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I worked at a summer camp all summer, and it being a boy scout camp , i was warned numerous times about guys being constantly after me. I went up to work with the intention of not getting involved with anyone or anything, but for some odd reason it didn't turn out that way. I will admit, i am only 17, and should have no idea what love is yet. But the guy i meet was completely amazing. I have had past expiriences that cause me to not easily trust people, so when we first dated, i wouldn't even let him put an arm around me. he didn't understand why, but he waited. No matter what i didn't allow him to do, he waited. I am not the prettiest thing on this planet, so i was haveing trouble comprehending why he was even interested in me. When i asked him, his reasons were unbeleivable...everything i ever wanted. We spent the summer together, but at the end, me moved about 3 and a half hours away from me. There are some nights i cry myself to sleep because i miss him so much. Talking on the phone and internet isn't enough. I even get teary eyed when i hear his voice on the phone!! i want to believe my actions are ridiculous, but it feels right. My fear is that it is just another silly teenage relaionship, and i hope its not. is there good enough reason to put up with this distance? is something that i think is love a good enough to be miserable every day i don't get to see him?

well my parents totally don't know anything and i know they wouldn't agree with it, i already told him that it can't work, and it hurt him. I never ever plan on having sex with any bf i have, and he knows my morals on that, funny thing is is that i have never kissed a guy, that he doesn't know. But first if was my friends making the accusations, and it spread everywhere, some adults know

OMG!!! i am in venturing too!!!!!!!!!! that is crazy, and i am having a similar problemo with someone 5 years older than me!!!! BSA trouble!!! gees!!

Well i shall start off by saying that i am 16. i meet someone a while back, 6 months about, and we have been pretty good friend since. He gave suttle hints of likeing me, but i ignored them because i didn't want it to be true. he is 21. I understand that 5 years is way too much. but a couple months ago accusations were made about me liking him. That was extremely upsetting, because i could never really think of him as anything other than an adult. i have grown to interact with him as a friend, which has been hard. About a week ago, The accusations finally turned to true accusations, it was he that liked me, not me that liked him,a nd he finally admitted to likeing me. I thought i knew what i was going to say when this happened, i had everything planned. But, when it did come out, i cried. I had to call a friend and he had to give me the guts to answer him back. I cried mostly because i knew i was hurting a good person. At first most people think pervert, and i thought on that for a while, but he isn't. It hurts so bad, and i am just glad he is still talking to me. I could never forgive myself if he quit the activity that we meet in. and he almost did that, and i was able to talk him out of it. I know his feelings are sincere, and it hurts to see him go through this. I already figured me out, even if i do like him, nothing can happen because of the age gap. Whether or not i have feelings for him, i still can't. how do i make sure he is ok...and keep the false accusations away?

I wrote this a few weeks ago...please give me your thoughts and arguments You know what right and wrong is, don't you? Of course we all do, but what is the correct right and the correct wrong? I relate this to God…..why would God give us a heart to feel right/wrong if he wants us to believe and feel certain things about him? Among all of the religions out there, each person belonging to his/ her denomination feels "right" about their religion. So why do people continue to argue about which religion is right? If we feel it right….it could still be wrong……but believing a certain way about god is similar to feeling a certain way about your moral values, there is a certain sense of "righteousness" involved. This brings me to my conclusion that no one religion is correct, nor are any wrong. Why would god want us to spend our lives trying to figure out what believes are right regarding him rather than commit to right on earth? Some religions make it seem as if you dedicate your whole life to heaven, and preventing yourself from going to hell. I agree that everyone should read the bible at one point in their life, but I believe that you discover what happened and how. The bible does not answer any why's, in which case those being the most asked about. So whether you read the bible or not, you will still be back at square one if you are looking to discover anything about why. One more thought that I will leave you all to ponder as you wish. Everyone says that diversity is what makes the world….right? having a diverse community is what has developed the human culture. So why would god not throw diversity into the truth? There are many different versions of the bible out there, but with only one version would the world be more interesting?

My 28 year old cousin told my parents that i had hung out with this 21 year old (me=16). We just hung out as friends, and all i had ever intended is for us being friends. And my cousin thought he was eventually going to rape me...so told my mom. Now my mom keeps accusing me that we are secretly dating, and we are not...so i am beng punished for the wrong reasons. When i went to the mall with him.i even took pepper spray with me, and i had people on backup call if anything happened...even i am having a hard time trusting him. I have never seen this side of my cousin before and it has scared me silly...i have been able to confid in her from elementry school, and now this. I could get this guy kicked out of his job/organization that he has been involved in for many years if my mom decides to tell about these false accusations. I was on a down hill slope in many aspects...and as a friend, he helped me back up. how do i explain that one to my mom??? she hasn't even noticed other things that have been changing about me. What do i do? fall back under to obey my parents? or be know as the rebellious teen and stay up on the hill?

Well, why do people disagree with relationships whith age gaps? I met a 21 year old through an activity i am involved in. Me being only 16, and have never meet someone in that age range before..i automaticly considered him an adult. I never thought anything. Then one day someone began to spread rumors that he and i were secretly going out....which under all circumstances were false. Even if we were....it would get us kicked out of the organization, and i am an extreme goody goody, so where that rumor came from i don't know. I have been getting to know him better, and he is pretty cool. But i still think 5 years is too much. Even if i did like him back..i would still say no, because of the age difference. The Other problem is that i never got to figure out what i feel about the whole situation since accusations were sprung on me. To make things even worse.....i figured out he does like me....and it couldn't get anymore obvious. He respects me and hasn't done anything stupid, which is a big fear of mine, I just dread the day he decides to confront me about his feelings. I enjoy hanging out as friends, but its hard when people turn it into something it is not. What should i do?? I thank you all who have commented.....but I don't think i made my question clear. He is one of the coolest people i know....i just have no idea how to tell him No when he confronts me about his feelings. And the other issue is that i enjoy hanging out with him, but how do i turn away the accusations?? are we sussposed to sacrifice our friendship just because of some rumors?