sweetie14

ok well my boyfriend tried to cheat on my for my best friend Missy. We broke up and I miss him to no end. I cant believe he hurt me like this to finger her with me just right upstairs! She pushed him away and said she couldnt cuz of me and he told her to forget bout me! Today I cried in my best friends arms so bad. I cant stop cryin he promised me so much, and bout how he dont cheat. He seemed so sincere. I cant forget about him, hes that kinda person, I mean I really feel dirty to let him play me like this...wut should i do?

Ok listen to me...and take it to heart. Dont date either of them. I was in the same situation. A guy liked me and my best friend and didnt know who to pick. He picked me and my best friend hates me for it and we fight all the time. Now if u pick one and not the other it definantly will cause problems between them 2 and u......good luck on whatever u choose!!

ok before I get started plz read this link removed Well yeah he tried to cheat on me....I was so hurt but I couldnt cry, I wouldnt reject myself to cry over Steven, I couldnt do it, so I thought paybacks!! I know wut I did next was just plain awful. I called my exboyfriend and asked him if I could come over. Well I did and we kissed. Like 10 mins later Steven calls. He was like so your over your exes. If u are all im sayin is its over. I go excuse me. U was all up and over my best friend. Hes like no I wasnt. Hes like I dunno u that well. Im like yeah wut u gettin to. hes like its over. Im like its over ok, and he called me beat. Then what i did next was so hard. I hung up on him. 2 hours later my cousin called him. He turned it all round on me sayin i did stuff with my ex and that he never touched my best friend, who isnt my best friend anymore over gay reasons. ow so many pplz are gonna be after me and I duno. I really really thought he was different. Oh and he was tryin to get with my cousin to. How pathetic! I mean I feel as if I have no one to run to. I feel betrayed so BAD!! I liked him so much, and Im debating on if I should kill myself or not. I mean life feels as if theres no meanin n e more! I lost my bf my best friend and everything else. How could people do this? Help me

Oh my god! I've never been this hurt in my life. Please anyone help me!! I feel so betrayed. Well 2 nights ago my boyfriend slept over my friends house with me. And we was laying down and he told me how beautiful I was and everything. We were laying in the attic cuz my friends mom would kill if she knew he was there. Well he went downstairs to my friends room. And I heard her laughing so i went downstairs. Hw was just sittin on her bed, so I thought nuttin of it. He told me he would never cheat on a girl right to my face.....he swore. Well now I found out he tried to finger my best friend!! How could he. Now everyone is tellin me he was high when he tried. But that is no excuse. Im his gf. And hes just mad cuz I wouldnt let him finger me. Im so happy I didnt either, Everyone is tellin me to give him another chance when haha definantly not!! Why would I when im hurt now but if i give him another chance and I get more attached on him Ill die if he does it again. What should I do? I really feel so hurt and betrayed and on top of it the girl he tried doin stuff with is tellin me to give him another chance....GOD!!!

Ok well 3 days ago I met this kid named Steven. Steven asked me out and I said yeah, not knowing he had an obsessive ex that would just bout kill for him. She is harassing me left and right, he is such a sweetheart though, I mean i didnt think he was worth all the trouble til last night when he slept over my friends house with me. He respects me, well he wanted to do stuff anf he tried to push me into it, BUT he knew when to stop, and I really like that bout him! I mean im not ready for sex, im only 14 years old I use to think I was but not no more! Well im so afraid of fallin in 2 deep with him and get hurt. But he promised me he never broke up with girls he hates it, that he lets the gurl break up with him! But I dunno. I asked him what he would do if a girl cheated on him would he dump her, and he said no he'd tell the gurl its either him or the guy. I mean i dunno, I really like him. I just hope he dont hurt me. Which I highly dout he will but....theres always chances wut should I do?

