sit behind a desk with a little tie on, and people call me and complain and yell and scream and insult my intelligence. I'm a pretty sensitive guy, so they start to get to me after a while. The only reason I have this job though is because I have a few tickets to take care of, and I'm pretty sure I have a warrant out for my arrest right now, thanks to to some older tickets. I'm not a dangerous driver or anything; it's just that I was forced to do some driving after my insurance and inspection had expired. I've tried telling my mom that I will most likely be tossed in jail if I run into a cop, but she doesn't seem to really care. I'm so miserable and worried about everything right now, and my birthday is coming up too, and I really don't want to be unhappy or in jail on my birthday. For the first time in my life, I really don't know what to do, mainly about my ticket situation, and it really scares me. Although words of reassurance would help right now, I would really appreciate advice or ideas as to how to get out of this situation. Like I said, all the problems with my family and my job are pretty minor compared to my tickets, so I want to try and fix that first. Ok, sorry for the long story, but I really need help...
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