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Thaks for getting back to me so quickly Yes that is a very good point you raise. in the very last inceident, bout 30mins ago, i was relaxed and not speaking loadly or harshly at all. But in the one before that i seem to remmeber that i was a bit forward and may have come accross a bit harsh and abrupt. i will keep an eye on it tho and try and make sure my voice is relaxed and calm with him. i dont want to upset him, thats the last thing, but unfortunalty i have and he just wants to be left alone for now which i completely understand thank you xxx

Hi, i used to post on this forum alot and then i just lost contact. I need some advice and thought what a better place to come to, because it helped me so much in the past... ...right, quick background of my relationship Me and my boyfriend been together for around 3 and half years. He's 22 and has been suffering from depression for about 4 years now I'm 20 Right, i'll try not to go into too much detail, but basically whenever we have converstaion about anything where we both have strong and somewhat diffferernt opinions about things, it always leads to a rather "heated dissucion" and of one particular one tonight, an argument and now he's in one room and i'm in another. Basically, i am quite opioniated and have been told quite argumentative. I guess it's not a bad thing and it's definatly a family trait of mine, but im not close minded at all. I accept that my bf has different opinions to me on some topics and it doesnt bother me at all and i love talking to him about things because he has a different view and a differnt take on life in some aspecst but he just sees it as me trying to change his mind and that i have to be right all the time. except that isnt the case at all and however i try to explain that to him he doesnt get it. he thinks because i carry on the disccusion that i'm having a go at him and his viewsa nd that i want him to change his mind. He cant seem to accept that i like talking to hima bout things. I do accept from his point of view that i may come accross like that sometimes because i question his opinions but thats only because i want to know why he thinks what he thinks-maybe i missed something and i could learn from what he thinks. Please help me, its becoming a bit of a nusance:sad: Thanks xxx

Hiya i saw your post and i just wanted to say well done. i have some knowledge of cutting as my bf used to cut but he hasnt for over 3months. you are doing well and im proud of you-keep it up

best way to avoid cystitus is to pee before ad straight after sex( does usually happen cos your in foreplay b4 and cudling after) and to drink cranberry juice. i knw cystitus can be painful and annoying but its nt the end of the world

hiya firstly, the wetness thing-it is absolutly normal hun its a good thing cos its lubrication for your body and its alot nicer than say ky jelly. i think before you go further with this guy you need to take sometime and experiment with yourself. orgasms are great and from what you describe you do seem to be getting there but your stopping at the crucial point. next time try again and keep going, and see what happens. it is hard to describe an orgasm but its an immense pleaseaure and you'll want ti to go on forever. try differernt things, maybe in the shower or rubbing against a pillow or on the corner of your bed. take sometime, theres no rush, get to know your body. your clit is the best place to start but it can be sensitive so its best to rub over the clit not directly on it. you seem to be like me in terms of your first time to be special. yeh new years eve would be nice, cos its a special day but i'll give you some advice. i wanted that with my bf too, wanted first time to be special and all so wnated it to be valentines day and we talked about it before hand and stuff, but we decided to do it a few days before because things can go wrong and that way you can have sex again on the special day and reemeber that day as beong the best, even thought it wasnt the first. even though you are ready to have sex, it doesnt mean you have to rush into it, take your time. a little time might help you work out wether this guy feels for you the way you want im too. if you need any more advice, just pm me id be happy to help you hun it might be a good idea for you to go on the pill, cos even "messing" about can lead to pregnanyc,even thou its fairly unlikely there is always a cance as precum is about so better safe then sorry. talkign about wat you like and what you dont like is always a good thing too. communication helps make sex more enjoyable. i can understand te oral sex thing, takes time and in my opionon oral sex can be more intimate than sex can so maybe ease yourself into it, mkae it more enjoyable with fruit and chocolate sauces or whipping cream. i think the main thing you have to rememebr is there is plenty of time,dont rush and just enjoy. ps another thing i find is that, you dont have to orgasm everytime you have some sort of sexual experince, i dont all the time but it still feels so good when you have that intimate closeness with someone. all the best qt xxx

hiya got a bit of a problem-i love giving head to my bf but theres a problem-i dont like the taste of his cum, it makes me wretch at times i hide that from him cos i dnt want to hurt him and i dnt want to not swallow cos wts the point if i dnt. is there anything i can give him, food wise that might change the taste? qt xxx

hey i've not been on here for a while now-life been so busy. i just lost my mum just over a week ago to cancer. cried so much when it happened and at the funeral but now i just feel so numb and lost all over and to some extent, not really sinking in much. just expect to see her again-denial i guess to make things even more difficult, my bf ( long distance, kinda broken up at the moment cos he has depression, but still kinda together too) and i have taken a break because things are getting difficult between us because of his depression and the distance. i'll be moving near him in septemeber for uni so we decided to take a break over the summer so that we can just find ourselves indiviually again, but we're still together cos we're not allowed to go off with someone else. we said we'd still be there for each other and i was just with him most of last week and only came back yesterday from his but just feel so alone. we barely talked at all when i came home and he didnt text or anything when he went to bed. i guess he's trying to do the break thing properly for us both( this isnt the first time -we're not very good at the break thing) but i just feel so lost and alone. been in bed for most of the today and yesterday. im in the house on my own, dont really want to talk to family or friends, not hungry or anything( but made myself eat some dinner last nite) just feel... feel alone qt xxx

yeh i would agree with ForAnother's comment there. i did, but my boyfriend was so understanding and very sweet about it, he just held me in his arms i love him so much qt xxx

thank you so much annie.those really helped especially the last and put me at ease a bit too. i'm going to doctors for my pill in bout 2weeks so i'll show her then. im sure it wnt be that bad, hope not anyways qt xxx

thanxs for the replys. i think i am guna go see doc bout it, but its so embaressing neva mind qt xxx

about 3months ago, i found a spot in a very akward place. sorry to be graphic, but its sort of just below the 'crack' of my bum, a few cms away from my actual anus. it just looked like an ordinary boil-disgusting i know, so i popped it and cleaned the area and stuff. the thing is, it keeps coming back like every few weeks and sometimes the skin around it itches a bit and the spot hurts sometimes when i sit down. is it just a spot or is it something else? anyone who might knw what it is or if you've had something, please let me know thanxs qt xxx

erm, i think that anyone can get into rebound relationships after a break up. in my case, which is for from the norm-totally far away, he finsihed with me and got into a rebound relationship and im not seeing anyone. thing is we're seeing each other again now..well kinda-like i said, complictated. qt xxxx

hiya about 3 days ago i bought an abdotrimer-its ones of those things that you use to help tone your abs up. i want to try and tone up and i've been using it everyday for 30mins. i was wondering if any one can give me some advice if this is the right way to go about it? thanxs qt xxx

i took one and got 137 results from that sight said... Average: 85 - 115 Above average: 116 - 125 Gifted Borderline Genius: 126 - 135 Highly gifted and appearing to be a Genius to most others: 136 - 145 Genius: 146 - 165 High Genius: 166 - 180 Highest Genius: 181 - 200 Beyond being measurable Genius: Over 200 qt xxx

i do, all the time and i love it. sometimes so turned on tho, i have to join in qt xxx