Ok heres my story....yesterday I was at my best friends house and there was a knock at the door. It was my best friends sisters friend...also known at my best friends sisters best friends ex boyfriend. Well I was into him and he was into me and asked me out...I said yea....His names Steven. Well terri his ex girlfriend is talkin so much smack and wants to fight me cuz Steven went in to kiss me. I mean the stuff she is sayin bout me is horrible....Well the situation now is she wants to fight me over Steven....and now she is tellin me he is callin her sayin he loves her and wants her back....I donno if its true...I mean he seemed so into me....but hes also sort of a player.....I heard he uses girls for sex....what should I do...I mean he aint worth fightin over....I even told terri she could have him i dont want him but she keeps sayin she wants to fight me.....What should I do?

ok... now if shes 17 and she wants to do stuff wit u then dont be afraid to let her... if u luv her and she claims to luv u then it shouldnt matter if she has seen a real penis or not and if not than u can coach her through it... and.. im pretty sure she has seen a penis before because the now have chats and the internet in which u can send profown pics on

Ok well my best friend and I are still virgins....were remaining ageless because people may think were not the right age to have sex....but anyways what moves could you do and like I dunno we are just confused on how and what to do first....can people help us? Thx also were afraid we'll do sumtin wrong or of the pain....haha weird right?

Ok Heres my story.....My best friend liked this kid named eric and he was like in love with her but she was in luv with another guy Matt, so I guess he waited and gave up hope on waiting any longer, so him and I started to talk on aol. He told me he liked me and everything, but the problem was he has a gf. He told me he was gonna pick me up so he did. To make a long story straight he made out with me while he had a gf. Everyone is tellin me he is a player and I believe it, i dunno but I feel I need him, when I definantly dont need him cuz we just started talkin, maybe its the fact of he seems like a sweet guy and I want him in my life I def not need him though! Well he is in Cancun for a week, he asked me out the day before he was goin 2 Cancun and I told him id give him my answer when he came back, because I mean hes gonna be in Cancun doing who the heck knows what, I wouldnt be able to put up with the pressure of wondering what he was doing. Hes been gone for like 3 days now, and I have been doing so much thinking.....and I came to the conclusion of he is a playa and I shouldnt get involved! Well Im thinking Id be better off to just ignore him, when he trys to get in touch with me when he gets back. Its something I really dont wanna do but maybe I should. I mean he cheated on his gf who knows what he'd do to me, and Id def wouldnt be able to put up with it! I like him so much though, like when we was kissing I really felt a connection! Should I just talk to him? Plz help!

Ok My story may be long but PLEASE give me advice! I need good advice so I dont get hurt! About a month ago I met these 2 guys Mike and Eric. They flirted with me and my best friend Melisa. In the beginning I was with Eric and Melisa was into Mike. Then I got into Mike and Melisa got into Eric so that night I talked to Mike and Melisa talked to eric. Mike and I fulled around and boy do I regret it. He was only using me for sex. But thank god I didnt give him it! Mike turned out to be an as* and Eric turned out to be a sweetheart and I regreted ever lettin eric go! Well a month later eric got a hold of me and told me he liked me and we talked. He seems like a sweetheart and tells me he would never cheat on a girl. Ha what a lie....Yesterday he made out with me when he has a girlfriend Ariel. But hes tellin me hes gonna break up with her and that he likes me alot. But the way I got hurt with Mike makes me think. He did ask me out last night but I told him no cuz he was goin 2 Cancun for a week, and I wouldnt be able to put up with the pressure of thinkin hes cheatin on me for awhole week! No way! But what makes me think he wouldnt cheat on me....The thing is I have a feelin if I dont give him my heart Ill regret it, but another part knows if I do Ill get hurt sooner or later! People are tellin me he is gonna use me for sex....im 14 and hes 17 by the way! I dunno I really wanna be with the kid! He seems so sweet and all...Maybe I should just talk 2 him and stuff and ask him not wat other people think......I wanna try with him...but I dont wanna get hurt plz help me

Ok.... Well my best friend fell in luv with this kid. Well when melisa was with matt they introduced me to this kid named Brian. I was goin out with a kid named Chris at the time so I thought we would never go out! But I fell for Brian so much and I dumped Chris! So brian and I went out he seemed like such a sweet kid! So we went out for like 4 days. But he lied when he told me he was gonna call me. I saw him once out of 4 days and he was all shy! I dunno even though we didnt talk I liked him alot! Well yesterday he called me and broke up with me for this kim girl. I was so hurt! I tired to keep the tears in...... It was goin good til 10 mins later. I cried so bad. Not cuz I missed him or cuz I wanted him back but cuz I subjected myself to pain again! Also I dumped chris 4 him when Chris and I was goin GooD! I regret it and I cant run back 2 chris cuz he has a new gf! I feel so hopeless! Helpme!!!

