PH88

The love we shared, what we have been through, the friendship, the companionship, all out the window. How could you leave me for this guy you had just met so easily. How could you brush me aside so easily? How was is so EASY for you? And now, you have the guts to text me when he was not around one night, the night we were supposed to spend together at the beach? You need that much attention for yourself? I thought so highly of you, but now, you are conceding in my memory bank as the woman I loved to the woman I am glad to not be with anymore. I want to thank you. I thought you were the one, the one I could spend the rest of my life with, but obviously you thought otherwise. Thank you for breaking up with me, for opening up my eyes. Thank you for making me a stronger individual, a smarter person, someone who understands how to appreciate and love MYSELF. Have fun bouncing from man to man like you only know how to do, I hope for the best for you later in life, I really do. Because when you are alone, and have nobody to cling to, you will finally know how it feels. And I won't be around this time to pull you out.

Thanks Sportster. You're right I completely did it for me and I just want to cut all forms of communication with her, completely. I'm just not over her yet. Im hoping she perceives it as strength and not arrogance/awkwardness due to me coping with my feelings. The only thing I am worried about is a beach party that a mutual friend is throwing at the end of the month. I had planned to go to a long time ago as did she so I know she WILL be there. I just don't know if I should go and be non-chalant about it or just not go at all. I have a lot of good friends(new and old) going and I don't want to sacrifice their friendship because my ex didnt want to be with me anymore. Do you think I should go or skip it for my healing process?

Hi bw, I am completely using nc to move on, however I do still love her enough to the point that I could take her back if she offered the chance. But not in the near future. So I hopefully won't be hurt if she moves on as well.

Or anyone willing to give me feedback would be greatly appreciated.

Hey SuperDave I was wondering my ex broke up with me roughly a week and a half ago. Been going nc since(she texted me a couple days ago to check up but I kept it short) and so I blocked her from Facebook yesterday.. Was this the right move? I still love her immensely but I don't want her to take it the wrong way that I want her to be out of my life I just cant go on fb without checking up on her.. Does this show her that I am weak and need all communication shut out or does it show that I am moving on?