Ok Here I go again. A few months ago my friend introduced me to her ex Josh. Well Josh and I started out as boyfriend and girlfriend for a day but broke up cuz we didnt know each other. Well he is in love with my best friend Melisa, but when shes not around he gets close to me and trys stuff on me. and Melisa found out and she wasnt ok with it. So him and I kinda swore we would just stay friends, anyways I was in love with joshs best friend Chris. Chris had a girlfriend named Angel, so I knew I was just out of the picture. But Chris and I started to talk, and he told me he liked me, so we went out. Josh isnt ok with it at all. What should I do...I like josh but I am fallin in luv with chris

Ok. It can be really hard to trust this guy again, when sum 1 cheats on you, you may never be able to forgive them again. Best advice is, try to be friends. Definantly dont go back out with him right away if ever. He may cheat on you again, once a cheater always a cheater, try to build trust become friends, and if in the future u trust him again try again. Good luck

Ok...well where to start. Well my names Kayla. Im 15 years old. Easy way to explain myself is im different from everyone else. I use to be so shy. I mean when i had a boyfriend it took me weeks to hold his hand, it was kinda pathetic. Well lets say I changed completely. I donno with everything that is goin on in my life I feel I need attention and should take it anytime I have the chance. I guess u can say I tured into a whore. Well i mean im still a virgin but I go around alot. I dont mean to hurt people it just happens. I broke up with my bf Dominic and went out with this kid named chris. Chris was goin out with this girl for a year and broke up with her cuz he fell in luv with me, I felt really bad cuz I can tell his girl loved him. But she also made alota mistakes she cheated on him and everything so i donno. I recently did sexual things with chris and now everyone is out to get me literally. His ex girlfriends wanna fight me now, and im in a alota trouble. The girl Lauren who wants to fite me in very tough and most likely im goin down. I needa fight her though or im gonna look like a chicken. I dunno wut 2 do....I wanna stay loyal to people but its hard...

Hey. Before I start all I have to say is Life can hurt you sometimes. People you think you know can lie to you. People you thought you loved can backstab you. Guys can be players girls can be Hoes. All I gotta say is everyone goes through it and TO be strong. Things can make you want to kill yourself but dont cuz in the long run things will get better. Heres my story: 5 Days ago My best friend and I was walking down a street. We were just chilling bein bored. I have to admit we both looked fine in are skirts and tang tops. My friend Melisa goes up to this car. Im thinking what is she doing? It ended up the 2 guys in the car were people she knew for 2 years. I never saw them in my life. And honestly right now I wish I never met either of the 2 guys! There names are Mike and Eric. Melisa started to talk to Mike and I started to talk to Eric. Eric wanted me to kiss him. Haha ok whats wrong with the picture there. I knew him what? not even 5 minutes! I told him simply "im Good maybe later hunny" He got out of the car along with Mike. Eric started to hug me. Mike started to hug Melisa. I liked Eric dont get me wrong but I had my eye on Mike. The messed up part is in the end Mike ended up with me and Eric ended up with Melisa. Mike tryed to kiss me and I told him when I got to know him. So we traded numbers. Melisa and I left. She was acting really weird. This is why... We got to my house and sat on my porch. She told me Mike was a player not to get caught up in the games he plays, and not to touch him. I was like ok whatever. I didnt take it seriously. The next day we saw them again. Mike and I got real close. I ended up making out with him and alot more stuff. I was falling for him. But I knew in my heart I was just a girl hes playing with. It didnt get to me until later. 2 days later, Eric called Melisa and told her Mike didnt go to work cuz he was on a date, my heart was ripped out of my chest. I started to cry so bad. Melisa was like so then what was Kayla and what he did with her? Hes like I donno I just know Mike dont wanna mess things up with this girl. I couldnt believe it, haha anyways Mike had a small dic* and Melisa told Mike I said it, and he got all scared and was afraid I was gonna tell someone. Haha I did dont worry no ones gonna play me and get away with it. Not ever and definantly not then. Ok well now, after I cryed so bad, Mike is denying everything him and I did. EVERYTHING! Makin me look like a liar. And now hes tryin to get madd people after me. All I have to say is let him. He knows what we did, and if hes gonna be a puss* then be it. Im just kinda hurt bout it......What should I do?